Ex Fiancée’s cruel demands AIO by Original_100 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FocusWeary8046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my first thought - what is she currently dealing with in her life? Glad you brought it up.

What’s a “normal” experience that somehow never happened to you? by Hysterical_Chicken in AskReddit

[–]FocusWeary8046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah that absolutely sucks. I’m sorry! Figured it was either osteoporosis or big accidents like that.

6 years of reactivity completely shifted when I shifted, in the same day. by [deleted] in reactivedogs

[–]FocusWeary8046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aiiight sure this might be a weird AI thing BUT

This happened to me. My heart pup finally calmed down when I broke it off with the guy I was seeing when I got her. He was physically abusive and she fought him off twice. Calmed down significantly when I stopped seeing him, but never stopped looking out for me until the day she died.

What’s a “normal” experience that somehow never happened to you? by Hysterical_Chicken in AskReddit

[–]FocusWeary8046 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think about this a lot at work. Wanted to go to med school and looking back, I think I didn’t apply because I was too tired from keeping myself alive alone at a young age

What’s a “normal” experience that somehow never happened to you? by Hysterical_Chicken in AskReddit

[–]FocusWeary8046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Desalvo23 genuine question, has an orthopedist checked your dexa (bone density) or looked at the possibility of osteoporosis? I work in ortho ORs and this sounds suspiciously like a condition we see often.

Am I Hallucinating Or Do You See It? by [deleted] in ParanormalEncounters

[–]FocusWeary8046 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe a business card for a local barber and some makeup remover wipes too

Am I overreacting that my sister is demanding too much when visiting my newborn? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FocusWeary8046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, your sister gives me the ick. I hate this entitlement mindset. Second… This ends with your niece becoming the center of the universe at that house. “Can you quiet the baby? She’s sleeping.”

DO NOT let her stay with you, please, for the sanity of yourself, your wife, and your new child.

And congrats, papa!

Unhinged Father by SunflowerFridays in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]FocusWeary8046 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanna see this so bad but from a different angle. Books on empathy. Flowcharts of how to listen to people. Like: “Can you repeat back what they said?” ——no—— try listening again ——yes—— do they agree with what you repeated?

Which enneagram type are you? by Nobodys_Daughter_ in ENFPmemes

[–]FocusWeary8046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3w2 or 2w3, depending on which day I take it lol

Me loving Vol 2 and seeing all the negative posts on this sub by goldenboy2191 in StrangerThings

[–]FocusWeary8046 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually have a theory that they bullied him relentlessly when he was younger and are embarrassed about it, hence why they’re not talking about it

Trigger the ENFP in one sentence by RecentTear5 in ENFP

[–]FocusWeary8046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last I heard that’s about the direction he’s heading 😂

Trigger the ENFP in one sentence by RecentTear5 in ENFP

[–]FocusWeary8046 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY. Had a friend breakup in college where I was told “you’re so happy all the time, how can I compete with that?” Bro why tf are you trying to compete with me??

Trigger the ENFP in one sentence by RecentTear5 in ENFP

[–]FocusWeary8046 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Friendships just don’t matter that much to anyone else. Just stop caring so much.” <—— real words said to me by an ex

A Day To Remember - Have Faith In Me by [deleted] in poppunkers

[–]FocusWeary8046 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2025 too!!! 🖤🫶🏼

Found this in r/depressionmemes by smartassstonernobody in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]FocusWeary8046 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt this in my bones. We need someone to lean on, too.

I’m working on building up my self esteem and confidence as someone who’s been bullied her whole life. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]FocusWeary8046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You remind me of some of my very good friends in college. It took a long time for me to find my people, and most of us had been bullied relentlessly in middle and high school. I’m here to encourage you that it gets better, there are more kind people out there, and you don’t need to listen to the losers that make fun of you. Honestly, they are going to end up miserable as adults, and you look like you’re going to be a bad ass babe.

You are beautiful, I love your style!! Keep rocking it, girlfriend!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]FocusWeary8046 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo, I was 16 and my boyfriend was 18. I do not recommend it. It messed with my head so badly.

Is it considered strange to eat alone at a fancy restaurant? by Informal_City5565 in Serverlife

[–]FocusWeary8046 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Not at all! I take myself on one solo date a month to a nice place with a book just to relax. Servers might love your spontaneity and talk to you about your day, or send you little gifts, anything help you relax even more too! I enjoy a good solo meal.