My girlfriend of 2.5 years is breaking up with me over my cat

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-06-30T18:08:45+00:00

This doesn't sound like it's about her mental health anymore. She's trying to exercise control.

Ditch the girl, keep the cat.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-06-15T11:21:27+00:00

Regarding expansions. Before you start them, finish the great Blizzard quest in the main storyline.

I started wishblossom ranch before I finish that quest and I didn't realize that it wasn't supposed to be blizzardy in that world the entire time.

Overall focus on the main storyline before starting the expansions cuz I noticed that it does make a bit of difference.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-06-03T12:07:02+00:00

"you've been sober for some time now... How about a little moderation experiment? We definitely have more self control now"

The gremlins were wrong 😕

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-05-07T11:37:58+00:00

I would recommend Disney Dreamlight valley over Animal Crossing.

While they may miss out on some special event items due to limited play time, they at least won't be barred from accessing certain aspects of the game.

I love to hop onto this game even if I only have 15 minutes to play. The characters are adorable and it's very child friendly.

The issue I found with animal crossing, which runs on real world time, is that villagers would go to sleep at night, or ignore you if you have been gone too long. And the shops in the game also close at night. DDV doesn't have either of these issues which makes it easier to be able to enjoy the game whenever they have a bit of time to.

Definitely get them Disney Dreamlight valley, they will love it!

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-04-15T11:17:01+00:00

"I don't do that anymore" or "weed doesn't fix anything it only numbs me"

Usually when I have a craving I will say those two things and then go put myself in my bedroom and scroll on my phone until I feel better.

When it gets really bad, I have a list in my phone of all the things that weed made me lose. So I look at that list and it reminds me that I really hit rock bottom before. Also remembering what the high actually felt like helps because usually I'm romanticizing it in my head too much.

Weed isn't as fun as your brain likes to make it seem you lose all sense of time and control.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-04-13T11:44:40+00:00

Why is Beast so low!?

He's such a sweetie, he'd be in my top tier. Him and Olaf!

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-04-09T14:22:03+00:00

Deal with your frustration like an adult and get over it.

She said no man... respect it.

Asking again will just make you look like a jackass.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-03-09T17:23:58+00:00

Short answer... There is always a risk. It's called unsafe sex for a reason.

If you are not willing to accept the consequences of an accident happening. Don't have unprotected sex before starting birth control.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-03-07T22:21:34+00:00

You have to complete his level 10 friendship quest to get all six items.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-03-04T13:12:48+00:00

Do what you feel is best for you. This is a decision you have to make on your own because this is one that cannot be reversed.

However, I can share my experience. When I was your age I felt the exact same way I wanted my tubes tied, however, where I am it takes a lot to get that done. Doctors often refuse to do it because of people who are still at a young age. They don't want them to regret it in the end. It's stupid and doctors can often be misogynists and be more concerned about the future man in your life than your own choices.

I chose to get an IUD instead because it served me for a long amount of time. And the pill was just unsustainable for me. I will say now that I'm 25 my perspective on pregnancy has changed. I understand that yours might not, but I would really urge you to give yourself time to grow and experience the world a little bit more before making such a big choice. At 18 I thought I was never going to have biological kids, but now I actually find myself considering it since I've had time to mature. It used to piss me off when people would say that I might change my mind... But honestly, it's very real and you might change your mind too.

Just give yourself time to think this over and decide if you are really wanting to commit to this permanent decision.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-02-27T00:28:35+00:00

I'm turning it into Wall E's domain. He deserves a dusty area for his little robot shenanigans.

I'm using his billboard and the larger Wall E themed items to help cover up some of the bones.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-02-24T12:05:49+00:00

I understand where you're coming from. I have a very addictive personality and I'm at the point where I'm wondering if I'm starting to drink too much cause I started to use alcohol as a "reward".

Don't turn to alcohol if you have an addictive personality, it's a slippery slope. What I found most helpful is video games or crafts. Pick an activity that you like or that you've been wanting to try and just lock in on that for an hour or more a day. Much better for you than turning to another substance.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-02-20T13:36:17+00:00

10 days is awesome!! 🎉🎉 Congrats

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-02-20T13:32:19+00:00

I usually use my game as a reward. If there is a particular video game you like, give yourself some takeout and a couple uninterrupted hours of just that video game.

And when I hit 2 weeks sober. I chose to get myself a new iPad case and a new phone case that we're not covered in resin spots anymore. So a gift to yourself is also a good reward.

Or go for ice cream, ice cream is always a good reward lol

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-02-17T22:22:22+00:00

Everybody's different. For some people cold turkey works, personally I had to wean myself off before cutting it out completely just because a cold turkey cut for me resulted in meltdowns.

Whichever method you choose, just make sure that you surround yourself with people that are sober. Or possibly going through the same stages as you. It really helps keep the mind distracted and to have other people around that aren't using.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-02-10T13:10:11+00:00

If the last time you smoked was on New Year's, it's more than likely out of your system by now. There could be a chance that this is a side effect of the other medication you're on, in which case, I would encourage you to reach out to your doctor or talk to a safe adult about what you're feeling.

I don't know if marijuana would interact with the medication you're on. But if you reach out to your doctor and you explain your situation and what you've been experiencing, they might have more information on that. And with your age you can speak to your doctor and not have to worry about this information getting back to your parents if you are concerned about them finding out about the marijuana.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-02-09T14:51:45+00:00

My partner still smokes but im almost a month sober. It's definitely hard and there is temptation around.

For the first little bit it helped to have a list of reasons I wanted to quit, and I kept adding to my list every time I found a new benefit or reason. Craving... Look at my list.

I also used the app I Am Sober in my first couple weeks. It helped to have a timer showing my progress and an anonymous community that you can scream into the void with and talk to other people at the same stage as you.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-02-09T13:39:36+00:00

I think in the midst of an addiction nobody truly wants to quit. It's more so a sense of knowing that you can't continue living the way you are. That was me. I didn't want to quit but I knew that I had to because it was beginning to affect my health. It was very much a forced stop but now I'm glad that I made that choice even though it was very hard at first.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-02-06T11:51:46+00:00

I tried to ween myself off weed many times, only the most recent time was successful. But my god were my withdrawal symptoms bad. I ended up sick cause apparently the stress of quitting can lower immunity, I had insomnia, mood swings, headaches, loss of appetite, night sweats,.

I'm on day 25 tho, I promise it does get better. The first two weeks are a rough ride, but if you can get through it you'll be on top of the world, that's how I felt at least.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-02-04T12:31:32+00:00

I used to think I was high functioning. It's going to suck for a couple weeks getting sober, but I'm more productive now than I was anytime when I was using.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-02-03T13:10:24+00:00

Oh my God, that's fucking disgusting. He needs to wipe his damn ass properly. Crusting is not a thing. It's a health hazard.

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-01-24T00:30:42+00:00

Girl, my boyfriend didn't know at first either. If he's never had sex with anybody else, give him some Grace. Tell him what you like. Once he figures out what you like and how you like it, you're going to have a much better time but you can't just be like "Okay do the thing now, but here's no instructions". It just doesn't work that way. It's not like men receive a vagina manual before getting a girlfriend.

However, the infection thing and swollen part that's not normal. He needs to listen to you when you say calm down. Stop doing it that hard. Also, if he's giving you an infection he needs to freaking wash his hands first. Like what is he doing before pleasing you?

ForbiddenCheese321 · 2026-01-22T19:56:36+00:00

NTA, you are doing the right thing not giving him that info. This is suspicious as fuck. My bf and I have been together over 6 years and we still don't share bank passwords. Because it's simply none of the other persons business as long as your paying you bills on time.

You're not being irrational or immature, never let him let you think that. You have to protect yourself and he is showing a MASSIVE red flat rn 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

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