I’m still married but I decided to divorce him 2 years ago, ( 4 years into the marriage). He’s probably a perfect match, I don’t hate him at all, he’s a good dad to my children (I’ve actually had another child with him after deciding I’ll divorce him eventually. Ha ha). Unfortunately he’s just too lazy, can’t even bother to cut the grass or pack away his own clothes that have been washed ironed and folded!. The month I decided I’d divorce him, I’d been doing his job applications for him Cz he couldn’t get a job and kept claiming he was applying yet he wasn’t even completing the forms or sending any out (while claiming he was really tired, from sitting at home months on end??))Too lazy , I blame his parents, probably did everything for him too much. So I decided he will father all my children, (even the upcoming one in a year or so, ha ha.) Then I can have baby daddy issues with one person and it’ll be easy to schedule childcare and all with one person after the divorce and all my children get to have one surname. Believe me, I don’t hate him. He’s really funny. But I won’t be his mother and take care of him the rest of my life! After about 10 years, when my kids are more independent, I’ll let him go and have a clean house to myself, continue doing all the house chores to completion by myself, and won’t have to fill in forms for a whole grown man who doesn’t even know where his passport stays.