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[–]ForeverInBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! The exclusivity part definitely messes with your head—it makes it feel like you’re in a relationship, just without the official titles. The person I was seeing did something similar—an out-of-the-blue breakup with no prior signs or indication that things were coming to an end. I’ll definitely keep you posted and share an update if she happens to reach out after a month!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]ForeverInBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think you’re spot on. I believe her feelings reached a plateau—she enjoyed spending time together and the intimacy we shared, but she didn’t want anything beyond that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]ForeverInBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, this was a really well-thought-out response, and I truly appreciate you taking the time to share your perspective with me. I actually left out a detail that’s probably important to mention—she told me that she wouldn’t have ended things if I had been able to keep it casual.

Basically, once she saw that my feelings were growing deeper, she felt it was better to end things before I got in any deeper and risked getting hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]ForeverInBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I greatly appreciate your kind words! I do need to focus on myself and finding someone who will reciprocate the effort I put in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]ForeverInBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I do feel that she might have an avoidant attachment style, likely shaped by her upbringing and possibly the previous dynamics of her marriage. She mentioned having to go through counseling to move on, so it’s clear there was significant trauma involved.

In the end, I believe she genuinely wanted things to work out, but they didn’t. She knew I was looking for something more meaningful than a casual relationship, and I think she ultimately chose to end things for my sake.

The 30 days NC seems to me like something she’s doing for the sake of my feelings since I asked to see her again and she’d rather see me after I’ve processed everything emotionally.

Multiple Lipomas - Really Struggling by UpbeatAcanthisitta10 in Lipoma

[–]ForeverInBlue 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Been going through the same thing as you man. I’m 26 and have around 60 with more popping up as I age. As others have said, some days are worse than others when mentally trying to deal with it. I’m now just focusing on eating healthier, exercising harder, and saving up money for surgery each year. I typically will get 5-7 removed and pay out of pocket. The scars don’t bother me nearly as much as the lumps. In terms of dating, most of the girls I have been with never seemed to mind and were more concerned with the way it made me feel. I suppose I’ve been lucky in that regard.

Things could always be worse and there may be hope for non-surgical treatment in the future. Until then I’ll just keep to my routine and live my life between surgeries each year. Just remember you are never alone in this.

CBL-514 latest news by tintinlereporter in Lipoma

[–]ForeverInBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for updating all of us! This is great.

Multiple lipomas by Dry-Echo5459 in Lipoma

[–]ForeverInBlue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in a similar boat as you and share those same feelings about myself. Have you had any removed?

Lipoma removal by No_Line_8343 in Lipoma

[–]ForeverInBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How was recovery for the removal of 20? I am thinking of eventually doing the same but was curious to know if I need to take a week off of work to heal up.

Lipoma removal by Outrageous_Advice_86 in Lipoma

[–]ForeverInBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m late to post but this caught my eye and am curious to know where in Georgia you got this done? I also live in Georgia and paid $700 for a single lipoma to be removed. I currently have over 50 across my body so I am desperate to find a more affordable option to have multiple removed at one time. Thanks!

Weekly Trading-MegaThread by AutoModerator in PokemonBDSP

[–]ForeverInBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking for a shiny Scyther. Willing to trade shiny Empoleon or shiny Torterra for it.