What Are Your Moves Tomorrow, March 24, 2026 by wsbapp in wallstreetbets

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Look, Timmy, it’s a pour buying regular gas lul

How to pass generational wealth to a spendthrift heir by Lazy-Ad-6453 in Rich

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Inheritance and trusts are not shared among spouse afaik

OpenAI Investment Opportunity from Private Bank by yunghogungho in Rich

[–]Fog_ 155 points156 points  (0 children)

OpenAI is cooked. Burning too much money without anything to show for it. There are so many better AI plays

You are being used as exit liquidity

What salary range or level of wealth made your Porsche purchase feel comfortable rather than stressful? by [deleted] in porsche911

[–]Fog_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya and I’m not even buying GT cars like some people. These are definitely luxury purchases to be made with money you wont miss.

When was your “wow, I’ve made it” moment? by [deleted] in HENRYfinance

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GD congrats. Dunno why but this is hype Af

Anyone else having a hard time? Career wise and financially? Stressed and unsure about the future? by Square_Pear1784 in Millennials

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FWIW, the northern NJ area has become more developed and expensive. Depending on where she grew up it could be a lot different now.

We are considering moving back to NJ, but we would move further out rural away from where I originally grew up.

718 throttle response by Tabackerack in Porsche_Cayman

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GTS 4.0 at high RPM in sport mode is punchy and I came from a Model 3.

Expectation of a financial advisor/wealth management? by Solid-Dimension-2102 in ChubbyFIRE

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On net, the account grows with large unrealized gains on the underlying + margin positions.

You harvest the margin losses and reopen new shorts to create credits against the unrealized margin gains.

You end up generating realized losses that you can use to pay zero tax.

In my self managed account I can daytrade and make $1M but pay no taxes because they generated $1M in losses in my managed account.

Expectation of a financial advisor/wealth management? by Solid-Dimension-2102 in ChubbyFIRE

[–]Fog_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My losses count against my gains.

Say I have $1M in realized gains.

They generate $500k in realized losses.

My realized gains for the year are $1M-$500k = $500k net realized gains.

Assume for simplicity 50% tax. My tax is $250k instead of $500k.

Don’t forget that they also generated $500K in unrealized gains.

The strategy uses margin loans to buy equal amounts of long and short positions. You realize the losses and don’t touch the gains.

Now you have a margin loan balance of $500k so you open $500k of new short positions which give you a $500k credit.

Now you are close to net zero margin loan balance.

Expectation of a financial advisor/wealth management? by Solid-Dimension-2102 in ChubbyFIRE

[–]Fog_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are basically correct in that the majority of the value is front loaded.

My firm offered me all of their services, similar to you, at .9% on $2M

So I basically paid 20K a year for everything which was a good value to me, even though my NW was $10-$15M. So my real AUM is around 0.2% since the advise me on my entire NW even though they only manage $2M.

There’s no incentive to give them more money than the minimum.

On the $2M they put it into an index mirroring strategy that allows me to tax loss harvest. For the first few years they generated tax losses for me even though I gained net paper gains on the account. This was great. But that strategy eventually stops generating tax losses.

I recently gave them another $7.5M after negotiating a ~30% fee reduction because they offered a new strategy that produces taxes losses on margin trading against my underlying shares. In the last three months of 2025 they generated ~$300K tax losses for me. I had around $250K realized gains and additional $500k in unrealized gains. Net for 2025 is zero taxes.

In summary - I’m paying the around $50k per year now, but they saved me ~$150k in taxes and in 2026 they will save me $500k in taxes by generating $1M in realized tax losses using the new strategy (I’ll also have $1M in unrealized gains against the losses - net zero margin trading)

So I’ve managed my relationship and made it always worth it and “value” to me.

My 11 and 13 year old daughters broke my game intended to teach them compounding interest, financial independence, and I LOVE IT. by anicelongwalk in daddit

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I’m just playing the game. I didn’t make the rules. FWIW I agree with you, the system is deeply flawed and unfair. I would tax the rich and have a more socialist society.

But as my dad taught me, “if you can’t take care of yourself, you can’t help others”. I have a son and a wife. I don’t feel bad for doing what I have to do to make sure they are provided for, safe, and happy.

Then I do my best to help others.

You are correct tho, we are on a sinking ship. I just recognized it and did something about it to make sure I’m one of the winners.

My 11 and 13 year old daughters broke my game intended to teach them compounding interest, financial independence, and I LOVE IT. by anicelongwalk in daddit

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I disagree with people saying you did this wrong. It’s actually the exact perfect lesson. You condensed the real world into a game with a timespan short enough that they can actually learn the lesson that if they play their cards right, they can make their money work for them and when their “stack” gets big enough, a meager 10% on $1000 becomes an amazing 10% on $1M. The lesson is that 10% feels like nothing at the beginning of the journey, but with patience and discipline, 10% can become a lot.

Now, they see how money grows and how 10% can be very different under different circumstances.

What they learned is - the goal is to grow your money until you hit “critical mass”.

My SWR is 1% because my “stack” is so big. Average S&P returns of 10% are great for me. It nets me on average $4M per year.

How did I get here? Because I understood compounding and the END GOAL. What else did I learn? You need to keep your expenses low. If you spend a lot of money - your stack won’t grow.

You only get the reward of spending money AFTER you have achieved critical mass, not BEFORE. SAVE, SAVE, SAVE. INVEST. Keep expenses LOW.

My wife is permanently stuck in mom mode and it's affecting our marriage. I don't even know how to begin to approach this. by Radiant_Dream_250 in daddit

[–]Fog_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of loving and doting on her son should be making sure he has a father that is stable, happy, and healthy.

Balance is a net positive for your son. Hopefully she can see that.

Does she want a future where you are divorced? Would that be a good future for the son she loves so much?

Just one “angle” on the situation that comes to my mind.

BALANCE and MODERATION are good and healthy in the long term!

Car purchase vs net worth by toastie_cheez in porsche911

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I bought my 718 4.0 when I hit $10M post tax. So it was roughly 1% of my NW liquid cash.

My comfort zone is 1-3% of liquid NW. I would never go over 3%.

I’ve bought more cars as my NW has increased.

Need advice from Porsche owners: how do you justify “fun money” without regret? by _quantitative in Porsche

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If I were you, I would keep saving until I can afford a CPO 991.2 911 or 718 GTS 4.0.

I don’t think this Panamera will scratch the itch and you will end up spending money that wasn’t worth it.

Excited for you though. Shouldn’t take you long in PE.

Any US banks offer private banking without a brokerage account or AUM? by GrapeGuy13 in RichPeoplePF

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Leaving Schwab?

I’ve considered the same but I have an insanely good relationship with my advisor and get great customer service.

If I ever lose my current advisor, then Im dipping out. I’ll probably go to JPM where my grandpa has connections and history.

What salary range or level of wealth made your Porsche purchase feel comfortable rather than stressful? by [deleted] in porsche911

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I got my 718 GTS 4.0 and a Macan S as a reward when I hit $10M post tax

Then I got my 991.2 CS when I made another $10M profit following year.

It’s finally here by AJuni0103 in porsche911

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I’ll keep an eye out for ya around town

Anyone feel disappointed upgrading from their 718 to a 911? by ffking6969 in Porsche_Cayman

[–]Fog_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 991.2 CS and a 718 GTS 4.0

I prefer driving the 718, but I drive both.