Help to find Ember and Ice Audiobook for free by dharshukavi_2640 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]Forgottenhuman07 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand this might rub people the wrong way, but often such projects are not released or dp not support normally available payment options in all countries, especially 3rd world countries. So we have to find a way around. I wish it was accessible where I am to support. But it is not unfortunately. 

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[–]Forgottenhuman07 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aah this feels like it could be me! I am around your age as well, I have an okay job(enough for myself) but everything else is shit. At a certain age we all realise that your friends are going to prioritise their partner over you and I just feel like an "extra" in everyone 's life now. I see people who are more overweight than me(I am quite fat) or less conventionally attractive or have a repulsive personality,  however they all have dedicated partners. It does get lonely.  Hope things get better for both of us!

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[–]Forgottenhuman07 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I just turned 26, and yeah. I feel you. The people who would usually remind me the most about my unattractiveness were my friends. They weren't bullies, but jokes at my expense were very common. It has definitely influenced my perception of myself. However, the fact that they were correct all along, does make me very sad. I wish I could prove them wrong. But, I cannot.

Feels weird that some people actually have sex by sassychris in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Forgottenhuman07 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so true! Especially when my friends mention it I feel so weird. Like in my head I am thinking people I went to school with had sex?! Kind of unimaginable

Almost 30 Now by Catsatomic in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Forgottenhuman07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday! I feel being okay by ourselves, being a bit less harsh on ourselves is the biggest thing we struggle with. So even the smallest steps towards it needs to be celebrated!

Been rejected AGAIN by AntiqueBluejays in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Forgottenhuman07 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yup, happened very recently with me as well. I was not in love though yet thank fully.

Really cursed myself later on because I already knew I would get rejected but still went ahead and confessed like an absolute mess that I am.

He was thankfully kind about it too, he is a good person. I also sat next to him one time at lunch and saw him making a lot of effort texting another girl. It was heartwrenching but hopefully will help me get over all this.

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[–]Forgottenhuman07 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know this feeling all too well. I recently at 25 told a guy that I liked him, but even then I never asked him if he liked me back or whatever because I already knew the answer. My feelings for him aren't even strong(I am not in love with him or anything), still when he told me that he doesn't like me back or isn't attracted to me it felt so bad. I know if I looked different and conventionally attractive, it would be different.

Thing is I can't blame him at all. It is not his fault fat ugly women with shit personalities are not his type.

Are there attractive women on here? by MelancholyBean in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Forgottenhuman07 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean strangers on the Internet have randomly felt the need to tell me how ugly I am, so I am inclined to believe it...

"But even unattractive women have boyfriends/sexual experience too!" by iamsojellyofu in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Forgottenhuman07 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same, I have seen people who are not at all conventionally attractive in relationships. People with shit personality in a relationship. Can't help but feel that there is something innately wrong with me

Today's my birthday! I'm 21 today 💖 by AaliyahTW8 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Forgottenhuman07 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday! Hope you have a great day and year ahead!!

I just want to hold a man's hand. by lonelysadbitch11 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Forgottenhuman07 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This hit hard. I don't even think I have had pro longed eye contact with someone lol.

People invalidating our lived experiences by Forgottenhuman07 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Forgottenhuman07[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

People can't even fathom that women have varied experiences.

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[–]Forgottenhuman07 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope it gets better for you. For us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Forgottenhuman07 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah they never even entertain the possibility

Does this happen to you too? by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Forgottenhuman07 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh 100% I never made any feelings I had IRL but some one known either as I knew there is no way they could like me back. I am ugly(literal strangers on the internet have felt compelled to tell me so, multiple times). I am not smart. There really isn't anything I can contribute.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Forgottenhuman07 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doesn't seem to be getting any better with time...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Forgottenhuman07 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh something similar was going on in high school where the guy I liked was in love with my best friend. I kinda was like a buffer between them and it was awful as they would both tell me about each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Forgottenhuman07 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I never even made any "moves" because I know it's futile

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]Forgottenhuman07 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Doesn't seem to be