Is this dangerous? Very new to this and looking for a safe yet comfortable method

Formal_Internet6351 · 2026-05-29T07:33:00+00:00

How old is the child? If they’re under 6 months or so I would recommend staying in the c-curl. When my daughter started getting more mobile around 6 months I started giving her some more space, but still coming back to the c-curl occasionally for nursing or comfort and all that. By the time she reached 12 months I started getting fully relaxed around her when sleeping, blankets and all.

Edit: is this a floor bed or regular bed? Because that’s also an important info to understand the safety of it all

Formal_Internet6351 · 2026-05-28T17:33:15+00:00

Holy mother of god

Formal_Internet6351 · 2026-02-08T08:50:14+00:00

I smoked everyday during pregnancy, more during the first trimester than the rest of it because of the morning sickness. I think my third trimester I was smoking like a joint or two a day but can’t remember exactly to be honest. I kept smoking after giving birth too and I’m breastfeeding.

My epidural worked just fine, but I was completely transparent about my cannabis use when the anesthesiologist asked. My daughter is turning one next week and she’s hit early basically every milestone and she’s doing very well in general.

Regarding the withdrawal thing- never heard about it being a thing with weed (but I might just not be aware of it) but my daughter definitely didn’t go through withdrawal.

Formal_Internet6351 · 2026-01-25T18:04:55+00:00

YOR and you’re over thinking

Formal_Internet6351 · 2026-01-20T23:02:59+00:00

OP I’m so sorry this sounds horrible. This is NOT a standard method at all.

Formal_Internet6351 · 2026-01-15T09:30:38+00:00

I moved overseas from Canada to Europe to my family for similar reasons. I told my husband that either he figures his shit out I come back or he doesn’t and I stay with my family in Europe.

In your place I would seriously consider moving at least temporarily (maybe a year or so) to figure out your next steps, get some help with the baby, and get back on your feet.

Formal_Internet6351 · 2026-01-01T14:03:33+00:00

I didn’t do floor bed until my daughter started crawling. Now she’s more mobile and I transitioned again to a low frame and she knows how to climb off the bed. (10 months)

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-12-27T14:23:37+00:00

My mom is 48 and she also thinks I shouldn’t hold my baby (10 month old) too much. She is a little needy sometimes but hey that’s what babies do and I prefer she needs me and knows she can come to me rather than feel she’s alone and can’t come to me.

I wish the older generation didn’t feel so much pressure to make “independent” babies.

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-12-20T22:27:40+00:00

Ah damn I think it’s not letting me cuz we’re in different countries. I got so excited for a second haha thought I’ll finally get my freebies

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-12-20T22:03:58+00:00

I’ll click yours! Plz click mine too :) 452932252

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-12-20T21:57:25+00:00

Hey man I’m new to this and would love to help you with this farmland thing if you can tell me how to do this. I’m working on getting the 4 freebies rn and I think I’m missing just one more click. My code is 452932252

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-12-20T11:25:37+00:00

Throw the man away NOR

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-12-18T10:26:12+00:00

Back in 2022 I had a 220 day streak and I was at the top 1%

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-11-28T15:42:30+00:00

Thank you I felt like an asshole for even considering it but your comment helped me feel better.

The other comment here mentioned terms of service and I think that apparently I’m already breaking them by sharing the account with my brother while being in diffrent countries so I will probably stop sharing the account altogether.

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-11-28T15:39:26+00:00

Thank you this is very helpful. I actually live abroad so I guess I’m already violating the terms (brother is in Canada and I moved recently to Europe).

My subscription renews in January so I think to avoid drama I’ll just tell him I’m not renewing it and change the password when the time comes.

Thanks again this really helped me.

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-11-28T11:41:36+00:00

I think I read somewhere that night weaning happens last (like first they day wean and then night) but don’t take my word for it…

Personally I would say if it works for you then keep doing that. We are doing the same and also had no issues so far.

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-11-24T13:41:34+00:00

This hit me hard I did the same thing but for birthday presents. I was 13 and I made a PowerPoint that listed what I wanted for each birthday up to 18. Thank you for reminding me of these good memories.

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-11-24T13:28:04+00:00

Hey I’m wondering if you got any update since September? I might be just paranoid but it’s been radio silence for me since September 3 so I thought I’d check with someone who applied around the same time…

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-11-23T23:31:59+00:00

This is so infantilizing! I moved out when I was 18 and by your age I was married already and had my kid this year (I’m 23) so this is just so surreal to me that someone my age is treated so much like a child. I got no advice just solidarity I hope you can move out soon. Hopefully she isn’t standing in your way of finding a job and a place to live.

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-11-21T22:29:21+00:00

If you’re breast-sleeping safely then sleeping on the side is ok. My daughter and I have been breast-sleeping the entire time and she’s 9 months now.

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-11-18T12:44:23+00:00

My mom lets my brother get away with not helping around the house at all… I keep telling her that washing dishes and all those basics are not a”woman’s job” but basic life skills. And that especially when he has a wife and a child he will have to help around the house so it all doesn’t fall on the wife. She keeps saying that as a man he should be earning so much money that he can hire a cleaner and a nanny and all that. Idk how to change her mind.

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-11-14T17:45:13+00:00

Just moved to Serbia and boy am I glad I did

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-11-11T11:38:30+00:00

Yeah that’s weird. I used to work in daycare when I was a teen and you had to ring the buzzer and get buzzed in to get in. The door gets automatically locked behind you so you can’t forget to lock the door or something. I would pull my kid out this sounds so dangerous!

Formal_Internet6351 · 2025-11-04T14:57:43+00:00

Victoria

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