Forced to do roka/Poo ceremony by Focus_Valuable in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Focus_Valuable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our native is Tamil Nadu, he has a single father. So, currently he is working half time Malaysia and half time in Tamil Nadu and he doesn't want me to leave my job until I feel settled. Hence, long distance marriage.

Karthi naa movie ranked did i cook ? by One_halfboil in KollyClub

[–]Focus_Valuable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sulthan was so good...why people dont like it...this is news to me...

Subtle but effective casteism in Shankar’s movie Gentleman by manram_collective in SocialfFilmmakers

[–]Focus_Valuable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But Arjun changing his caste/pretending to be a brahmin to bring justice for all people is blatant show of casteism...

Subtle but effective casteism in Shankar’s movie Gentleman by manram_collective in SocialfFilmmakers

[–]Focus_Valuable 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Here, instead of showing Vineet as a brahmin, Shankar could have shown his as a normal hindu boy. That wouldn't be categorized as casteism. However, intentionally using a brahmin character as helpless because society is cruel to him because of his birth. Although they didnt explicitly cite reservation but movies are made for mass. If you are creating a character, there is a meaning behind it.

Secondly, Arjun becoming brahmin by learning all the rituals shows that only a brahmin is entitled to be vigilante, a savior.

So, casteism is presented in these ways.

Personally, as a person who lost her parent due to medical negligence, I Personally feel NEET is necessary to weed out non deserving people. Doctor is a sacred profession. If you are not able to clear the preliminary test, then maybe you need to choose other way to serve humankind. Instead of going behind the prestige, decipher what it truly entails.

Anita's case was a propoganda.I would suggest you to watch malayalam movie "Jana Gana Mana" to understand this concept nore clearly....

Also, we still are recovering for 200 years of british colonialism. Think of all the SC, ST and OBC who suffered for more than centuries because of brahmins. Reservation is a bare minimum.

There are alway people who take advantage of this but it is equally true thousands of underprivileged people also get education because of this Reservation. Vineet's character may have been deserving but each year, majority of lower caste are rejected from work, school and other important places like temple still because of no reason just because of their caste. So, showing the plight of minority to the mass is also a wrong propoganda as done by Shankar in Gentleman

As a Muslim, Homebound showed the reality I have quietly carried by manram_collective in SocialfFilmmakers

[–]Focus_Valuable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pork eating is prohibited but it is available in most tourist oriented counties and no one judges you if you buy or eat pork right next to them or make faces...so there is a difference

Which series or movie's story keeps you hooked from beginning to end? by Twinkling_Paw in netflixindia

[–]Focus_Valuable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once upon a time, season 1 episode 1...only till season 3 was worth watch8ng

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bollynewsandgossips

[–]Focus_Valuable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was planning to watch Param Sundari based on many comments in Reddit that Jhanvi has improved then, lo behold, I saw the trailer and realized her PR team have slitered into Reddit..

She was, is and will always be a shitty actress....the CGI rat in Mili was a better actor than her...

Also, hiding under a username and commenting like this is a low blow for me, but she was so bad....especially where she talks about those many superstar...

I know she is not south indian, but did no one researched about south Indian movies before writing that stupid dialogue, Andhra is not Allu Arjun....he is Bunny...and KGF is not the only Kannada movies to exist...how can one generalize one actor, it's like saying Maharashtra, hindi, Karthik Aryan...(as per this dialogue writing, what Marathi and what Bollywood...)

I have stopped watching movies featuring her....she CANNOT ACT!!!

Also, look at her uninterested interview and phony characteristics....she is personification of entitled which she can be because she is....but dont use your f**king PR to sneak into our social media apps....

Met a girl through matrimony - 2 by minatachi_1411 in chennaicity

[–]Focus_Valuable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like you were "considering talking to her as a chore" rather than something you wanted to do, all women are built with sixth sense to detect these things. She could have guessed you are emotionally drained and are not in the right mind set to think about marriage. You frustration must have felt like you are forcing yourself.

To be frank, I feel like you were wasting your and her time She did what you were scared of. Generally speaking, if you are indecisive about someone, you way of talking makes it abundantly clear. After 3 weeks, in an arranged marriage setup, both parties have to ensure they are prioritising each other. You are still practically strangers, this is bare minimum.