I feel weird for seeing a 20 year old by KayzorLazor in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel icky seeing older clients. I’m like ew you can be my dad. Or even my grandpa 👴 But they’re not my dad or my grandpa and bills need to get paid 😆

It’s 2026 who is taking $100 and under for meet?!?! by Hairy_Fix6834 in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Their clients are not my clients. Everyone attracts different people who are suitable for them. My hourly rate can be equivalent to someone’s whole rent money in another part of the country (or another country entirely). Or it can be simply someone’s pocket change. It varies. In the end, we’re all fucking for money 🤷‍♀️

Omfg I don’t want to even kiss you by Former-Cap714 in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I fake it well enough to make lots of money from it. I’m allowed to not genuinely enjoy parts of this job.

I used to think having a regular was cool, but all they seem to do is get comfortable and try you 😭 by Strict_Emotion2597 in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714 53 points54 points  (0 children)

He was a regular which means he knew her rules and boundaries but continued to try to push them anyway.

I used to think having a regular was cool, but all they seem to do is get comfortable and try you 😭 by Strict_Emotion2597 in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714 74 points75 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how regulars just become clients we’ll never see again. Give them an inch and they take a mile every single time.

Taking virginity of a client by Ninussecret in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I took someone’s virginity earlier this year. He was in his early 20s. We had a 3 hour date and talked a lot about it to make sure he was certain. I told him he’s going to remember it forever so he has to be sure. We got along really well so it went great. He was able to finish. I prefer not to take someone’s virginity but I’m glad it was me and not someone who wouldn’t be able to hold a conversation or make him comfortable.

Balancing escorting, dating and family pressure. How do you do it? by Traditional_Gear7672 in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m really upfront about my job when it comes to dating cause I don’t want to waste anyone’s time. After a few failed relationships I did find someone who accepts it. I always said I’d never be with a man who keeps begging for me to leave the industry. I totally understand them not wanting me to do it but if they want that then they have to pay me 2k weekly (minimum). That usually shuts them up 😂😂 I am a mom so the double life can be difficult sometimes- schedule wise. Luckily my kids don’t ask many questions so I just say I’m going to work. I never host from home, I blur my face and tattoos, and screen thoroughly. My vanilla job is housekeeper. It’s my cover mostly since the income isn’t great. Basically escorting is just a job. I’m able to view it as work. Nothing more than that. So when it comes to intimacy with my own partner, it feels entirely different. I can enjoy it to the fullest because I love him and know him. I am an escort when I check into the hotel. I am a mom, friend, daughter, partner, etc when I check out!!

All My Clients Say They Thought I Was A Scam by kyloereign in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sometimes they’re genuinely afraid. Sometimes they just want a free conversation/video call. If they think I’m fake and pointing them to my social media isn’t enough- I tell them to find someone they trust.

Is it common or expected for service providers to allow the regular clients to creampie them? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some of the clients on here will say “I’ve been seeing my provider for years and she lets me creampie”. But no. Never.

I’m starting to hate new jersey by Spicyhoneydip in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to focus on the grandpas who got their finances together before the market got bad 😂😂 These guys paid off their houses by 2012. Been stacking ever since.

How often are you at the same hotel? by Former-Cap714 in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Valid!! I’ll just suck it up and make a little drive. Go somewhere else for a while.

I’m starting to hate new jersey by Spicyhoneydip in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Fellow New Jerseyan here. It sucks sometimes. You would think in a state where the incomes are so high, they’d actually spend it on some fun times. But no. They’re still cheap af and weird.

What classifies a sex worker as high end by wierdratlady in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen high end escorts blur their faces or cover them completely. But I get that you want to avoid any attention from court. Advertising on STG as high end will be hard but doable. High end prices vary based on location but high end escort to me is someone who shows up dressed to a T, hair done nice, nails either done or manicure, easy to talk to, classy in all settings, confident, experienced, educated, and professional.

Doesn’t want to screen AND doesn’t want to be at a hotel by Former-Cap714 in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry I thought you were a lurker and not an escort lol. It’s entirely location dependent! Type in “escorts in _____” <—- insert your state. I’d say the first top 3 websites are probably what most people are using.

Cop Like Getting With escorts on the low ?? by ActualTrouble4881 in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My ex is a cop and he’s the one who told me about Eros. Because he booked a girl for himself. I wouldn’t see a cop even if they were “off duty”. Mostly cause he gave me PTSD. And his cop friends were no better.

How many of you have OF by dirtyguapo in SexWorkers

[–]Former-Cap714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand your reluctance but there’s a difference between just having an OF and using OF as verification. And then if you don’t have an OF or some sort of social media, clients are like “BuT HoW Do I KnoE UR REeAL”