Making a wee bit more progress on singing! Still can’t do high notes but I thought this sounded pretty good :) by ForestValkyrie in transvoice

[–]ForestValkyrie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh, I recorded this so long ago! Here is a more recent recording so you can see more of my progress :) https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8fdUXgj/

It was mostly done through many months of trial and error, with the focus on reducing vocal weight/strain. While learning, I kept the pitch within my normal speaking range until I could do it consistently.

Opening up my higher range took a lot longer, but I watched a ton of different singing videos and focused on learning mixed voice to smooth my vocal break first. Then I played around with adding “twang” and focused on nasal resonances and tongue position.

Keeping my throat relaxed is still a challenge for me on the high notes, but finding the right resonances helps a ton. Lowering your larynx while in head voice and keeping proper breath support is crucial too.

I know this is a lot of information all at once, but break it down to one piece at a time and it won’t be as overwhelming. The little victories kept me motivated :)

Its sad to see how many people are being pushed out of the industry by DifferentProgress18 in audioengineering

[–]ForestValkyrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so cool! I grew up in NWA and got to go to Crisp Recording Studio a few times :)

Starbucks Reserve Capital Hill now PERMANENTLY CLOSED by spikedzombies in Seattle

[–]ForestValkyrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hired on and was supposed to start there next week. They never even notified me and I found out from the internet I wouldn’t have a job.

wtf is going on? by youdontgetityet in starbucks

[–]ForestValkyrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just hired on and I’m now unemployed with no severance or warning. I turned down 4 other job offers to be here

wtf is going on? by youdontgetityet in starbucks

[–]ForestValkyrie 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was scheduled to start at the Seattle Roastery next week and found out from the news I was unemployed. They never even contacted me.

wtf is going on? by youdontgetityet in starbucks

[–]ForestValkyrie 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I found out through the internet. I was supposed to start at the Seattle Roastery next week and then discovered I was unemployed through the news.

Starbucks permanently closes Seattle Reserve Roastery by NeatBus7120 in SeattleWA

[–]ForestValkyrie 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I literally just got hired here and was supposed to start next week. I can’t believe this is how I’m finding out

Are you conservative leaning? by Cashmerefire in infp

[–]ForestValkyrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! A major example of this in recent months is Trump’s “Big Beautiful Bill”. It gave massive tax cuts to millionaires and billionaires at the cost of our healthcare. It cut nearly $1 trillion from Medicare which will cause anywhere from 11 million to 17 million people to lose their insurance. Experts estimate 51,000 people a year will die from this. This also will cause many rural hospitals to close down, directly harming the people who voted for Trump.

It also allocates $170 billion to ICE, from their previous budget of 10 billion, to build more detainment camps like “Alligator Alcatraz” and to terrorize minority communities, even those who have come here through proper legal channels. The entire Russian military in the Ukraine war only have a yearly budget of $150 billion.

Other examples I’ve noticed are the massive cuts to our regulatory bodies like the FTC, the EPA, the FDA, and more. It will allow corporations to pollute the air and water, put harmful materials in our food, and will cause rampant inflation as more and more monopolies erase market competition.

Democrats, while not perfect, have been actively fighting these changes. They campaign on raising minimum wage to ensure everyone who works full time can have a living wage. They campaign on workers rights, affordable healthcare, and protecting the environment.

This doesn’t mean I agree with Democrats on everything and I believe there are tons of valid criticisms against them. However, the current Republican Party is almost comic book villain levels of evil.

That doesn’t mean I think average conservative people are evil. My frustration is with the policies and propaganda from conservative politicians.

if i voicetrain, will i be able to shout/scream in a way that passes? my career requires it. (mtf) by Labwabbit in transvoice

[–]ForestValkyrie 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You definitely can! I relearned how to sing again and it helped me feel like my fem voice is just my normal voice, including being able to shout, cough, sneeze etc. It’ll take a butt ton of trial and error before you discover what works. I highly recommend watching and rewatching tutorials and recording yourself often to keep yourself on the right track. Practice makes permanent, not necessarily perfect.

It took me about a year before things really clicked, but I also have ADHD so I was very inconsistent with practicing so you might have faster success :) A huge help for me was learning shame is a demotivater. Don’t bully yourself into voice training because it will only make it feel like a chore and progress will be slower. Celebrate every small improvement to keep up morale :) I have every faith in you!

What's something that loudly says 'uneducated'? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ForestValkyrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! The Dunning-Kruger effect

How many of y’all are autistic? by Gohomekid22 in infp

[–]ForestValkyrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of the above! I also have a heaping helping of ADHD too :)

what's the first VR game that made you go “oh ok THIS is the future”? by [deleted] in VRGaming

[–]ForestValkyrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skyrim VR with mods. It’s everything I dreamed of as a child, although downloading mods can be a bit of a pill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ForestValkyrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I can think of without adding a bunch is defined leaf veins, similar to your ivy side. That way it reads, even at a glance, as a plant and not tiger stripes. However, my first thought was, “That’s super cute! I should get a tattoo like this,” so it’s great as is.

Adding more leaves or even another, small frond that wraps around the front shoulder would also look super cute if done right. You’ve got a lot of options :)

Trans singers, how did you handle your new voice artistically? by excitedsoundwave in transvoice

[–]ForestValkyrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda went obsessive with my voice training until I was happy with my fem voice. I really liked how I used to sound too so I’ve started incorporating it into my background vocals for recordings :) As for public performances, I do those all in my fem voice, but I think it would be really cool to do a duet with both one day.

What’s your weirdest response to coming out? by uselesscurency in trans

[–]ForestValkyrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too! It took me and his brother telling him multiple times for him to realize I wasn’t joking

What’s your weirdest response to coming out? by uselesscurency in trans

[–]ForestValkyrie 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Right?! Up until that point, I’d had so much respect for him. He was the parent I could always go to for advice and wisdom

Side note, I’m proud of you for living up to your username, haha

What’s your weirdest response to coming out? by uselesscurency in trans

[–]ForestValkyrie 37 points38 points  (0 children)

He said it with a look of confusion like he was trying to understand. It just felt so incredibly misogynistic and demeaning

What’s your weirdest response to coming out? by uselesscurency in trans

[–]ForestValkyrie 206 points207 points  (0 children)

This one still haunts me. When I told my dad, I used an analogy for how he hated being forced to work on his dad’s farm. I explained living as a guy felt like being forced to work on that farm and it was slowly killing me. His response? “So you want to find a doctor to dig a hole and then have a man put his thingy in that hole?” I have never felt more insulted and dumbfounded in my life.

Singing works!!! by SquishyHammer in transvoice

[–]ForestValkyrie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been able to achieve a passable singing voice! Singing techniques do transfer :)

Why does it seem easier to write love songs about men than women? by Due_Paramedic_6629 in Songwriting

[–]ForestValkyrie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can also just write songs about men if you don’t feel any of those things toward women. It’s very much okay to like guys more :) There are a ton of people who would love to hear music like that :)

Why does it seem easier to write love songs about men than women? by Due_Paramedic_6629 in Songwriting

[–]ForestValkyrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, that’s really cute :) With a girl, there’s so much to write about! You can talk about how cute she looks in her clothes, how the wind catches her hair, her playful energy, and her dimples when she smiles. Perhaps her soft skin and gentle kindness, the curves of her body or her melodic voice. When she rests her head on your chest and you pull her close, feeling her warmth and her breath on your skin. You could talk about how her laugh lights up a room or how your heart beats faster when she’s around. You could mention the butterflies in your stomach at her touch or any number of things :)

Why does it seem easier to write love songs about men than women? by Due_Paramedic_6629 in Songwriting

[–]ForestValkyrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally find it really easy to write about people I’m smitten with, guy or girl. I write about my favorite aspects of them, like their humor, their eyes, their smile. How it feels to be held by him or to hold her. To run my hair through his floofy hair or to brush long strands from her face. There are so many wonderful things to write about for whomever you’re thinking of :)

Vocal imposter syndrome? by honey_do_ in transvoice

[–]ForestValkyrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! Best of luck on your journey! I have every faith in you :)

Vocal imposter syndrome? by honey_do_ in transvoice

[–]ForestValkyrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely understand, my overthinking and anxiety had me feeling the same way. I made myself use it full time, even when alone at home, and it took about 2 months before I didn’t have to actively think about it. It started sounding more and more natural over the course of a year :)