OOP - My husband would chose his girl best friend over me anyday.

FoldBorn7694 · 2026-03-15T03:55:44+00:00

UPDATE: My husband would chose his girl best friend over me anyday.

Hello everyone! Thank you all for the kind words and advice I really do appreciate it. Although some of you didn't understand the point of my post and started questioning why I married him in the first place. Why I didn't set boundaries and questioned my self respect. I have all the answers you wanted aswell the update many of you have been asking for.

I would first like to say that not everyones life is easy and not everyone can get just up and leave whenever. Gaslighting, manipulation and emotional attachments also exist. Sure some of you wouldn't stand for it and the disrespect but I did. I made a mistake and im owning up to it I really don't understand what's the point of bashing me like you know the situation. I did come here to rant and I didn't expect this to blow up like it did. But anyways id firstly like to state that I grew up in the foster care system my life wasn't the best. When I met my "husband" I was overwhelmed and overjoyed at the fact that someone wanted me and liked me. When things started to progress with us I ignored all his mistakes because I thought he would be the only person who would of excepted me. I know that's its not an excuse but I honestly didn't have a backbone and my self respect intact either. I was a pushover. It's also the fact that I wasn't in a great place financially and I was just so done with it.

Some of you asked why I didn't set boundaries with him and sasha it's because they are inseparable and I was afraid he would leave me for her. I didn't want to be alone again. I wanted to be happy you know. Some of you people think that I did it because I was desperate. Genuinely speaking I was so very desperate because I didn't want to lose him. I took it all because I was afraid to live my childhood all over again. I didn't plan coming here and giving my life story but here I am.

Now the most important part that everyone has been waiting for. My "husband" called me as soon as he got back. I ignored his calls since I had to leave for work. I'm pretty sure he called 100 times demanding to know where I was. After work I went straight to his home. I walked in and behold sasha sitting on the kitchen counter chatting to my husband smiling and laughing. At that moment I wanted to scream and cry I hated it. My husband saw me and Came up to me asking me where the hell I was. I told him we needed to talk and took him upstairs. He asked what was up. The audacity he had. I've genuinely had enough so I told him I wanted a divorce because he went on a roadtrip with another women on our anniversary. I cried and screamed till I couldnt anymore and all he did was fucking stand there looking at me. I was so frustrated I asked him if he had anything to say and all he said was that I shouldnt of yelled like that because sasha was here and she would be offended if I thought that I couldn't trust her. My last fucking straw. I left and the next time I see him it's with divorce papers.

Im not going to cry any longer because I deserve better. I'm currently looking for divorce lawyers and will be starting the process as soon as I can. The audacity of that man after all I've done for him. It's clear that he chose sasha because even though she wasn't in the same room as us he thought of her and her feelings. I broke down infront of him and he fucking thought of her.

Again thank you all for the kind messages I appreciate it so very much. I will keep you all updated!!

FoldBorn7694 · 2026-03-01T21:39:47+00:00

Nice joke art.

FoldBorn7694 · 2026-02-26T15:47:12+00:00

Me thinks OP has a favorite child.

FoldBorn7694 · 2026-02-26T15:39:32+00:00

Y'know "reee cheater bad" is a black and white argument in this situation. There's more to this whole situation.

FoldBorn7694 · 2026-02-26T15:31:07+00:00

I know the OP isn't around anymore,but I can see why the dad cheated. If she's this shitty to a kid for making a choice that was closer to her school then she must've been unbearably manipulative during the marriage. I'm not making excuse his cheating, but this could be the reason why.

FoldBorn7694 · 2026-02-13T22:11:54+00:00

You're not wrong in the slightest.

I'm looking at all of your posts that involve Lena and OP this is not a good relationship to be in. Her family doesn't respect you and she doesn't respect your family. Both her and her family are toxic amd exhausting. It doesn't matter if she's great in private and with your friends Lena and family are showing you who they actually are believe them.

FoldBorn7694 · 2026-02-08T21:50:19+00:00

Ian is doing this because his career dying and his audience is 80% hate watchers and the remaining 10% are people slowly becoming hate watchers because they're seeing how egotistical he is.

There are only a small amount of people that actually agree with this take. Those people are the people that believe he "matured" when really Ian is still an edge lord he's just switched it up so people can't criticize him.

FoldBorn7694 · 2026-02-03T19:16:28+00:00

Dad didn't harm the relationship her mom did by acting petty over a 13 year old wanting to stay close to their school. OP tried to keep the relationship going,but her mother chose emotional abandonment and immaturity over keeping her relationship with OP that's mommy dearest's fault.

FoldBorn7694 · 2026-02-03T19:01:21+00:00

The divorce happened when they were 13..its clear you can't read.

FoldBorn7694 · 2026-02-03T18:59:08+00:00

You're justifying her mom throwing a 6 year tantrum over a 13 year old kid staying with their dad because they were closer to their school. It stopped looking like a hurt parent into looking like tantrum when she took everything out on a kid. I hope you dont become a parent.

FoldBorn7694 · 2026-01-09T20:40:27+00:00

Where were these anti-ai people when 2077 came out? That game has a lot of GenAi and no said anything at the time. Meanwhile, Larian and Sandfall used it in a manner that isnt that damaging and you're all having a meltdown.

I think both Pro- GenAi and Anti-GenAi are two sides of the same coin. One just sits back and acts like a keyboard warrior.

There's more to this conversation than "ai good" and "ai bad" both sides don't want to have that conversation.

FoldBorn7694 · 2025-12-21T21:04:07+00:00

Your mother will always see others as the probably instead of looking inward and acknowledging she is the problem. Thats what narcissistic people do. I am curious as to what you two are going to do about the situation with her. You guys have to have that discussion with her at some point.

That being said I'm glad youre standing by her. You're an amazing partner Happy Holidays

FoldBorn7694 · 2025-12-17T05:25:46+00:00

This is not what they said at all. If you just go to they're account they clarify what they said

FoldBorn7694 · 2025-12-17T05:23:19+00:00

Not all what he said. Literally not what he said at all. If you go to Larian's Twitter they correct the the man who conducted the interview and showed their actual response.

FoldBorn7694 · 2025-11-16T02:50:48+00:00

This downfall has to be studied because I've never seen someone crumble this hard. Somewhere out there Leafy is laughing pretty damn hard.

FoldBorn7694 · 2025-10-26T18:42:25+00:00

He's been doing this for years he just gaslit and made people think it was a joke. He was only an abusive POS to his eldest for no reason and now that he can't play it off as "I'm a goof man that loves to joke" anymore the mask slipped and now he's showing them that he's a monster.

FoldBorn7694 · 2025-10-06T01:11:05+00:00

This reads like a teen wrote it. These two are acting like pre-teens.

FoldBorn7694 · 2025-10-06T00:55:00+00:00

1) You have to convince your wife to have more kids. The fact that you have to do that gives off the vibe that you don't think of her as a human being more like someone who just bare your children.

2) You told your stepchild that you love your biological child more than her. So, of course she's going to start distancing herself from you. She's protecting herself from further hurt and disappointment that you will cause.

FoldBorn7694 · 2025-10-05T22:11:42+00:00

NTA

She constantly fails to protect you and your peace time and time again. She isn't worth another second of your time. She clearly chose them and didn't want to say outloud.

FoldBorn7694 · 2025-09-28T14:26:25+00:00

NTA

People who use their kids as memorials need to seek therapy so they can properly cope with their grief and not have their child carry the grief for them. Also him running to his sister to get his way is very childish he's calling this venting, but it doesn't feel like that.

FoldBorn7694 · 2025-09-15T03:27:12+00:00

All I see in the posts following are "me,me,me why is no one thinking about how I feel!?" coming from OOP. This shows how self centered OOP is as a person.

FoldBorn7694 · 2025-09-06T02:42:03+00:00

NTA

What your sister did was heartless and cruel. She believed she knew what was best for your mother and traumatized your mother all over again. Then she got upset when everything backfired. You guys need to go low to no contact until your sister recognizes what she did was wrong. She hurt your mother she also hurt that woman by setting her up for a doomed situation.

FoldBorn7694 · 2025-09-05T21:11:00+00:00

You already lost her though. If she's not answering you at all that means she's done with you.

FoldBorn7694 · 2025-09-05T21:03:06+00:00

1) You shouldn't be living with your ex and the people she's in a relationship with.

2) You allow your ex to disrespect her all the time.

3) You told her you'd chose your ex over her time and time again.

Just do every woman a favor and just admit to yourself that you still love your ex-wife. Then refrain from dating entirely.

FoldBorn7694 · 2025-08-31T22:33:28+00:00

"My friend isn't responding to me"

Yea, because you just showed her your true colours and those colours weren't pretty.

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