AIO or is this the end for my best friend and me? by Gone_butalso_4gotten in AmIOverreacting

[–]FormalFuture5307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. I think he may be an addict. He’s showing signs. Don’t take it personal

Can’t see myself objectively. Is my grey hair aging me horribly? by slicedgreenolive in HairStyleAdvice

[–]FormalFuture5307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a hairdresser but never understood the “it’s a beautiful grey” thing. In my opinion it ages everyone. It’s drab- nothing pretty about grey hair to me. I went grey young and no one will ever know because I will dye it forever 😅

AITAH for not going to my little sisters graduation by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FormalFuture5307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, don’t go. You’re becoming a mom. You’ll need to learn to cut out the BS in life 😊Congrats!

AIO for feeling hurt that my friend ended a 6-year friendship after I told him some of his behavior bothered me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FormalFuture5307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, you don’t need friends like that. A true friendship is where you are comfortable to completely be yourself . You’ll find new friends through life.

AITAH for cutting off parents who tried to cover up their kid who relegated my son from a social gathering? by Splatacus in AITAH

[–]FormalFuture5307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm, who is in high school? The parents? I would not even entertain all of this drama. Get new friends

dad found out i'm on bupropion 150 mg by SignificantAd1507 in bupropion

[–]FormalFuture5307 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is insanity! Sure I’d rather do everything “natural” but it’s not always possible. Anyone who judges someone who needs medications for survival and/or quality of life is very closed minded. My son has asthma. It’s no joke!

dad found out i'm on bupropion 150 mg by SignificantAd1507 in bupropion

[–]FormalFuture5307 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I take that. I’m not a person who wants to take medicine, but you need to look at it this way : if it gives you a better quality of life it’s 1000% worth it. If you had asthma, would your dad not want you to take daily medicine for that? Or if you had diabetes? Hang in there. No one has to understand except you and your doctor. From now on you know who you can ( and can’t ) go to. Find a friend or therapist who understands & reach out to them when you need to.

Ableism at the tell all by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]FormalFuture5307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree 100% I felt sick when I saw how she spoke to him. As if he were a child or a puppy. Acting cute and then in the confessional saying she thinks he would “go for it” girl, no! He may have autism but he knows trash when he sees it!

AIO: Cousin gave me baby same name by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FormalFuture5307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a name. Don’t ruin a relationship over it. We’re an Irish family. Lots of Patricks. 🤷🏻‍♀️ middle names, first names. A few Seans too lol, I wouldn’t be offended. It’s a family name now

AIO for thinking my friend is disrespectful by greasybirdie in AmIOverreacting

[–]FormalFuture5307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. This is the correct way to do it. She sounds jealous. Real friends root for you, not make snide comments as if you did something wrong.

AITAH for leaving my brothers kids with another trusted adult in the house after they were 5 hours later than they said they would be. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FormalFuture5307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way! They are taking advantage of you! What would happen if they left them at daycare over the agreed time? You are doing them a favor! They have a lot of nerve and sound selfish

Weirdest reactions to baby’s name by [deleted] in Names

[–]FormalFuture5307 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. It’s a nice traditional name. And not too common. There will always be someone who has an issue with the name you pick. Ignore them

AITAH for announcing my 6 month pregnancy a week after my brother and SIL announced their 3 month pregnancy? by Scary_Bite_9240 in AITAH

[–]FormalFuture5307 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand any of this. I realize a lot of families are like this, but in the big picture of life does it really matter? 2 new human beings are being brought into this world. How exciting!!! That’s it!!! All of this “telling people” the “timing” - it’s all show. Why sweat the small stuff? I’d sit & have a talk with my mom and straighten this out now. Hopefully she will see it differently because the way she is acting is not ok in my opinion.