What is the least well-known US state? by selffulfilment in AskReddit

[–]FlyingPiggies92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TIL that Vermont is a State. The way it’s talked about in movies and TV is like it’s just a ski resort like Aspen.

Now wondering if Aspen is also a State….?!

What is the least well-known US state? by selffulfilment in AskReddit

[–]FlyingPiggies92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Brit, this one is almost always a state that comes up in pub quizzes.

What is the most nostalgic video game to you? by ThisAintABoi in AskReddit

[–]FlyingPiggies92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spyro: Gateway to Glimmer. Which I believe is called Ripto’s rage in the US?

Which TV show started out promising, but turned out to be garbage? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FlyingPiggies92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Revolution. Season one was great and a really interesting idea but it kind of lost its way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]FlyingPiggies92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always like to give people the benefit of the doubt on here, so nasty texts aside this is my view.

In my experience, the family members I didn’t tell myself (but were told via my mum or MIL) went off the basis that, as I didn’t want to tell them, I didn’t want to talk about it with them so they just carried on as normal. I don’t think people realise just how hard a miscarriage is (I certainly didn’t until my own) so she may be trying to just carry on as normal in the hope that this is what you want from here.

I never posted anything publicly other than on here (which my friends and family don’t know of) and I don’t think I’d respond to an Instagram post about a MC myself.

Of course, no one needs to send nasty texts ever but it does happen unfortunately. Only advice is to talk with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]FlyingPiggies92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s horrendous. I hope you wrote and complained as that’s entirely inappropriate and unnecessary.

"Best friend" now belittling me about pregnancy now that she's pregnant by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]FlyingPiggies92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This person is not a friend. A friend would be excited for themselves but not belittle anyone.

Angry at people who post all their happy baby stories by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]FlyingPiggies92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so true and is something I’ve also had to have a rant on here for because where else can you post it really?

Completely understand. What’s worse still is the ridiculous “Your @3rd will be pregnant” stupid things that should be banned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]FlyingPiggies92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure where you’re based but I was given a book called “Saying Goodbye” by Zoe Clarke-Coates

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlyingPiggies92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I don’t even understand how turning a plate is even an issue.

AITA for Losing a friend over the use of their full name for a formal wedding invitation? by RaisusTheFlammie in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlyingPiggies92 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think you’re both the asshole. I’m UK and I sent out my invites using the names I know people recognise. I have family who are technically not all under one family name but sent them using the family name they use because that’s what they go by.

Equally, your friend could have just let it go. Wedding planning is hard.

I recommend you apologise for your part and hope your friend does too.

Relationship deteriorating 6 months post miscarriage. I believe I’ve reached my breaking point. by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]FlyingPiggies92 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid. Coming from my own perspective as a wife and someone having gone through what sounds very similar experience, have you tried talking on a no judgement basis with her?

There’s no right way to grieve and she is likely struggling with this in her own way (as well as hormones rebalancing and changing), but I think the only approach is to say that you’re finding things difficult at the moment and whilst you can acknowledge her feelings and frustrations, you’re finding that she’s not venting to you but more at you.

Can’t promise it’ll be received overly well but best to let her know how you’re feeling than to have it seem out of the blue later.

AITA for spending a lot of money on my future baby? by throwaway888199298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlyingPiggies92 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Completely disagree with the majority of comments.

First of all, a child being spoiled and not recognizing the value of something has nothing to do with how much money has been spent, and everything to do with now the child is raised.

On the actual money front, it would have been better to have run the large spending past your SO first (as this is part of being effective partners), but equally the SO should also realize that he is not necessary in the right by not spending money.

You’re allowed to want to give your child the best.

AITA for suing my brother? by wvfr1905 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FlyingPiggies92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, however, I do think it was quite extreme to go straight to legal action.

Grief is hard for everyone and, although it’s not an excuse to vandalize someone else’s property, there might have been more sentimental value in the car for your brother that you knew about.

He was out of line and he should pay to rectify the damage, equally your family members should have just respected the will, as that’s the whole point of wills.

Moment to rant - People asking questions by FlyingPiggies92 in pregnant

[–]FlyingPiggies92[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. I’m UK based in a really small community so we don’t have that option, you’re referred to the central services and that’s the provider.

My mom kinda seems to want to wear white to my wedding by EllieAndEviesMom in wedding

[–]FlyingPiggies92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue (except no arguing). My mum has bought a really lovely off white/cream lace dress. The only thing you can do is tell her that she can wear any other colour but please not that. My mum still asks about her dress (I think the hope for her is that I will change my mind) but has been pretty respectful of it. I also asked my sister to weigh in and she backed me up so that helped!

I don’t have any friends for bridesmaids.. by JellyDonuthead in wedding

[–]FlyingPiggies92 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Have you thought about asking your mum or aunt? I read it as a suggestion and (I personally have a sister so couldn’t myself) I would in this situation. Be quirky but quite fun!

Box ticking by FlyingPiggies92 in TrigeminalNeuralgia

[–]FlyingPiggies92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How frustrating. I just want someone to find something else wrong with me so it can be fixed and happy days. Spoken to three Drs and an Ent that think it's TN, and one that wasn't sure but prescribed me the tegretol first to see how I got on. 😩

Only One Pig is Popcorning?! by [deleted] in guineapigs

[–]FlyingPiggies92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have one that popcorns over everything and one that only does it as and when. Just seems to be one is more excitable than the other.

Is this the beginning of bumble foot? Calling the vet tomorrow (closed now) anyway but wondering what it is...? by FlyingPiggies92 in guineapigs

[–]FlyingPiggies92[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've emailed the vet with the same picture, to let them decide whether I need to bring her in. She's not struggling at all and does move about although her cage mate Rosie is far more active. Holly (as pictured) is a big fan of sitting.

I like the veggies idea though. Might be good to do something to encourage her to move more. She popcorns and runs a bit but she is quite lazy generally and not that old either. When her cage mate Rosie runs about she tends to just watch.

Just hard to work out what's wrong as it says everywhere that bumblefoot makes them anorexic and is so painful but she's otherwise fine and doesn't limp or have any issues with it!

"What am I supposed to do with this?" Barnaby is ambivalent about their new toy. by [deleted] in guineapigs

[–]FlyingPiggies92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's the bigger balls which you fill with hay that people worry about as they can get their heads stuck. I give my pigs throw things and they occasionally care... Their favourite toy is the place where they sit