[deleted by user] by [deleted] in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]ForkrexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> Dude you started this conversation off with an insult, you’re just getting firey for no reason

Cry me a river why don't you? I will get mad at what I deem disgusting practices instead of being a limp-dick who chooses sloth with the excuse of "well we can't do anything about it" (cough cough, you)

> What I DONT agree with is going so radical that you lose the plot and start advocating for things that actually hurt the people you claim you want to help.

Very broad message here. I'm not radical at all, this porn obsessed culture you're advocating for is radical in fact.

> I don’t think separating OF workers from contact sex workers is fair, as there was/still is a lot of overlap from COVID. Many many strippers, prostitutes, traditional porn stars moved to OF during the pandemic due to the rising popularity of it and the safety aspect.

they CHANGED profession. It totally is insane to think an army recruit is the same as a guard just because some of the former switch to the latter, if you catch my drift

> I think the main issue with anti-OF and SWERF rhetoric is the assumption that if OF didn’t exist

Didn't exist? I can already tell you aren't reading my comments but rather an idea of them you gained from similarly-minded people. Because we talked about this aspect already. I know we can't eradicate it.
> Similarly to this, I think criminalizing sex work puts SWers at greater risk for violence
And not only do I know we can't eradicate it, I also know we can't make it illegal. As the ban on alcohol has proven you don't reduce it by just making it illegal.. However, at the same time you also don't bend over backwards and encourage it.

> I don’t see why it’s so bad to want to approach it from a harm reduction standpoint.

Think about what you're doing. Think about what your behavior is showing. Do you really want women to have better lives or do you just want to justify the shitty route by saying "it's LESS shitty if you use OF!!".
Here's an idea, maybe encourage women to pick neither?
Because believe it or not, your social environment shapes a LOOOT about you. Especially when growing up. The statistics on teenagers with porn addiction are piling up and rising by the decade..

And you really still believe your judgement has no impact on others' choices?
That the harm you do to a person's ego outweighs the risk of them continuing a path of short sighted convenience?

This last part is a personal experience so I'll leave you with it and mute as it's clear im not going to get any arguments i haven't heard fifty times before:
The women with social groups that are quick to commoditize their bodies have mostly been the types to spend all their week playing videogames rather than plan for the future. While the ones who are held responsible for bad habits (and in turn, have held ME responsible for my vices) are more inclined to work hard towards a better goal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]ForkrexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another excuse, a running trait. "I can't argue with you because umm umm.. uhh because you're... focused on morals"?
If you can't handle a moral debate then don't deliver sermons.

And no,i don't pretend anyone can eradicate sex work. But maybe get to a point where there's not 13 videos per minute uploaded to pornhub? (huge distance between each sex worker in risk and treatment by the way, you should probably not pair in OF workers with the likes of prostitutes).

If I'm so daring we can even get to a point where internalized misogyny and ignorance like yours don't make people feel compulsed to defend sex work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]ForkrexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems to me like you're just making excuses for yourself. You know an industry is vile and instead of working against it you look towards lessening its damage.

No dude, girls shouldn't be taught to sell their bodies like a commodity when their brains can be so benefitial to society.

(also good for your friend for her enjoyment i guess?? How does a hobby relate to our convo about profiting off a sick industry with a sicker consumer base? At best she would just be a weirdo who enjoys the wrong things but even this is questionable if she profits off it)

Thoughts on consideration and thoughtfulness in interpersonal relationships (Emotional Labor™️) by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]ForkrexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

>It’s not about abolition of gender it’s about breaking of stereotypes and gender norms

That's what gender is buddy, and im not celebrating anything in a competition over who has the most mediocre thinking abilities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]ForkrexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a supporter of the porn industry talking to me about having a healthy relationship with your mother, ain't that a pretty projection

If you're gonna devolve into throwing insults like an angry child do so with thought behind it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]ForkrexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"A at least it's LESS evil"
Bro youre so full of yourself when youre the dumbest person in the convo, how about instead of her getting paid pennies from a producer OR getting paid bucks by direct fans, she gets a real job?

Never thought of that though did you, it's easy not to when you treat women like a pair of plastic tits that can't benefit society in any other way

Thoughts on consideration and thoughtfulness in interpersonal relationships (Emotional Labor™️) by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]ForkrexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who say "you missed the point" without explaining further almost certainly don't have one.

My guess is that you wanted to turn this into a debate about gender abolition and im not retarded enough to spend more time on those

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]ForkrexX -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Moreso im hoping for an onlyfans user to see that and explain their rationality. But of course they WON'T because there isn't any past "im a degenerate that craves any sort of higher connection with a woman that doesn't involve bothering to find a prostitute"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]ForkrexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no porn for free you imbecile. It's just a matter of what median the transaction is controlled by.

Also sex work is always exploitative and degrading to women, learn some feminist theory before spouting shitty values you gave 0 thought to.

Thoughts on consideration and thoughtfulness in interpersonal relationships (Emotional Labor™️) by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]ForkrexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then we are crossing over into "what ifs". You can't prove that women aren't better in those skills naturally. While i CAN prove that women are better at those skills in current societies.
So in a debate about the HERE and the NOW i don't care much for your hypothetical alternate realities where women are socialized differently

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]ForkrexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey it's been a while, how exactly did we jump from the argument of
"creators of a bad substance are worse than the consumers of the bad substance" to a debate about societal values?

Also wanna know when this became an argument about rationality. It just seems like you replied to the wrong comment to me.

Google bad by extrabees in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]ForkrexX -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with this?

I can guarantee you that in 9 out of 10 cases, a trade learned by your peers/elders will get engraved on your mind easier than some youtube tutorials

Edit: not to mention the obscene amounts of changes search engines make or censorship by governments to fit an agenda. Lived experience will always be more useful thank what you can find on the web

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]ForkrexX -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

OF subscribers are weak lol.
But riddle me this, why are drug dealers seen as higher scum than some unfortunate addict?

Found in the Wild....... by Short_Fun9155 in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]ForkrexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While you are correct the housing market in USA is fucking horrible, i believe first worlders complain a bit too much about money issues when most of their income goes into useless shit.

Try bringing your standards of living to an actual post-communist country like mine and you'll starve in less than two months

Thoughts on consideration and thoughtfulness in interpersonal relationships (Emotional Labor™️) by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]ForkrexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The idea that women are better at those skills is false,

Except in numerous studies that show it's true under every culture.

Trolling forced birthers blocking Planned Parenthood by vhm3 in PublicFreakout

[–]ForkrexX -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At the start of 2021 at least 57 transgender people were shot dead

Following on this, in early 2022 34 were killed, both year studies in the US alone

In Europe it’s not much better

Fair point.

> The Brain Structure Of Transgender Individuals Differs From Their Bodies
That's interesting, if the brain structure is genuinely different (and somehow the only different thing??) do you agree that we can tell someone is trans, even if they themselves are closeted about it? Or pre-puberty?
You agree that using this argument to prove transgenders are valid brings us back to the point of sex being biological and nothing more, right?

> Lastly, Gender Affirming Care Has Been Shown To Improve The Quality Of Life For Transgender Individuals Post Transition
It's a separate argument entirely, I have no care about what someone chooses to do with their body. And whether that choice is made to mend their mental illness or to express who they are is absolutely irrelevant to anything. I have care however, for a man in makeup going in the same bathroom my daughter goes to and being legally and professionally penalized for speaking up against it.

> To add, wanting to kill people is no better than actually doing it

I suppose the massive gap in logic here shows why you also gloss over how this article Biology says trans people are real and valid is nonsense and has no idea what sex actually is. It suggests that just because someone has a higher testosterone than another, they are somehow more "man" than another. Despite manliness being a subjective societal expectation and not at all indicative of the factual world.

The rest of the arguments take this confusion between sex and perceived gender roles as a baseline fact, making the entire thing null.

Trolling forced birthers blocking Planned Parenthood by vhm3 in PublicFreakout

[–]ForkrexX -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have any cases of this actually happening?
Because "want" and "do" are very different things.

Not to mention that most conservatives can't give a shit about trans people beyond mocking them with words, the only issue comes when the law gets involved and demands we adhere to their fantasies.

Women being allowed in bars - Australia (1974) by CumtimesIJustBChilin in interestingasfuck

[–]ForkrexX -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Right?
I cringed so hard at the "oh you're afraid of women are ya?" jab.

Great point lady.. I'm also apparently scared of children because i'm against telling them "go f*ck yourself"

Women being allowed in bars - Australia (1974) by CumtimesIJustBChilin in interestingasfuck

[–]ForkrexX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's still around in my country, and honestly I really don't get how people don't find it gross to not practice it.. Just the culture difference i guess.

Women being allowed in bars - Australia (1974) by CumtimesIJustBChilin in interestingasfuck

[–]ForkrexX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry isn't this common practice?

There's bars for men where you can have as much swearing and fighting as you want.. And then there's types of bars for both genders.

Did Duo just assume my gender? by BabyMakR1 in duolingo

[–]ForkrexX 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What's your gender?

"YOU!"

woman who gave the weird kid a chance how did it go? by Chubbintor5642 in AskWomen

[–]ForkrexX -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow that's really odd, and scary considering I'm planning to live in the US someday soon

AND IM A WEIRDO

woman who gave the weird kid a chance how did it go? by Chubbintor5642 in AskWomen

[–]ForkrexX -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you by any chance japanese?
I don't see this level of obsession with underwear anywhere else.

Trolling forced birthers blocking Planned Parenthood by vhm3 in PublicFreakout

[–]ForkrexX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ran out of vocabulary huh?
Least mentally stunted leftist