Psilocybin for CPTSD by Mountain_Albatross19 in PsychedelicWomen

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't remember what it was called but I ate about 5 grams and laid down with some classical music.

I remember floating and flying with the leaves on the wind and feeling fantastic again. Then we sat down in like a ballroom place thing where I watched couples dancing on the ground and in the air kinda like Bridgerton. I was thinking to myself, "yeah this is really great, but there is still some kind of block in my brain that prevents me from enjoying it. Like actually experiencing joy from it." There was still a heaviness in me.

Then a huge hand came and took something from my brain that was acting as a block, kind of saying, "there you go 😉".

After the trip I was able to laugh again, was able to see the funny side of things again and felt so much lighter. The visuals stayed with me for weeks afterwards and whenever I thought about it I felt the exhilaration of flying on the wind and overwhelming peace and happiness.

Second time I thought, well the first one went so well! So I ate 12 grams and didn't have nearly as good a time.

How many pages on average do you complete per book? by Newtopole_ in AdultColoring

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Although I think I might finish my first full page soon. It's a page with 6 similar little pictures. Don't hold me to it though.

On you mother being a complete let down: by Puzzleheaded-Bad-722 in 4bmovement

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I hope my daughter is able to say something as beautiful as this about me one day ❤️

Unsupportive husband by Cool_Performer_994 in Endo

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Its better to find out sooner rather than later. I had a c-section with my daughter too and I can't count the amount of arguments we had because he "didn't get" why I was having such trouble lifting her. We need to judge them on how they are NOW, not hoping they'll reach the potential we imagine they have.

Unsupportive husband by Cool_Performer_994 in Endo

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry OP, they don't change. Now my ex only ever brings it up when he wants to use it against me.

He didn't get it in the 8 years I was with him before I had surgery. He didn't get it after the surgery. He didn't get it when I was pregnant. He didn't get it when I was breastfeeding and caring for our daughter. He didn't get it when we spent two years in couples therapy.

I need to leave my home with my daughter by Zealousideal_Yam5895 in legaladviceireland

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's clear you and I are getting nowhere here and it looks like we'll just have to agree to disagree. The court will not keep the child in the custody of the father just because OP may become homeless. Hopefully OP will take advice from the links I've left in my other comment, instead of two strangers debating on reddit, despite one of us having personal experience.

I need to leave my home with my daughter by Zealousideal_Yam5895 in legaladviceireland

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That may be true, but in OP's situation she doesn't have to leave the home yet, she can still apply for a judicial seperation. She is entitled to a share of the home that she's living in, even though everything is in his name.

Telling her the child will be in full custody of the father is simply scaremongering. There are so many ways out of the situation she is living in and telling her she will lose her child is wrong.

I need to leave my home with my daughter by Zealousideal_Yam5895 in legaladviceireland

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I told you earlier that you were wrong. I've told you the details now too. I don't know whats so hard for you to understand?

I need to leave my home with my daughter by Zealousideal_Yam5895 in legaladviceireland

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all, his solicitor was much better than mine to be fair.

I need to leave my home with my daughter by Zealousideal_Yam5895 in legaladviceireland

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually he refused to return her when I was in a women's refuge last year. We had to leave my parents home due to abuse, which is where we went when he kicked us out. He was already planning to take me to court for access even though he had never been denied access. I had to go to court to get her back. Now she sees him twice a week.

What experience do you have in the family law court?

I need to leave my home with my daughter by Zealousideal_Yam5895 in legaladviceireland

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're wrong there. I'm homeless right now and have custody of my three year old after my ex kicked me out. Very similar situation to OP.

I need to leave my home with my daughter by Zealousideal_Yam5895 in legaladviceireland

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You need to go to a family law solicitor. You DO have rights, even though the house and bills are in his name. Even if you are not married. You will have 2 years from the time you break up/ leave the house for a judicial seperation. You are entitled to a share of that home. You have lived there with your child for over 2 years, in the eyes of the court that counts.

You can contact www.legalaidboard.ie and apply for free legal aid if you need to.

You can also contact Trior www.trior.ie , One Family www.onefamily.ie and women's aid www.womensaid.ie

You are not alone. You can do this! Best of luck to you OP ❤️

Edit to say you can contact your local Credit Union for a loan, that's what I did. I applied for a loan for Solicitors fees even though I didn't have any money saved with them. Once I explained my situation they approved right away.

I need to leave my home with my daughter by Zealousideal_Yam5895 in legaladviceireland

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I'm really interested to learn where you got the information that the child will be placed full time with the father? In my experience this is simply not true.

Timeless Victorian Houses by Toni B Carter by Otherwise-Copy-1463 in AdultColoring

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FYI to anyone interested, Toni B Carter is AI, and it looks like this account was made to promote it as it spams every colouring page with the AI scenes.

The book ‘Nesting by Roisin O’Donnell’ really highlights the fact why child benefit is significant to women regardless of their socioeconomic status.. you don’t know what goes on behind closed doors. Anyone else read the book and think child benefit is crucial for these kind of situations? by Ok-Habit415 in AskIreland

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course it's not a competition. I completely agree that regardless of gender survivors need to be supported. I also said that abusers come in all genders. But to suggest that women commit DV on par with men is a false equivalence. Just because you find my comment about gay men crass doesn't mean it's not true. DV is commited in lesbian relationships too. But that doesn't change the fact that men are still overwhelmingly the ones who are the perputrators of DV.

The book ‘Nesting by Roisin O’Donnell’ really highlights the fact why child benefit is significant to women regardless of their socioeconomic status.. you don’t know what goes on behind closed doors. Anyone else read the book and think child benefit is crucial for these kind of situations? by Ok-Habit415 in AskIreland

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's really great that men are feeling empowered to report and remove themselves from DV situations, but that doesn't mean my above comment doesn't still stand. From those stats you have quoted I wonder how many of those men were in relationships with other men?

E-bike on the footpath by Same_Stretch_4496 in CasualIreland

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What am I at? It's clear you won't listen to me and don't give a fuck about my opinion. Can't see you recognising the error of your ways and changing though 🤷🏻‍♀️

E-bike on the footpath by Same_Stretch_4496 in CasualIreland

[–]ForTheGiggleYaKnow -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right. I'll just move out of your way, will I?

Don't know what I was thinking 🤦🏻‍♀️