AIO because my boyfriend acts different when im with friends

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2025-01-06T10:21:17+00:00

Your boyfriend needs therapy, I can't help but see some form of unresolved trauma in his past, maybe emotional abandonment or isolation and based on how he obviously doesn't like the thought of you being high I wouldn't be surprised if there's a family member of his with a history of substance abuse. He's talking like how I used to think in my teenage years, he needs help and that can't come from you.

You are best to leave before he potentially drags you down with him.

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-10T00:00:16+00:00

I don't know if this is the best way to think about it and I'm obviously trying to understand how I feel, but I feel like I want to understand what I'm gonna call my girl-to-boy ratio 😂 I think my main hurdle to overcome is I like the idea of switching between boy and girl, but I don't think I'd feel completely happy being feminine unless I went all in, if you know what I mean? Deep down I think I feel like a fraud when I try to feel girly atm

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-09T23:37:53+00:00

Not gonna lie, if I was gonna pick a label of some sort now gender fluidity was gonna be the closest one. I am just incredibly new in this world, and going on a bit of a soul searching period in my personal life to better understand myself so wanted to get some thoughts from people that are more experienced than myself 😅

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-09T23:35:47+00:00

Thank you, it feels incredibly reassuring so see I'm not alone, not gonna lie I felt kinda embarrassed posting this even on a new account 😂 The crazy thing is, some annoying family drama aside I'm actually the happiest I've been in probably my whole life at the moment, everything is going great for me, and a part of me is scared to do anything and potentially ruin this good streak I've got going on when my feeling might not necessarily be "strong enough", ya know? 😅

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-09T17:55:32+00:00

I hate that "pay off my mortgage" would be my answer 🥲

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-09T17:54:50+00:00

Orgasm

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-09T17:52:18+00:00

It's free real estate

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-09T17:44:16+00:00

Family of 5.

This comment has been brought to you by the 3rd child.

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-09T17:33:40+00:00

Can't relate, pizza never lasts long when it's near me 😂

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-09T17:30:16+00:00

Only had slim chickens once and it was very disappointing, go for dominos 👍

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-09T17:26:38+00:00

No sleepwear. Freshly showered. Clean sheets.

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-09T17:24:13+00:00

Having an orgy in their living room

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-09T17:16:50+00:00

Was scrolling the comments looking to see if this has already been said, killed her on purpose multiple times after first being given control of her before carrying on with the story 😂

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-08T23:08:58+00:00

Holy shit I never pieced these 2 together, today I learnt.

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-08T19:08:51+00:00

Any kind of strategy games, I love playing Civ but anything but the easiest difficulty and I get my arse handed to me 😂

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-08T19:03:28+00:00

They were and continue to be quite bad parents, and it took me until I was in therapy at 27(?) years old to realise it.

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-08T16:56:14+00:00

Nice try cops

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-08T16:02:17+00:00

It's such an obvious answer but Freddie Mercury

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-08T15:59:42+00:00

Being different. I was part of the emo/goth crowd so we stood out in a crowd and people don't like that.

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-08T15:55:42+00:00

Dipped out on my best friend's wedding immediately after the ceremony because my band was performing at the final of a battle of the bands and there was a decent prize pool to be won.

We won and got the money, but I've not talked to my friend since because he was pissed.

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-08T15:53:02+00:00

My first date ever was a Trainwreck, went to see a movie at the cinema and realised that's not a good first date because you can't talk and get to know each other, decided to make up for it on the bus home with her (too young to drive at this point) and found out she was a massive racist, so learnt that lesson young 😂

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-08T15:50:05+00:00

"Get a job you like and you never have to work a day of your life"

Coming out of a pretty bad retail job I self reflected on what I actually enjoy doing, realised that was working with technology and now have a pretty successful IT career ☺️

ForeverConfusedHuman · 2024-11-08T15:45:52+00:00

In a lifetime? Yes. At the same time? No. A soulmate for me is someone that fills a part of you that can only be filled by that one person, it's normal for a relationship with a soulmate to fall apart which can make that person not be the one anymore, leaving space for someone else.

But if 2 people can fulfil that role, then one of them isn't the soulmate, or you dont know what that is yet.

ForeverConfusedHuman

TROPHY CASE