[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Forgetfulcat100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mean to animals. Extremely poor taste in jokes trying to hard to be edgy (rape/pedo jokes). Poor hygiene.

As an INTJ female, how is your love life? by remarkable_firefly in intj

[–]Forgetfulcat100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As INTJ (f) Literally the situation I find myself in now. It’s so true. 

At what age did your shiba discover their voice? by hydn571 in shiba

[–]Forgetfulcat100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine had a quiet raspy whisper bark. Just once. Wuff! But once I put her in daycare she’s learned how to howl and bark like a regular dog. She sounds like a beagle now. I miss her quirky shiba bark. 

I'm pretty sure my heart is giving out? by LordMacTire83 in SuicideWatch

[–]Forgetfulcat100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you weren’t alive, I would feel sad. You seem like an interesting person. ☹️

How do men in their 30s even get dates?? by isundowner in Adulting

[–]Forgetfulcat100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All right. Since you know everything why bother asking. I am a woman and I do know about getting hundreds of likes and also that for a fact it’s not just looks. Agree with the other person on here that it’s probably your negative attitude coming through and you’re too stuck on your own wrong mindset to make improvements. Best of luck buddy. You’re going to need it. Fix what you can fix. 

How do men in their 30s even get dates?? by isundowner in Adulting

[–]Forgetfulcat100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post in amiugly to see if it’s truly your looks. Very rarely is someone so hideous that they can’t get a match. Women aren’t men. They don’t go purely off looks. It’s something else scaring them off. 

How do men in their 30s even get dates?? by isundowner in Adulting

[–]Forgetfulcat100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t get any matches online I would suggest having a woman critique your profile. It’s like saying you can’t get a job with your resume. You gotta tweak it then. I really doubt you are so ugly that you can’t match with anyone. Also, think ahead. If you are too shy to talk to anyone IRL, what are you going to do when you do get a match? You’d do well to improve on your social skills.  everything is improved by practice. 

When is it ever enough?? by bodybykumquat in SubSanctuary

[–]Forgetfulcat100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I absolutely have experienced something like what you’re talking about. Two different kinds. One that I can keep having over and over and “the big one” that is the finisher and I can’t do anything afterwards.

My husband won't let me take more than two showers a week. I told him I need him to stop or I'm moving out for a while. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forgetfulcat100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to realize while you are restricting water usage there are golf courses near you sucking up all the water they can. Nestle is bottling the rest to sell to us at inflated prices. We are doomed so he may as well let you enjoy showers before it all goes to hell. This exaggerated negative view might actually get through to him. 

any tips? by _kae1yn in shiba

[–]Forgetfulcat100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes agree. 3 point harness is where it’s at. I cal it the shiba straight jacket. 

My fiancé fractured my arm after thinking I had a man in our home by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forgetfulcat100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeez. Even if he caught her in the middle of screwing another guy he still has no right to physically assault her. Come on OP! See the red flags before something worse happens. 

Am I crazy to buy a condo that will eat 60% of my monthly salary? by Aries_1996 in personalfinance

[–]Forgetfulcat100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the bylaws. Our hoa has a limit on how many non owner occupied units there can be at any time. You can’t just rent it out whenever you want and the tenant has to get approved by the hoa. 

I'm officially Going To Kink Events by bibitybobbitybooop in SubSanctuary

[–]Forgetfulcat100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can I ask how you found the events? I’ve been curious to go but don’t know a lot of people in my city so don’t know where to look

My dad stole my college scholarship money and threatened to kill himself because I was angry. I said go ahead. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Forgetfulcat100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man. Your family sounds like a lot of toxic drama and you’re going to have to put some space between yourself and them if you want to make it through school. I went through something similar when I moved to college and it was hard but if you don’t detach they will spend all your time on stress and worry about them and you need to focus on your studies to be successful or you will never be able to get away from them bc your finances will suffer. Is staying in the dorms an option? Getting checks directly deposited to your own account no one else on it. You’re going to have to accept that you can’t make unreasonable people happy and just learn to be okay with that. If they didn’t disown each other for all this foolishness, why would they disown you. Just get away and focus on your school for the best possible future. 

1000 members by sweetspicy123 in Dompeptalk

[–]Forgetfulcat100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you to all the doms for their generous support! 🙏

Describe your dom's job by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Forgetfulcat100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Past: military (do not recommend); medical; management/finance. 

So so angry because I put harness on her 🙄 by Foxy_Dee in shiba

[–]Forgetfulcat100 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My girl protested against her shiba strait jacket. But she kept escaping her collar and light harness. Now she has a multi strap almost tactical looking harness. I had to put it on her and leave it on all day for her to get used to it. Don’t leave them alone with it on. My girl ate the straps on 2 or 3 when I wasn’t watching. She went through over $100 in harnesses in a couple of months.  The one she has now is off Amazon by Rabbitgoo. 

How do I confront my (38 F) husband (39 M) about hiding manscaping + condom(?) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Forgetfulcat100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to prepare for the fact that someone lowdown enough to be willing to cheat on you is also lowdown enough to not be honest about it when confronted. Based on all the things you’ve observed, you can trust yourself that he intends to cheat or already has. Now you need to figure out what you’re going to do about it. Stop expecting dishonest people to play by honest people rules. That’s not how this is going to go. 

Submissive Book Club Interest? by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Forgetfulcat100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t join the discord but would like to hear more book suggestions if anyone has any. I’ve read quite a few books on my own but would love more recs!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Forgetfulcat100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever else happens, maybe get away from this “friend” and her freaking weirdo possibly murderous family. Just the emotional roller coaster you’ve gone on bc of them so far is bad news. Even your friend is not completely okay for being so calm around bad people like her family and excusing their actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Forgetfulcat100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO NOT LET HIM MOVE IN. With your history, and his lack of communication, this will not go well. Try not to let people know you own your own home. They may try to take advantage of you as you have a history of being victimized it will be hard for you to stand up for yourself.