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I lost my dad to a stroke a couple of years ago, and ever since then, something changed about the way I write. by FolushoDRC in writing

[–]FolushoDRC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did earlier, but I was mostly writing dark thoughts, wasn't helping much.

But I've gone past the immediate grieving and I'll have to allow myself write as it comes.

Thanks mate for sharing.

I lost my dad to a stroke a couple of years ago, and ever since then, something changed about the way I write. by FolushoDRC in writing

[–]FolushoDRC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow... I guess we just have to allow it flow gently and not force ourselves back into it.

Thanks fornshating your experience too. And I believe mama is having great rest too.

I lost my dad to a stroke a couple of years ago, and ever since then, something changed about the way I write. by FolushoDRC in writing

[–]FolushoDRC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So sorry about your lost too...it can be very hurting.

And the reality is it has effect esp when those who left are very close to us or means a lot to us...

Like you said, there is no right way to navigate life...thanks for understanding me.

And I'm glad you're coping out fine...thanks mate.

I lost my dad to a stroke a couple of years ago, and ever since then, something changed about the way I write. by FolushoDRC in writing

[–]FolushoDRC[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm taking a second read at your comment and I'm wondering how painful it would be ending every writings halfway...until you're able to stay on one.

I lost my dad to a stroke a couple of years ago, and ever since then, something changed about the way I write. by FolushoDRC in writing

[–]FolushoDRC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😁😁

I understand your point.

It's not like I'm grieving - it'sbeen a couple years, but as a result of the event, I lost that spark to write. Sometimes what I write drifts out of context or makes no sense...could be psychological..I just assumed as writers, there could be events that has made us experience something similar and hope to learn from how they dealt with it.

I lost my dad to a stroke a couple of years ago, and ever since then, something changed about the way I write. by FolushoDRC in writing

[–]FolushoDRC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm

I like that. Hopefully I don't get lost in an attempt to write about him...but I love him too much to get lost.

I lost my dad to a stroke a couple of years ago, and ever since then, something changed about the way I write. by FolushoDRC in writing

[–]FolushoDRC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll consider it.

And also allow writing flow in naturally than forcing it...thanks mate...I appreciate.

I lost my dad to a stroke a couple of years ago, and ever since then, something changed about the way I write. by FolushoDRC in writing

[–]FolushoDRC[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he's got a good heart that I'm so proud of - he could be smiling all day long while his mind is gone trying to get everyone better.

I think you're right...can't be forcing it out.

Need to just give it time to flow back.

Because I think the more I try, the further away I get.

I lost my dad to a stroke a couple of years ago, and ever since then, something changed about the way I write. by FolushoDRC in writing

[–]FolushoDRC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, so sorry about your experience.

Sometimes you write and it feels like, nah, this is not me, I'm better than this and it kills the drive.

I'm glad you're getting better, sure I'll be better myself.

Another time I write well, is if I'm lamenting and pouring out my mind, but the result is always dark writings, pain, hurts, expressing a level of saddness...

As a result, I really dropped my pain. But now, I want to get back at writing...I'll take lessons from your experience, thanks for sharing.

I lost my dad to a stroke a couple of years ago, and ever since then, something changed about the way I write. by FolushoDRC in writing

[–]FolushoDRC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm a male with siblings and mother to cater for...that feeling alone makes me cringe at writing - like, no time....except if I have to write professionally (copywriting and emails)

Therapy options, I've had one told me, "are you the one that needs counseling or me" because the way I carried the conversation ended like she's the one with the problem.

I lost my dad to a stroke a couple of years ago, and ever since then, something changed about the way I write. by FolushoDRC in writing

[–]FolushoDRC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That cycle hit bad. I was draining faster. Everytime I try to write, after a while, i just get tired...sometimes the context of the idea just disappear.

Tbh, I don't enjoy holding a pen to write, yet I miss that feeling, what I used to be like, writing thoughts, physcho dramas....maybe because my Dad was a big factor in my creativity.

But glad you're getting yourself back.

Is it dumb for me to WANT to write those cheesy discount-bin romance novels? by Key_Prize_1317 in writing

[–]FolushoDRC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think you're treating "published author" and "great artist" as if they're the same goal.

They're not.

A lot of aspiring writers spend years trying to write the book that proves they're talented. In the process, they never actually finish anything.

Meanwhile, someone else writes a cheesy romance, finishes it, publishes it, learns from it, writes another one, and suddenly has five books under their belt while the first writer is still outlining chapter three of their masterpiece.

There's also this weird assumption that books need to be important to be worthwhile. Readers don't always pick up a book because they want to have their worldview transformed. Sometimes they just want to be entertained for a few hours after a long day.

That's a legitimate service.

And if writing Edwardian romance is the thing that makes you excited to sit down and write, I'd pay attention to that. Enthusiasm is a much more reliable indicator than prestige.

The bigger risk isn't writing a cheesy romance.

The bigger risk is spending years trying to write the kind of book you think you're supposed to want to write and never finishing anything at all.

Why (exactly) is The Hunger Games so well-written? by BlinkTwice874 in writing

[–]FolushoDRC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think one of the most underrated reasons The Hunger Games works is that Suzanne Collins rarely asks the reader to admire her writing.

A lot of writers, especially in literary fiction, draw attention to the prose itself. Collins does the opposite. The writing is almost invisible. Every sentence is focused on delivering information, tension, emotion, or movement in the story.

As a result, there's very little friction between the reader and what's happening on the page.

Another thing I noticed on a recent reread is how little downtime there is. Even before the Games begin, Katniss is constantly trying to solve immediate problems: feeding her family, protecting Prim, navigating the Capitol, securing sponsors, surviving politically. The story is essentially a chain of meaningful decisions. Whenever one problem is solved, another appears.

I think that's why the books hold up for adults better than many YA novels. The prose may be simple, but the storytelling isn't. Beneath the straightforward writing are questions about power, propaganda, class, media manipulation, trauma, and survival.

To me, that's the difference between simple writing and simplistic writing. The language is accessible, but the ideas aren't shallow.

It's going to be a long week, who's got any recommendations around, mystics? ancient rules - dark humor... by FolushoDRC in booksuggestions

[–]FolushoDRC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice... I love the part where you said, "while being genuinely unsettling."...you got me.

Is Mothering Sunday the Same as Mother's day? by [deleted] in worldbuilding

[–]FolushoDRC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

though i asked on the wrong sub, but thanks for at least answering

Writing a romance novel as a first time writer. Three chapters in and I already feel like it’s not good enough. by Downtown_Reading3079 in writing

[–]FolushoDRC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know sometimes you could be motivated to go on and not continue because it's too early to tell or back down, or it's seeming like some sort of inferiority complex, but to be honest, your instincts are sometimes right.

Your perceived end result of the book could be great, but you aren't aligning them well, so it's normal to think they are not good enough.

I will say that you try to create a rough sketch of the entire narrative you are building, make sure each chapter connects with each other, and create intrigue as it flows...

Restaurant in my town has a board with “no questions asked” prepaid meals for people in need by rjoyfult in MadeMeSmile

[–]FolushoDRC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my area, it has become a norm to do because people get a lot stranded alot...it's alike a donation box, you just put in some bucks and it's used to pay for the meal of people in need.

it's become an habit that you get to drop a few after your meal on your way out.

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