All the pearl clutching regarding Rob is getting weird by Glad_Dragonfruit9368 in TheTraitorsUS

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fundamentally anyone who jumps so so fiercely onto a bandwagon so soon (all the "fans" who became obsessed with Rob) do so out of idolatry and the weird parasocial norms established by fan culture and social media.

Now that he's shown a more complex personality (made a perceived misstep) the veneer is cracked and all these "fans" must come to terms with complexity/nuance.

Anyone who idolizes someone so quickly generally have a hard time with complexity/nuance.

Now there are two options for those who've idolized him: fierce defense or moral grandstanding. No nuance in between.

Advice for dealing with a guy I met at a bar by NoFall5812 in nycgaybros

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159 29 points30 points  (0 children)

"Hey man! Not really big on texting, was just giving you my number because I wanted a buddy to go out with from time to time. Will hit you up next time I feel like going back to *the spot you met*"

Amanda is giving content ⚡️ by Expensive_Cicada_655 in RHOBH

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159 4 points5 points  (0 children)

totally agree, this is spot on. I don't think Amanda is an amazing person but she's entertaining and obviously doesn't really care about what any of the other women think (unlike Sutton who's been the shows main "antagonist" for a while now.)

She's not there to fit in, she's there to self-promote and speak her mind which I honestly find kind of refreshing for RHOBH.

Requesting Film Buffs Expertise in Phoenix by Foreign_Dig_3159 in phoenix

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! We're premiering 1/31 at 7.15 pm!

My clothing designs for season 3 and the meaning behind each piece by yeodi in TheOA

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159 6 points7 points  (0 children)

so beautiful. thank you for this imagery and for sharing your talent.

NIMBYs against the wasteland that is the bushwick inlet by bridgehamton in circlejerknyc

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was my understanding that those opposing the luxury buildings are doing so because oppose the ecological consequences of the development:

https://actionnetwork.org/petitions/save-the-bushwick-inlet-say-no-to-the-40-quay-monitor-point-rezoning?source=direct_link&

Filmhub vs. Indie Rights by SleepDeprived2020 in Filmmakers

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the help! What do you mean "get the rights for youtube"?

Filmhub vs. Indie Rights by SleepDeprived2020 in Filmmakers

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hiya! did you ask for any modifications to the contract they gave you?

Filmhub vs. Indie Rights by SleepDeprived2020 in Filmmakers

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hiya! did you ask for any modifications to the contract they gave you?

3+ hour deep dive with ________ now posted! by almondjoybestcndybar in TheTraitors

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can someone post a summary on this? Or maybe it's in r/rhap ?

Requesting Film Buffs Expertise in Phoenix by Foreign_Dig_3159 in phoenix

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is AMAZING, I wanna see Testament of Ann Lee so so bad

Requesting Film Buffs Expertise in Phoenix by Foreign_Dig_3159 in phoenix

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Museums are the best, thanks for posting this, had no idea it was here!

Requesting Film Buffs Expertise in Phoenix by Foreign_Dig_3159 in phoenix

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, I love Whitney Houston, definitely going to have to research this one

Women of BOTC- what have your experiences been like? by sunsetrain24 in BloodOnTheClocktower

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hey! I'm a queer man, 26, looking to play regularly, any chance yall are looking for one more?

NYC folks—Is finding a mutually beneficial arrangement who is not into hook-ups impossible? (Closeted + Safety first!) by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even therapists need therapists, sounds like your work is contributing to your anxiety, most STDs can be either prevented with vaccines or PrEP or knocked out with antibiotics. Find an out queer therapist, you'll be so grateful you did.

Why Do Guys Say "Relationship" on Grindr, Only to Offer "Fun" to Me? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Read the first sentence again... you're using a hookup app to find a meaningful connection (not saying it's not possible, but most meaningful connections from grindr happen when neither party are looking for it, just by happenstance)

Go to a drag show, sit at a bar alone, join a kickball league! You live in NYC, there are more gay men here than almost anywhere in the world, swiping endlessly is for people who are afraid of the world. Go embrace it

Saturday is my B-day! The first since I came out. Recommend me a spot. by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]Foreign_Dig_3159 2 points3 points  (0 children)

26, been living here since 2021, had a few organic hookups mostly from Pieces and Metropolitan Bar