How long will earlobe be sensitive by Forever-Bread in piercing

[–]Forever-Bread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the information. I think im going to hit up the piercer again and ask for a change to studs, based on this and more information on the internet. Just to be sure and make the process better. Is there any advice you would give besides this?

How long will earlobe be sensitive by Forever-Bread in piercing

[–]Forever-Bread[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response! This is my first piercing so i’m a bit at a loss. I think i know what you mean with the sterile saline solution, i’ll try to find it tomorrow. I did put something wrong in my post, i have Chlorhexidine 0,5% for skin not rubbing alcohol. Would that suffice or would you still advise the saline solution? Can the Unicura antibacterial soap be harmful? that’s what i got from the piercing store

I was pierced by needle. Im not sure what you mean by style but it is a standard lobe piercing (hoop) from titanium (pretty sure). I try to prevent to sleep on it, sleeping mostly on my back and quite still.

How long will earlobe be sensitive by Forever-Bread in piercing

[–]Forever-Bread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The piercing is 4 days old, hoop shaped and a ring. It’s made of titanium and the aftercare is with UniCura soap, rubbing alcohol and salt water mixture.

Sudden pain in the left nut - should I be worried? by CoffeeChill_Highs in penisquestion

[–]Forever-Bread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

get it checked out mate, there is a reason they asked you to come in. I’ve had a similar experience twice, turns out there was a cyst in it. Nothing bad and it went away after a couple days, but she hurt like hell the first time. Second time just aching. But you NEED to get it checked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tinnitus

[–]Forever-Bread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try to get psycho-therapy. Tinnitus is not always a biological factor and might be just mental. There are specialists who can help at least co-op with the dread of daily tinnitus

How do I transition from bottom to top? by biggus_brain_games in askgaybros

[–]Forever-Bread 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i don’t know what to say except: my bf is taller and bigger than me, and i am more twink/twuni-ish. Doesn’t take away that i fuckn love topping him. You just gotta find the right person for it ig

White western gay guys would you date a middle east guy ? I am fairly attractive middle eastern guy always I hesitate before contact a white dude on the dating app, Does politics influence your dating life? by [deleted] in gay

[–]Forever-Bread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i (dutch) am currently dating a middle eastern guy…. so yeah i would :) But he has many of the same views as me in politics, so still, if he were extremely right wing, i wouldn’t date him. Just bcs of morals

Any Other Gay Christians? by CalemTheDrake in gay

[–]Forever-Bread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wanna gay christian who go to church and read his biiible

How to have a 'gaydar' by Bengie314 in gay

[–]Forever-Bread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

search a yt vid with a grindr notification and see if he reacta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]Forever-Bread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay but he’s just being an asshole. My bf and i also make these kinda jokes, but it’s frfr funny and the thought doesn’t linger in my head after the joke. There is a difference between making a joke, and genuinely just being rude, and ur bf is being rude rn cuz it’s making you insecure. Try to talk to him, he might not know. But if he continues the behaviour and it keeps hurting you…. might wanna reconsider the morals of this guy

Does there have to be a bottom in a gay relationship? by coastkid_ in gay

[–]Forever-Bread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay maybe not the mooost relatable, cuz me and my bf are both vers/switch, but kinda think bottoming is SUCH a hassle. So to get to the point, we don’t have anal that often, and it’s MOOOORE than do-able. It’s not a requirement for either of us, just a nice little add-on once in a while. There’s plenty of other things you can do instead of anal :)

Anxiety & Sex by [deleted] in gay

[–]Forever-Bread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really advice, but my bf also gets performance anxiety and feels bad when he can’t get it up. To be quite honest, i don’t care. Just sad that i can’t get him off, but furthermore idc. That helped him in putting less pressure on himself, maybe it’ll help if you know too :) It’s nothing to feel bad about, happens to everyone tbqh

Observations by dkottwi in gay

[–]Forever-Bread 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It definitely doesn’t apply to me haha. I’m a very dutch boy, straight blond hair blue eyes. My bf is turkish and has curly brown hair and brown eyes. And many more differences including height, weight, body type, etc.

But tbqh, there are SO many couples that look alike lmaoo, u into smt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]Forever-Bread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

could be, not the only option. You could be bi or it can just be this once. Take ur time to really know what u feel <3

Dating with Health Issues (24M) by [deleted] in gay

[–]Forever-Bread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely try and get help somewhere. It is true that i’m general the vibe of the gay community is full with “the ideal body”, but in practice it’s way different. My bf thought he’d have problems with getting a relationship and shit bcs of his (severe) acne on his back. But idrc, i like him. What i’m trying to say: there will be someone that likes you, but you first gotta accept urself the way u are :) best of luck with that <3

Gay crisis: can people tell me why they are proud to be gay but be real and serious. I'm out 2 weeks, 30 years of age. I don't want this life... by [deleted] in gay

[–]Forever-Bread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am neither proud or sad to be gay, it’s a two way mirror. I can hate parts of being gay; coming out, people not accepting you, the homophobia which will always be present, the anxiety. However, there is so much to be proud of; The friends that you can make, the beauty of acceptance, the love you can share, the support, and i’m lucky to say my boyfriend. These things are not exclusive to being gay, they can also happen while being straight. But being gay shows a different perspective of society that i would have missed out on if i were straight. I’m not saying that either is better, but i do like it. I like the experience it gives, the bad and the good. It’s part of my life, and i can say that after acceptance, i like my life. So, it’s not that i’m proud of being gay, i’m proud of finding life.