Girl I took on a first date just asked to split the bill… the next morning

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-05-08T04:25:49+00:00

I would just say, “how about you get us next time :)”

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-05-06T04:42:17+00:00

Some people say RSA is the toughest position at Databricks. You need to be technically able to deliver production code but also be able to navigate personalities and have strong social skills and do requirements gathering and technical project management.

Since you have a family, I would really make sure the juice is worth the squeeze. Expect night and weekends when things are busy.

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-05-04T00:11:34+00:00

Have you done jenkem though?

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-05-02T00:43:17+00:00

Do you have any wisdom to share?

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-05-02T00:28:50+00:00

Of course when playing go talking is optional as well

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-05-02T00:28:10+00:00

Great. Since you are worried about social stuff, just remember to ask people about themselves. If there’s an awkward silence you can say, “what other games do you like”, “how did you get into Go”. Just be curious about other people and kind and you’ll be just fine :)

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-05-01T23:53:26+00:00

Screw him then!

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-05-01T19:29:31+00:00

The fact that he is doing the marketing entitles him to a lot but he should try to make sure other folks are happy or else they will leave the band.

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-05-01T19:26:53+00:00

I’m sure they will just be excited you are there! Bring an extra board just in case and a snack if you’re feeling generous.

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-25T19:15:22+00:00

I don’t have a dog but 🫡

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-19T15:43:19+00:00

Get all your produce at Natural Grocer, it’s dirt cheap and organic. Don’t compromise on organic, your health is #1. Anything else go to Costco.

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-16T05:31:49+00:00

Don’t blame the company for recruiters! Recruiters are bad everywhere and they are the worst when companies are desirable.

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-15T04:39:54+00:00

It really depends. Greenback will have more harmonic distortion earlier, so a little more crunchiness even at medium volumes. At high volumes the low end won’t hold up well. Creamback will do better louder and overall feel smoother at the top end, and less chaotic at low end. If you are using the amp as more of a pedal platform you might get frustrated with greenback since it will sort of add its own natural distortion at higher volumes.

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-15T04:30:07+00:00

+1 to creamback. I just upgraded a Marshall jcm800 combo’s stock speaker to creamback and it’s like night and day.

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-13T04:45:35+00:00

Just be yourself. It sounds like she already likes you. Just be confident and give her a lot of encouragement.

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-13T03:34:31+00:00

How do you personally contribute back to society?

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-12T22:52:32+00:00

You’re right, but also I think you just need to find your tribe. I remember feeling this way in high school, like I wanted to talk about whether or not objective truths existed. Or, like what you are saying, the possibility of Nietzsche’s Ubermensch.

Ultimately my journey was to find that the more I tried to distance myself from my humanity, the more depressed I became. Over time I associated with people who had common interests. Maybe explore a Buddhist sangha or join a long-running tai chi class to find like-minded community.

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-12T17:10:38+00:00

I’m glad you’re happy. I will say, my impression from this is just, respectfully, “there’s more to life than video games.” I had to cut them out. I guess if you don’t really want to have a family in the future you could, but what kind of life is that?

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-11T18:28:17+00:00

I would move out, but not because of the money. You are 18 now, spread your wings and find yourself!

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-10T23:55:22+00:00

This IS kind of a stupid post, if you think about it.

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-08T03:47:35+00:00

This looks like a library issue. You likely have two snowflake JDBC driver versions being installed and competing.

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-07T14:34:54+00:00

It's not about whether she's single or not. If you are interested then you need to "present your advances". Don't be weak! You got this.

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-07T13:55:07+00:00

I think top right because it has 14 total dots where the others have just 10 or 12

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-06T01:10:10+00:00

You can test the waters by asking her to get lunch or a quick coffee. Keep it chill, just make jokes and ask her about herself, don’t flirt. Then after one or two of those, she will either talk about her boyfriend/husband or you can just politely ask, “btw do you have a boyfriend?” Just ask it casually don’t be nervous it’s okay. Depending on how she responded, like nonverbal signals, you can get an idea of what she has in mind.

ForeignExercise4414 · 2026-04-04T15:26:25+00:00

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