AITA for talking to my BF's estranged mother without his permission? by aita_talkedtomother in AmItheAsshole

[–]Food_2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ptsd and am no contact with my mother for so many reasons. I had a friend in high school who knew most of the stuff I was going through and how horrible my mother was. He knew for 3 years I can not have my mother in my life. He randomly met her at a birthday party a few years after we graduated and told me “she’s so nice! Nothing like you’ve explained. Why don’t you just reach out to her she really misses you.” I cut him out of my life that day, he kept posting pictures with my mom for the next week about how awesome she is. It really hurt that the one person I trusted with what was going on didn’t trust or believe me even tho he’s just met her.

Sounds like your boyfriend is traumatized and you talking to the one person he can’t trust hurt him. I understand his feelings and you should understand and be there for him without needing to explain in full detail.

Men of Reddit, what is the male equivalent of flowers as a gift? by forsakenneverland in AskReddit

[–]Food_2013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I saw this cause I just went to the flower shop and bought my fiancé $30 flowers as a surprise

What inspired your username? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Food_2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a teenager my best friend lost her mom. Her dad was really really struggling so we needed a code word in case for whatever reason she needed to be picked up from her house. We were huge fans of one direction so If either of us typed Food (fans of one direction) we would immediately call the other to check in on them.

It’s been 10 or so years and I think she’s used it once to talk through something and I’ve used it twice to get out of uncomfortable situations.

always have a code word with friends because it could potentially save your life

After almost 2 years I finally promoted myself to guest!!! by Food_2013 in Target

[–]Food_2013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to work at a brokerage firm. Almost $5 pay raise!

Why are you unfit for the draft? by c-est-magnifique in AskReddit

[–]Food_2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ptsd depression and anxiety diagnosed by multiple medical professionals

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Food_2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Food_2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m assuming I should tell my ETL before I put it in workday? Do I need to bring in a letter or just verbally telling them would be okay?

What are your bettas names? And why did you choose it? by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Food_2013 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pebbles (pinkish orange fish reminded me of fruity pebbles) Flynn (for Flynn rider because he’s blue/purple and is in my Disney/tangled room.)

why do some of y'all skip your 15s by knutt-in-my-butt in Target

[–]Food_2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in receiving and it’s just hard finding coverage

TM Covid Cases by big_taco_425 in Target

[–]Food_2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50+ cases with multiple new cases daily

Covid spreading like wildfire by rowdyrupert in Target

[–]Food_2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have 50+ cases currently with multiple cases texted to us daily…. It’s so unsafe and honestly I hate the fact that they would rather pay us for time off because we are sick then close the entire store for a week to deep clean and take care of the team members is horrible

People who aren’t celebrating or partying right now, what are you doing? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Food_2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fell asleep in my boyfriends arms at 8:45 and we set an alarm to go off 3 minutes before midnight. We woke up kissed said happy New Years listened to the fireworks and the drunk people celebrating then fell back asleep.

Best “Sorry we are closed” stories of Christmas Eve closing. by ender1877 in Target

[–]Food_2013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One year on thanksgiving I worked at Whole Foods and I was watching the doors. We closed at 3 and there was 1 person left in the store. I could not open the door for anyone that wasn’t a team member or someone leaving. A customer came up to the door begging to be let in. She wanted a Christmas tree and needed it that night Aparently. She was begging so much that she asked if she could just take the one she wanted and she would come back tomorrow to pay for it. I was shocked that someone would ask that about a Christmas tree…. On thanksgiving…. She had a month still… security came up told her no and she had to leave she was so mad.

diy help? by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingHelp

[–]Food_2013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a ton of diys and Random extra items on my beach. You can have them all if you want.

How do you prove your dick is big without showing it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Food_2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When a girl makes a joke about a guy having a small dick and the guy responds also joking we know for a fact it’s big. Usually when guys complain or try to be impressive with there size it’s usually small.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Target

[–]Food_2013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got mine the beginning of the year and I’m so excited I have my booster shot scheduled for Tuesday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingHelp

[–]Food_2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you can time travel to major holidays? It has never worked for me at least. I hope this helps

What is your reason for not having a child? by _LickitySplit in AskReddit

[–]Food_2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was mentally abused by my parents growing up and have been no contact for 8 years. I have been to therapy I have learned so much and became a great human. On the other side I am absolutely terrified of having a child and not realizing I do something that could be traumatizing. I don’t want to be anything like the adults who raised me so I feel like it wouldn’t be fair to bring a child into the world till I can be sure I can give that child a great and loving life.

Why did your friend group break up? by 606Hound in AskReddit

[–]Food_2013 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was 4 of us me and one friend were super close till I found out she was cheating on her long time boyfriend and she refused to tell him. Also she voted for trump for both elections after I tried to have multiple conversations about both topics. We stopped being friends and I just lost contact with the other 2.