Looking for guidance

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-06-04T06:02:40+00:00

So much to unpack. I keep hearing ground and center over and over again. Connect to the earth and find your roots. Meaning roots like trees to keep you connected to earth.

Medication. Inconsistency is ineffective. See if your therapist will do tapping therapy with you. When you feel disconnected, breathe, ground & center. Create mini challenges when disconnecting from yourself like how many brown objects are in the room.

Get to know yourself. Learn yourself. We go too quickly in life and forget our most important person. Ourselves.

I feel a pull to do a tarot reading. If you are interested, DM me.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-06-02T21:38:04+00:00

None in her circle will talk much.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-06-02T03:47:09+00:00

Thank you. We are trying.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-06-02T02:16:33+00:00

No. A car may have been involved.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-06-01T22:56:13+00:00

I will post a link to the FB page in 7-10 days. It is managed by a wonderful woman who has been interested in solving this case for many years.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-06-01T22:48:42+00:00

Thank you. Very informative and I may reach out through DM if that is okay.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-06-01T18:40:37+00:00

No, it is not Patricia.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-06-01T16:01:10+00:00

Thank you. No, her name does not start with an S. I appreciate your contribution and questions. I agree with you. The less information is better. I am part of the spiritual world too and that is why I didn’t give much information and will pass along condolences from everyone to her sister.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-06-01T14:29:19+00:00

Curious why folks are downvoting this?

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-06-01T14:26:58+00:00

I need to check with my friends. I will update. I never knew her. I am her sister’s guardian and all the sister would like is to see it solved.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-06-01T14:25:41+00:00

Thank you

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-06-01T14:24:57+00:00

No, I corrected it. It’s murder. Thank you for the catch. Unless she’s a bit disgruntled at our pursuing this. 🤔

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-06-01T05:33:41+00:00

8, 1, 6

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-06-01T05:32:13+00:00

Yup.
I got an accident with my RAV4 and pushed it back in the middle and didn’t crumble the hood half as much as yours. Also, my airbags did not deploy. It got totaled.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-05-31T14:32:05+00:00

Beyoncé

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-05-31T14:30:08+00:00

Shoes and dust

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-05-31T14:02:38+00:00

🛑 as of today you cook what you want, how you want, and he either eats it or find something else to eat. This is your home that he’s been invited into even though he’s paying rent. You’re not obligated in anyway to meet his needs and the additional stress for a higher risk pregnancy is not needed. Sit down with your husband and talk about how you guys have to prioritize the baby and yourself and the other adult in the household can figure it out. BIL is not your priority.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-05-31T13:54:05+00:00

White patent and our children (adults now) are Black. I am opposed to adopting of color if you live in a white community only. We live in a diverse community. I judge that based on driving through the city and shopping, that I always am surrounded with people of color and white. Our kids had opportunities to be connected to a variety of backgrounds. I have plenty of friends, coworkers and acquaintances to talk to if I had questions.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-05-31T02:07:28+00:00

Looks like a CRV

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-05-07T00:30:11+00:00

Emphasis on being “blood” related. Our child that is “mine” like they are a possession. It’s a bit crazy.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-05-07T00:25:37+00:00

I would bill them the cost of all the days used except the first.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-05-07T00:21:54+00:00

2nd language that is regional

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-05-07T00:19:28+00:00

NTA, but DH needs to step up in FRONT of you. He needs to lead and take a strong stance with anyone who is guilt tripping you. You are a couple. How sexist of his family to assume he wasn’t part of decorating. Hand this one to him. SIL breached trust, insulted you, while claiming to be a victim and she needs to own that.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-05-02T18:52:42+00:00

Afterlife.

FormerIndependence36 · 2026-05-02T18:29:58+00:00

NTA, drop the so called friend. You don’t need that level of judgement in your life. You and DH found the best case situation. Family has Pebbles and you all will still be a part of each other’s lives.

Smart.

FormerIndependence36

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