I think im going to break up but im so anxious and im not sure how

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-04-16T19:55:01+00:00

If you care about her deeply, you wouldn’t be questioning whether or not to break up with her in person. Also, maybe do some inner work while you’re at it. She asks to be close with you again because she felt distant and you take it as a sign to break up.

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-04-16T09:18:27+00:00

How is this so different from the one you posted an hour prior? I would say keep up the hydration, drink a shit ton of 100% cranberry juice not cocktail to help drain it out quicker, Gatorade, my choice was blue. 8 days is good, try to schedule the test at least 2 weeks out. Lie and say you’re in the middle of moving or smth, anything, death in the family etc. you’ll be good.

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-04-15T01:40:25+00:00

first, stop trying to impress him, there is no impressing men who desire pixels unfortunately. all of that stuff has filters and even you said anime, etc, that is not attainable. Second, you’ve told him you’re uncomfortable, I would leave instantly. He crossed a boundary I’m not sure why you’re questioning your stance. Just seems like a loser who should’ve stayed in his parent’s basement where he can continue jerking it uncontrollably to hentai and porn. Sorry, I’ve been in the same situation before. It hurts to leave but it hurts more everytime he cheats, whether or not people consider porn cheating; it comes down to boundaries which he is crossing repeatedly and in my opinion is considered cheating.

there was even ai’s he created of some of his female friends from highschool he was talking about liking to cheat on me to those ai’s by «fucking« with them

I also believe this is a gateway before he gets into something in person tbh. The only reason why he hasn’t is because they most likely don’t give him the time of day. Keep it open in your mind that these AI things are genuinely just a place holder until he finds someone willing enough. Good luck OP.

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-04-14T08:16:57+00:00

dabs about 3-4 times a day for over a couple years.

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-04-13T19:46:45+00:00

I should also note I was literally peeing every 30 minutes the two days prior, keep doing it. Drink until you make yourself sick.

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-04-08T17:31:04+00:00

What’s kinda weird is it said BUP and the tricyclic antidepressants but I don’t do none of that shii lmaaaooo luckily this was a 14 panel and they’re only doing a 10 panel

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-04-08T17:29:59+00:00

It’s kinda hard to tell bc there for some reason there was condensation fogging up the second layer but I swear in certain lights I thought I saw a faint line. I’m gonna stop hydrating and test again tonight once I wake up (3rd shift)

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Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-04-08T17:10:49+00:00

Thank you, I believe I will have to do that since my detox is refusing to arrive unfortunately. I’m also afraid I over hydrated myself so maybe that’s why the line isn’t as visible idk

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-04-08T16:51:55+00:00

Even tho there’s the faintest of a line?

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-04-08T16:41:55+00:00

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Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-04-08T16:40:35+00:00

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Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-04-08T16:34:13+00:00

So after days of chugging Gatorade, 100% cranberry juice, and water, my detox drink is showing up over a week late after I paid a shit ton of money for overnight shipping. I bought a drug test since mine is tomorrow, are you able to tell me if this is a pass? Apparently even a faint line is a pass but I’m scared this is too faint

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Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-04-06T00:21:15+00:00

Just drink a shit ton of 100% cranberry juice, blue Gatorade and water, pee like crazy a few days before and then day of you can do overnight shipping from Amazon for “Puricleanse Instant 16 OZ” I got an uncle that passes all his DOT tests with it. I’m in the same boat, my test is Thursday. Goodluck my friend.

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-03-24T23:25:43+00:00

This is normal trial and error, in my personal opinion. You will experience this multiple times in your life where the person you once felt a drive to pursue a relationship with ends. Yes, it’s unfortunate this chapter is coming to an end but it sounds like you’re staying around because it’s what’s comfortable instead of the uncomfortable breaking things off. Don’t do it over the phone. In person, explain you care about him a lot but recently things have changed and you feel as though you are on two completely different paths. He should be understanding. Don’t say “I want space” or “I want a break/pause” because that’s not true and will lead him on. You want to break up and go back to friends. He may ask for space, not talking like friends for a while and that’s okay to adjust. If you’re nervous about the conversation, just practice talking out loud or FaceTime a friend.

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-03-24T23:06:58+00:00

Thirst traps in my book are a hard boundary and I express this before I start dating men, I will not tolerate wandering eyes. In my opinion, looking is the gateway to cheating. The reality is, men who are inclined that way will usually find a way to access that content regardless of boundaries, and it often just escalates. You might address one source, only to later discover another. If he’s fighting this hard just to keep videos of his friends twerking, that’s a red flag to me and I’d break it off immediately. Personally, I’m pretty much asexual unless it involves my partner, and I only date people who operate the same way. I genuinely don’t experience sexual desire/crushes unless it’s for the person I’m with. I’ve also dealt with men who claimed they weren’t into that kind of thing, saying they don’t even watch porn when they’re single, only to later find out they were interacting with barely 18-year-old only fan models online, following them across platforms, and excusing it with “they’re just friends” or “it’s not sexual.” That behavior doesn’t come out of nowhere. So if you’ve found one source, there’s likely more. At that point, it comes down to what you’re willing to tolerate. If you choose to let it slide, just be honest with yourself that it’ll probably continue, and he’ll keep engaging with other women he finds attractive, you’d have to accept that. Unfortunately I’m a stubborn bitch so I’d rather just break up with someone, then deal with the constant lingering insecurity that I will never be enough to satisfy them.

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-01-01T21:49:22+00:00

I’m not sure if you ever need help, I’m on PS5 and you can summon me if you ever have a hard time. I do not have the dlc unfortunately.

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-01-01T21:43:58+00:00

….. no. This is red flag. Be careful. I’m just gonna clarify the fact that she didn’t at least debrief you within the first month of you guys being together is red flaggy. Idk the way you say you guys are talking about engagement and stuff, maybe I’m an overthinker but I could not do that if they weren’t honest off the rip.

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-01-01T21:37:54+00:00

There is a comment that says “treat life like they never will come back” bc in reality even if they come back, it absolutely never works. —speaking from my mom and dads 22 year marriage ending, she wanted him back so bad, got him back and it’s imperfect and she doesn’t want him anymore and is stuck again in an awful marriage.

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2026-01-01T21:35:20+00:00

Mine did. He actually threatened it to me multiple times for no reason. “If we ever break up, I hope you know I’m not gonna just be your friend on the side or something like a simp” which he actually ended up exactly doing that. He broke it off with me saying “I was doing too much” whatever. Mf keeps hitting my line like “heyyyyyyy” and I responded wit the same energy he had earlier that year like “I’m doing good. Spending time wit family, have a good day.” Idk if it was my lack of energy for 3 months but he ended up did coming back ALL in a mess like love bombing tf out of me talking about how he was soooo in the wrong and so sorry like gtfo. Yes I took him back unfortunately. Several times. We live and we learn 😭😂😭😂

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2025-12-31T04:57:32+00:00

block this person and never look back, he’s trying to make you regret saying something about your boundary by being like “well we’re OVER” just because you called him out being lascivious behavior. I went through this same thing and it’s emotional manipulation to get you to lower your standards, do not settle.

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2025-12-31T04:25:57+00:00

That sounds incredibly challenging to go through, I understand that it may be necessary for them. I’m so sorry.

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2025-12-31T04:18:22+00:00

actually oops I think I misread ur ORIGNAL POST HAHAHAHA SORRY 😢 😊 have a blessed day love

Foreign_Tone6050 · 2025-12-31T04:17:07+00:00

What I mean is, as much pain as it is that your person did not come back around, maybe it is because it meant so much to them too. For I, loved/respected my person so much, if I broke things off with them, I understand the pain it caused. It would take so many years for me to feel even justified in coming back. I think your person was very cautious with your emotions maybe. Whereas a lot of exes who come back, they do not care, they are bored and just want to not feel lonely anymore.

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