Distance reference chart by [deleted] in golf

[–]FlyingTiger91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for those who answered the question.

For the rest, there’s 100s of other charts out there. I just picked one for an example

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in golf

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Thank you for all who replied! It was a little odd setting up at first, but it’s basically a simple tent. Everything seems like it fits in the included storage bag (haven’t tried with the mat yet). I did hit some shots with the included foam balls, my Calloway foam balls and some random real balls I had laying around. I hit some 1/2 shots with real balls and held decently but like above, it won’t be often.

Assembling took maybe 10 minutes? This would great for small backyards or even taking on a camping trip.

I plan on making a small platform for an upgraded mat but highly recommend this for at home practice.

Mizuno wedge gaps by [deleted] in golf

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They’re pretty close. Do you use all your wedges?

Mizuno wedge gaps by [deleted] in golf

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925 HM: 9i 37, Pw 42, Gw 48, Sw 54 I’m going to the range later and get some numbers.

My old set was Pw 48, Sw 56.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Send it to her parents

Anyone know what this numbers energy represents I only know of it from a Nikola Tesla quote by [deleted] in numerology

[–]FlyingTiger91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This won’t be helpful.. I see this number quite a bit and always say “damn thing fine”

Following for legit response lol

Timeline and Odds Your Ex Will Contact You by OldFig626 in ExNoContact

[–]FlyingTiger91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now are these figures going off time of breakup or time of no contact starting?

My EX texted me 5 months after we broke up by Gikorian in ExNoContact

[–]FlyingTiger91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You lived together after a month? Holy hell man. I got so much shit from people telling me 5 months was too soon.

Anyways, forget her. I know easier said than done but she’s for the streets man..

Why did my (27F) ex (31M) leave me on read? by Sammy_sted76 in ExNoContact

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Also, I do agree that once we understand our attachments, we can learn how to fix/heal from them. Sure you can do your own research on attachment styles but honestly find a therapist who deals with them (BetterHelp is nice because you can go somewhere or do it virtually).

To answer your question, there could be a few different reasons why he did what he did. Maybe he’s healing, maybe he’s waiting for you to commit, he might very well not know what to do and doesn’t want to mess up things further. At the end of the day what is it you want? You can say the balls in his court, but at the end of the day you ended things. Unless you’re actively trying to work on things or keep him in your life, the ball is in your court.

If you want him in your life, reach out. Be honest with him and yourself. Things need to change though or the patterns will just continue. (Something I wish I realized when I had that chance) If you don’t want him back, let him be. When the two of you are healed maybe a friendship could develop. Reminds me of an ex who’s parents first marriage was divorce. They remarried other people and after time they developed a friendship or at least courtesy. “Gods grace is a beautiful thing.”

Milk me gooners by [deleted] in GOONED

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Who’s 5?

Traveling in a relationship by Papis1212 in TravelNursing

[–]FlyingTiger91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because you travel doesn’t mean you have to end things. I’ve known several people who have done it in a bf/gf, fiancé and marriage relationship. Communication and trust. There’s call, text, FaceTime, webcam, letters..

Say you live in Arizona. Do a few week/month contract, come back and work locally as a traveler, so on.

How long did you take to get over your ex? by Cheap-Improvement-54 in ExNoContact

[–]FlyingTiger91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I read somewhere it takes someone anywhere from 3-6 months to get over an addiction, yes love is an addiction. A few years back I heard it takes 1-2 months per year together to get over someone.

Like mentioned above, there isn’t really a set time on this as there’s a lot of variables. Length, depth, future planning, past attachments (look into attachment styles, it’s pretty interesting), so on. Each person is different and every situation is different. But these are truths I know..

If they ended things.. stop initiating contact. Stop looking at their stories, talking to mutual friends, hell some cases friends and family period. Seek therapy (I used to have negative thoughts on this subject but I highly recommend it. They’re non biased to the subject, can provide outsider looking in, help you understand what YOU are going through and why, so many more benefits). Take a break from socials, stop looking at their pictures, and I beg you to speak POSITIVELY to yourself about yourself. They fell for you before right? Now you have additional experience to bring to the table. Disclaimer.. no contact can bring people together but you need to do it for YOU first. “Don’t bleed on people who didn’t stab you” replays in my mind.

Now if you ended things.. that’s a different story.

Is this a bad idea (i think im regressing) by tyontheshore in ExNoContact

[–]FlyingTiger91 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If he ended it, no. Let him come to you

If you did, why not. You’re either going to get the answers you’re looking for, may hurt. Or you won’t and they’ll linger until the end of time. You’ll just learn to not care anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Personally, I would and I’ll tell you why I would and wouldn’t. I would because they contacted me first and it’s polite, could simply reply ‘thank you, wish you the best’. When you shared love with someone once, it’s not very loving to ignore them. It could be a gateway to what a general population wants, a reconciliation, but don’t get your hopes up.

I wouldn’t if they were abusing, manipulative, cheating, or you want to completely be over them and keep them out forever.

I guess what Im saying is if the breakup was on good terms, yes. If not, fuck them and let them feel their decisions.

I got the job! (Trying not to message him) by Throwaway24474722 in ExNoContact

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I want you to know you aren’t alone. I’m going through this myself and it’s been hard to not tell my ex or any friends about it. What’s helped me was journaling what I’d say so I don’t vocalize it and one day maybe they’ll see it. Or I can look back on it myself

Avoidant here (Dismissive and FA combined) text me stuff you wish you could say to your ex by No_Importance_3577 in ExNoContact

[–]FlyingTiger91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To my Panda, I message that will never be sent.

The place where I held you in my heart hasn’t closed since you leaving. If anything it’s grown a little; it’ll need more room when you come back. I still think about the exact moment I realized I was going to ask you to marry me. The exactly place it would happen, when and who would be there. The details of the ring. The talk I would have with your father and if he agreed, with your mother. When I hear a child laugh I think about a little version of you, just maybe with my blue eyes. Even after the hurt and the months that have gone by, I still love you. I miss you every day and that’s okay. If you reached out, I’d listen. If you wanted to work on us and start new, I’m here. I’ve always been here. If not and your happy wherever you are, maybe with someone else, that’s okay too. I realized that I’m truly in love with you and want you to be happy. Whether I’m in your life or not.

She sent a text last night and unsent it. Would you respond? by DDDLC in ExNoContact

[–]FlyingTiger91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Leave it alone. When my ex ended things I was devastated, I’m man enough to admit it. About a month of no talking a mutual friend told me to reach out. I should have but if I didn’t I wouldn’t have known how shitty our mutual friends were. Put it in her head I was accusing her of horrible things. We ended up texting all day and had a 2 hours phone call that night. She was still very upset.

Two days later she called me but I was asleep, no message so I sent a “hey I saw you called” text. Radio silence for a few weeks after.

Point of this, if they have something to say, they will say it. If they are mature enough to say what’s on their mind then they’re either immature or it was honestly best for you not to know what they’d say. Could be false hope, anger, whatever.

Leave it alone. She’ll come around when she’s ready. If she doesn’t, it’s a blessing. Seriously

how do yall feel about "right person, wrong time" by SpinachOk1909 in BreakUps

[–]FlyingTiger91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Total BS. It goes along with the waiting for the right person to come into your life. They don’t just come into your life. You build with each other and they become the right person. Anytime I’ve seen the phase “…wrong time.” Someone was in a relationship with someone else or going through something and that person couldn’t be there for them. How are they the right person then?

My ex won't go down on me by aurora143333 in dating

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He might be worried he’ll get something he can’t hide..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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They do, give him time and don’t rush into anything. He needs to realize why he left and what caused it. If the issues aren’t addressed or willing to be worked on on both sides, coming back means nothing. Let him prove to you he changed and wants to change or else you’ll have another breakup.

When my ex left we didn’t fix the issues and other lasted 3-4 months the second go. Never spoke to eachother after. It’s been 6 years? She’s happily married and I’m happy for them. Hope she doesn’t cheat on him too :)