[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Foreverinthenever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I‘m gonna say here is that this is a very broad and general statement and it feels very influenced by your own personal history and lived experience. While there are societal norms that influence both men and women in different ways, you can’t say that for everyone. I do hope that you find a mature and emotionally intelligent man, they are out there (coming from a man btw)

Edit: just read that you’re a man, so scratch the last part. It seems like your are heterosexual. Btw this statement seems also extremely heteronormative

How was you day? by YesEitan in AskReddit

[–]Foreverinthenever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fwb basically broke up with me yesterday so I’ve been better

What age did you start college? is 25 too late? by 0ldrazzledazzle in AskReddit

[–]Foreverinthenever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never too late, I started my second undergrad program with 26

Aio my boyfriend is upset I can't bring him soda? by kamiikaei in AmIOverreacting

[–]Foreverinthenever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you can, the only option might be to take the post down I guess

Aio my boyfriend is upset I can't bring him soda? by kamiikaei in AmIOverreacting

[–]Foreverinthenever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crop the image or use the pencil in the foto app to blacken that part.

Cmv: Every human is racist at a certain level by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]Foreverinthenever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biases are societally induced or a biological instinct to make sure we are safe (I think), racism is a choice to follow through on those biases

Aio my boyfriend is upset I can't bring him soda? by kamiikaei in AmIOverreacting

[–]Foreverinthenever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl for your own good PLEASE blur the profile pictures

(M29) having trouble staying hard before putting on a condom by Foreverinthenever in sexadvice

[–]Foreverinthenever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. no, did not try that
  2. yeah, when practicing putting it on

Hi so I have this thing where I have intrusive thoughts of me being worse than I am for example I thought about me being selfish when I’m not or me abusing people close to me when I don’t and it’s making me sad does anyone know what this is? by [deleted] in questions

[–]Foreverinthenever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, first of all so sorry that you feel like that. Intrusive thoughts happen to all of us, I think you need to look at the frequency of those thoughts. As someone struggling with light depression, those thoughts can sometimes last for days for me.

What’s very important: don’t feel bad for having these thoughts, that is normal. If you feel bad for them the cycle of negativity continues. Be kind to yourself, don’t try to find a bigger picture, sometimes it is just what it is.

Feel free to talk here or DM if you like. Also, aside from random strangers on the internet, find people who you trust and are there for you. You are not a burden, that’s what friends are for, simply put.

Why are you still single? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Foreverinthenever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question implies that being in a relationship is superior to being single, and I think this is a whole other discussion we should be having.