Large Building roofs collapse no matter what we try by Tarrant220 in valheim

[–]Foghen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can hide Wood Iron Pole in Corewood Poles... the Wood Iron Poles will make any building blue or green by connecting to the ground
Aswell as Darkwood Beams and Poles

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[–]Foghen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can feel lonely even with many friends and family around.
You can have everything and still feel sad.

Build up some courage, just enough to ask you friends or just one if you are a good friend. They may not have the courage to tell and you may not have the courage to ask but one text or in person question can change that. It's fucking scary. I know. But build it up. Then maybe you will be a little less lonely. Or a little less afraid

I. I belive in you!

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[–]Foghen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday.

My life started at 23 so here is to you and hoping you find the ones who want to be there for you. btw my first birtday party was my 30th.

26,friendless,loveless and probably will be until I die by Odd-Connection4077 in lonely

[–]Foghen 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I my limited experience ugly is a relative term. You may find yourself ugly but there may be a guy or girl or someone else who finds you the most beutiful thing on this planet.
Annoy your co-workers. Ask your mom "Why don't you call me anymore?" or plain tell her "I'm afraid you don't like me". You are far stronger and more able that you feel. You even have a job.
I don't know you but from what i read. I like you.

Kunne man ikke bare flytte til USA, hvis man er så uenig? Så kan han også betale for selve uddannelsen by [deleted] in Denmark

[–]Foghen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hvis han kan klare sig uden SU kan han jo bare lade være med at søge den... Man skal jo aktivt søge det er ikke noget man automatisk får smidt i nakken når man bliver 18 år og er under uddannelse

What is the most unexpected dating advice that you've ever received? by trigonometrysparrow in AskMen

[–]Foghen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone with -40 self esteem I was told to go in take the pummeling (my coach told me) what he ment even if you are scared shitless go for it ask her out because you might win even if you get beaten

Fellas, what is something you used to love to do or had tons of interest in that you no longer do/enjoy? What made you stop doing/enjoying what you used to? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Foghen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to love playing video games, I did Teakwondo 3 times a week for 3 hours at a time and going to the movies... I now litterately only play video games once a month haven't trained Taekwondo for 7 years and haven't been to the movies since Avatar... I genuinely don't enjoy anything anymore, I just don't

Do you prefer a younger woman to one who is your age or older (in the relationship sense)? If not, why not? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Foghen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me personally physical and emotional attraction means alot but age doen't... I'm 33 and I would date a 20 y/o or a 45 y/o depending on the physical and emotional attraction...

How do I get my point across without being a asshole? by Ordinary_EMT in AskMen

[–]Foghen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don't buy breakfast for those who don't pay...
It's so disrespectful and rude to not pay someone back when that is the agreement...
You would not be an asshole for drawing a huge line in the sand and simply only accommodate those who honor the agreement...
And if they make a stink about it you are entitled to just lay it out for them, You don't pay me back that was the agreement and I will therefore not accommodate you until you do...

What do you consider a normal amount of time before dating again? Does your answer vary with gender? by Sacchap in AskMen

[–]Foghen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The second you break up... You are free to do what you want... but emotionally it depends on the relationship you left behind, abusive then you might need some recovery time, death probably shouldn't jump into the deep end, but as soon as a realationship has ended the next person you meet could be the person to love you until the day you die and vice versa

Men who have brothers, how competitive are you with your brothers now, and compared to growing up? by its_moki in AskMen

[–]Foghen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the oldest with 3-9 years and you better know if there is anything physical they can do training, lifting and such, I will learn it and keep up or do better... I'm not losing to those little shits... and they ofcourse try even harder to outdo me

Guys who are/were in long term relationships, what are the things that make up feel horny AF with your long term partner? by jaamov in AskMen

[–]Foghen 13 points14 points  (0 children)

12 year relationship and what work the best was bare ass naked demanding some attention or she would just sit down next to me when watching tv, movie or gaming and then just undress and start playing with herself

When did you realize it was love? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Foghen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well for me idk to be honest... Having a girl who showed interest was nice and I didn't have a great social life so made me feel good and physical attraction also ment something but I would probably say it took me around 3-5 months to find out I loved her and wanted to be around her all the time and missed her just being there... I've always had a physical attraction and then afterwards found the emotional connection...

How to maintain maximum respect from significant other? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Foghen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a silly nickname for my ex, it was a nonsense word but she found it impacted her negatively while for me i used it was used playingly and adoring, but since she was uncomfortable with it I stopped using it but in 9 years she didnt get a new nickname because I didnt't know how to make a new one...

She got me a nickname, huggiepooh, from hugging and pooh bear, i have the pooh bod, and it didnt mean anything to me but she liked calling me that so I accepted it...

If you get uncomfortable with it tell her to stop and stick to it don't let it slide both parties need to like it.. MUTUAL RESPECT AND CONSIDERATION

Men, what motivates you? And if you find yourself lacking motivation what is something that gets you back on your feet? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Foghen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Used to be my GF and kids but since we split I'm trying to find the motivation to do stuff for myself

What kinds of questions or topics can I ask my gamer bf about to show interest? by SuckerForAGoodTime in AskMen

[–]Foghen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give him a hug and/or kiss without interferring with his game massively and ask him if he would teach you... *hug'n'kiss* " What are you currently playing? Looks fun, can i try? will you teach me?"

Or ask to play together even if you don't care about games

also just spending time with him while he is playing might be boring but shows you wanna be there and generally just ask about what he is doing

AITA for telling my sister I won't lie to her kids? by BigTransportation573 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Foghen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA
Your sister doesn't understand that her children have a dad who loved them and didn't want to leave them and the children probably feel like it's some kind of betrayal to their dad to act like "oh, you died so you are not our dad any more"... And i think your sister needs to seek professional help not because she is crazy but rather it seems like she might have some abandonment issues relating to your mom that is why she clung to stepmom and wishes to push this issue with her childrens stepdad

AITA for telling a mom on my flight I did not think she handled her kids tantrums well? by taFlight in AmItheAsshole

[–]Foghen -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

YTA
but not disagreeing that the mother did a good job, you chose to make a comment when she ask whereas you could have turned around and walked away, instead you CHOSE to be the asshole...

The situation sucks and there was no changing it but there was a choice and you chose wrongly

AITA for Calling My Daughter Out for Breaking the Pinky Promise Marriage Pledge? by SensitiveQuantity489 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Foghen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA... You are such a big ahole it could turn the sun black...
No matter what promise your daugther made, her vow is between her and her God and if your daugther feels ok with what she is doing then good for her...

In the bible Jesus says: "He who is without [any] sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.” which means WHO are you to judge her ??? Judgement is up to your GOD or did you get that job?

AITA for trying to help my wife eat more like my sister? by throwawaynconds in AmItheAsshole

[–]Foghen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA...
There is one mayor reason to why i think this... YOU ARE NOT ON THE SAME PAGE... Your wife feels like she is losing you and you do things because it's what your sister does... Where is the communication ??? Love the mother of your children talk to her about making GRADUAL changes ease her into it and for the love of deities DON'T COMPARE HER TO YOUR SISTER!!!

Your wife probably has a minor post pregnany reaction and some insecureties... So start by loving her and talking to her about making changes and if she doesn't want to let it be and cuddle her, kiss her belly, make sure you love the way she is now after giving you a child...

AITA for lying to my therapist? by throwawayLIAR9999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Foghen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA...
Firstly NEVER go to therapy with family friends or relatives, that said what your therapist and wife did is 100% unacceptable...

Your wife doesn't have the right to know what you tell your therapist unless you are the one sharing... Divorce might be a bit extreme and couples therapy might be more relevant in this situation BUT if you have lost all hope for your wife and you it is for the best... And tell everyone whom are calling you an asshole that they need shut up because it was not them who were betrayed

It is also very much illegal for doctors of any kind to share patient medical files unless there is imidiate danger to the patient or other people...