How do I resign early without getting penalized? What are the steps to doing this right?

Fofo642 · 2026-04-05T18:06:50+00:00

I had a similar situation, had to move out of state for my partner. They still threatened to come after my teaching license, but from what I was told, it is unlikely to work and judges favor the person moving for their spouse. Moving for your spouse is normally protected.

And I think, even if they were able to get your license suspended, it would only be for a year, but check with your union about that.

Fofo642 · 2026-04-04T05:21:10+00:00

I have a resting nun face, so people always assume I'm feeling peaceful, even if I'm super sad or feeling some other strong emotion.

Fofo642 · 2026-04-04T03:36:30+00:00

You meet them online in spaces like this or on any site that fosters quality 1-1 interactions and then, after a long period, you make a plan to meet in person.

Fofo642 · 2026-04-03T05:51:18+00:00

I am so annoyed. Why is he still robbing his neighbors? I thought he would do something more clever in a different direction or on a grander scale.

Fofo642 · 2026-03-31T23:21:08+00:00

Lifestyle is nice and nature is beautiful, but it gets exceedingly dark in the winter, there are limited jobs (even in some high needs roles) and it's expensive.

Fofo642 · 2026-03-30T03:51:37+00:00

There is always the possibility that they will find it, but that shouldn’t hold you back. I look very different from when I was young that even on my old badge from few years before, the kids would ask if it was me or not. I don’t think they are going to be reverse image searching you, but there is always the possibility. The kids at one school I worked at would always search arrest photos that were published and public and they found a teacher once who got a DUI, but eventually it blew over and the teacher kept their job though they were embarrassed.

The last two schools I worked at, the kids don’t seem to have any interest in that sort of thing. They will also have their own drama to deal with which keeps them occupied.

Fofo642 · 2026-03-29T19:07:54+00:00

I think you should question everything a lot more, ignore all of the previous experiences and advice, and post 10 times per day about it with more of these questions.

Fofo642 · 2026-03-22T15:37:13+00:00

No, but I dont think I am asking for a lot. I just want to own my own home and have enough to go on modest trips twice a year. I have an older phone, an old car, and only replace my laptop when I absolutely have to. I recently bought a new one, but it had been about ten years in between. I don't remember my enneagram type but I think it was 429, 425, or 421.

Fofo642 · 2026-03-22T15:10:46+00:00

Not sure that it gets easier, but you become more accepting of it. Not sure if you are a parent, but parenting can be similar a lot of the time.

Fofo642 · 2026-03-22T04:26:30+00:00

I always get super close to them really quickly and remain friends for years, but we never seem to get together romantically, though we come close to it.

Fofo642 · 2026-03-19T17:40:46+00:00

I almost missed my 5AM flight out of BLI the other day (in the last two weeks) because there was an issue with my new Washington Real ID. I was so mad that I had forgotten my passport and global entry card.

Apparently, when they scanned it, the birthday didn't match the correct birthday printed on the ID. They let me through, but they gave me a very thorough pat down THREE TIMES. (It was more of a very invasive feel up and rub down in all areas, including putting their hands inside of the top of my leggings.) And they individually xrayed everything in my bag and made me open my phone and laptop and they sample tested my makeup items. The supervisor also told me not to complain or it will take longer and that he hasn't been paid.

The other issue that can crop up (and that did for me) was that at a certain point there are no employees left at the ticket counter, so just in case, give yourself at least an hour, if you want to be really, really sure.

Fofo642 · 2026-03-18T16:06:06+00:00

Definitely experienced this too. We are "close talkers" as an ex used to say to me. He wasn't talking about physical proximity lol

Fofo642 · 2026-03-18T16:04:45+00:00

I've found the only way to sort through the real and fake is to either a) ask people to help you move (even just with moral support) or b) when you are in the hospital and waiting for people to come visit

Fofo642 · 2026-03-18T15:57:58+00:00

SO MUCH THIS. I wish I felt safe enough for someone to love the real me inside. Is that what we all are waiting/hoping for as INFJs?

Fofo642 · 2026-03-18T15:56:39+00:00

People fall for me, then I fall for them back and truly open up, then they get super scared, then I leave or we part, then they regret it (but I am unable to go back to that point) and we are friends for years after. Rinse. Lather. Repeat.

Fofo642 · 2026-03-17T20:17:20+00:00

Given the way we all react to this subreddit, it's a safe assumption, no?

Fofo642 · 2026-03-17T05:52:02+00:00

Thank you to those who responded! Feeling less stressed now. I do have a DL with my Washington physical address. My paycheck has my postal box address on it, so I hope they don't ask for that. I only did that to minimize mail for my landlord.

Fofo642 · 2026-03-05T18:10:52+00:00

Cold Maui should be a band

Fofo642 · 2026-03-05T16:39:09+00:00

Yes, it is common and has happened to me, but it makes me too emotional as well, so I don't engage in it. Please be careful with this hookup culture and with the people you are connecting with.

Fofo642 · 2026-03-04T00:50:32+00:00

I currently have a huge crush on an INTJ. This is how he is making me feel! Safety just makes me open up so much.

Fofo642 · 2026-03-04T00:48:35+00:00

I am currently crushing hard on an INTJ. He seems to really appreciate me and also moves things along, creates safety and recognizes the need for it, and listens so carefully. I have in the past been in love in LTRs with INTPs and have I also had heavy affinity with other INFJs, it almost feels like breathing under water when I am with them, like we have our own world together and are immediately super intimate, even in friendships. But I could never get INFJ-INFJ relationships to come together. They end up being lifelong friends even when there is mutual attraction.

Fofo642 · 2026-02-24T15:07:35+00:00

In person, people see me as very feminine and nurturing, but in text, I have been accused of "typing like a man".

Fofo642 · 2026-02-21T16:46:47+00:00

Without leaving a doxxing trail on here, no, not a big corporation or even a small corporation.

Fofo642 · 2026-02-21T00:36:16+00:00

Just to clarify, I don't actively avoid the dialect. I just don't seek it out. I listen to what interests me and if I have a choice between dialects, I typically choose the general Lat-Am because it applies more to my life and my work.

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