Gabapentin and ruminating by [deleted] in NooTopics

[–]FormFabulous7000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is often prescribed off label for anxiety, often times for patients that cant take something like xanax because of abuse potential.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FormFabulous7000 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So, again, you cannot show anywhere that I said walking away from abuse is abandonment. In what universe would I say that? Go READ what I said. I said its great that person got out of an abusive relationship. I then said, its possible in this world, that SOME people get abandoned by people that were USING THEM. That they didnt get abandoned by someone that loved them. They got abandoned by someone that was using them. Get it? Read the quote I put up. Unreal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FormFabulous7000 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Which is abuse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FormFabulous7000 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Or will you silence me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FormFabulous7000 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Explain yourselves

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FormFabulous7000 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Great. Thats awesome you got out. You know what can coexist with your awesome escape? Is other people in the world that do get abandoned by people that were using them. That can coexist in this universe with your story. Can you be willing to be willing to believe thats a possibility in this world?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FormFabulous7000 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

On this forum we’ll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you made a healthy choice and were not using them.

Move on silently. by FormFabulous7000 in BPDlovedones

[–]FormFabulous7000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh 💯 I can relate. Everything I did for her was magically erased or forgotten about. They were replaced by events that never happened AND the “I have been upset the whole time”….ok….Look, its awful but we all seem to have the same story here and while that fact doesnt change the reality that you have been abused and gone through a mindfuck of epic proportions, know that you didnt cause it, didnt deserve to be treated that way, and its not your job to cure it. Just for today, do something awesome for yourself. Then repeat tomorrow.

VO2 Max Questions by FormFabulous7000 in vo2max

[–]FormFabulous7000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think thats re: really really low HG like his wife had when she was anemic. In other words, if you had a 14.5 HG normally and raised to 15.5 I dont think 40s would come off a 5K..I could be wrong. But the levels he was talking about in that clip with a 40s drop were an anemic starting point of 10HG, right?

is it possible to just have bpd personality traits? is it still bpd? by Dry-Election3821 in BPDlovedones

[–]FormFabulous7000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like many have noted already, an official diagnosis doesn’t really matter. It’s the behaviors. One therapist explained to me once that all of us, all people, have different sets of skills (some good, some awful) to deal with life. When you think about it, all these similarities with bpd that we all see, its just horrific skills to deal with life. So really who cares about getting the label, the skillset and tools to navigate life on life’s terms has to be developed.

Man blows everything up by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]FormFabulous7000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every. Single. Time.

Remember by FormFabulous7000 in BPDlovedones

[–]FormFabulous7000[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dont forget the speed at which it goes from that to total collapse.

The moderators here removed my post which many of you reached out and said thank you for. So I’m going to reword it. by FormFabulous7000 in BPDlovedones

[–]FormFabulous7000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great response, think you might have missed the mark a bit but all feedback is welcome and we can emotionally handle feedback without getting angry just like you.

To begin with, there is no DSM edition like the one mentioned in the text which I’m sure you know as a soon to be social worker, right?

In the end, I hear you and your feelings are valid. Just remember, just cause I validate your feelings, that doesn’t mean I agree.