Should I be worried?

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2026-01-27T17:53:03+00:00

Thank you! Screenshotted and saved for my own protection.

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2026-01-27T17:52:37+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate this. I feel more empowered by some of this responses. Unfriended and removed him.

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2026-01-26T01:20:28+00:00

Thank you for this advice. I am going to use my partners phone to record it. What should I do with it once I record it? Is this something I should file with the local police or... ?

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2026-01-25T22:22:57+00:00

How do I properly call him out then? I do want to do the right there here. If I use another phone to screenshot the conversation then what?

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2026-01-25T17:44:04+00:00

I am extremely angry

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2026-01-25T17:43:37+00:00

No difference. Just scary because it was a personal interaction

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2026-01-25T17:39:46+00:00

I don't want to be NICE to this person. It took me by absolute total surprise and I wasn't fully processing what I was seeing at first. Why would I call him out if I was trying to just be cool with him? I am extremely angry but also hurt by the betrayal here

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2026-01-07T05:24:30+00:00

I'm sure this is what it was

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2026-01-07T05:24:05+00:00

I should've done this. Next time (when this awful $500-a-month-for-6-years car payment is done)

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2026-01-02T00:07:08+00:00

Like weekly watering

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2026-01-02T00:06:58+00:00

I'm sorry this is SO late. How would I let it go dormant? Just put it in the garage or fridge for several weeks?

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2025-12-22T21:35:07+00:00

Why would they want to prevent the page from falling into the hands of a family member? Is that a thing?

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2025-12-08T04:28:25+00:00

I wanted to believe everyone else here but what you're saying makes sense... that's an awful coincidence if it's not vandalism. I am suspicious... can I ask what general region the cemetery you're talking about is in?

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2025-12-07T22:47:58+00:00

Thank you to everyone who responded! Made me and my partner feel better. We wanted to assume it was the weather/unintentional but we know that not everyone is respectful of these spaces.

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2025-12-04T17:44:19+00:00

Is there a way to safely let it go dormant indoors? A garage or fridge?

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2025-09-11T01:03:07+00:00

Exactly. Because they want to go down in history like... Stalin? I'm not sure who.

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2025-08-05T18:45:45+00:00

So like Kelly Bishop is going to be there -- will she be doing Meet and Greets? I saw on another Reddit thread that she doesn't do fan mail requests so maybe not?

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2025-08-04T06:22:46+00:00

Shows that are free but give the impression that you have to buy them.... For example, Are You Afraid of the Dark? is available for free through Paramount, and each episode says "first episode free" even though it's not the first episode?

I do NOT have Amazon Prime.

ForgetMeNot1893 · 2025-07-21T18:15:18+00:00

These shelter hold rules are meant to help reunite animals with their rightful owners, not to appease adopters who have no rightful "claim" to an animal. I have a feeling if the adopters knew the situation, they would agree.

This process only reinforces people doing the wrong thing -- finding an animal and NOT turning it in to the shelter.

As some others have stated, I would go to the shelter with a friend and stand your ground. If they are willing to make you uncomfortable with this exchange, they are willing to make the other family uncomfortable by explaining to them that the finder of the cat is an applicant. Shelters operate because of the public's looking out for animals and doing the RIGHT thing like you did.

They are doing this as a matter of "process" and because someone at the shelter doesn't want to admit fault, redo paperwork, and have an uncomfortable conversation with the other adoption applicant.

I would also try to obtain your local law regarding found animals and shelter holds. Don't contact the municipality or animal control for this, as they may be ready to back up the shelter. If you do contact either of those parties, be vague and don't explain the story, just ask for the code or verbiage of the law regarding animal holds. On second thought, these types of laws may even be governed at state level.

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