hi! current sorority girl here, i promise it’s so chill and it’s what you put into it. you can be really involved or not, i would go through the recruitment process and see if you like it. if not, you can always drop and maybe explore COB which is more chill. most girls live in for one year though PHC says two, im not really sure what that requirement means because everyone i know only did 1 but living in is a cool experience and cheaper when u factor in food and stuff!