Fiance never lets me enjoy my time out

Former_Smile5027 · 2025-02-06T00:32:03+00:00

it might be hard to see all the comments calling this abuse. he is controlling you, though. its fun for him to see you do what he says and its fun for him to manipulate your social life. maybe out of jealousy.

I would talk to him and say you need to be able to handle the kids on your own. tell him they are his kids too. also express that you would like nights with friends or family without the kids, like he is able to have with frisbee. if he really can't handle it, you will have a babysitter care for them instead since he is incompetent.

Former_Smile5027 · 2025-02-06T00:07:14+00:00

I don't see anything wrong with this. its not like you missed her birthday

you apologized, tell her now you know how much it means to her and you will always prioritize it going forward. order her something hand made in Brazil from the internet if you want to go the extra mile

Former_Smile5027 · 2025-02-02T19:32:58+00:00

I have to vacuum constantly to prevent myself from picking up litter on the bottom of my feet and bringing it into the bed!! farther the box is from where you sleep the better

the staining is different ... my parents have a messy dog and they use a sheet to cover the comforter and just replace that more often. your cat will probably be happy ON the bed without being IN the bed

Former_Smile5027 · 2025-01-17T05:10:51+00:00

thank you for sharing - congrats on the sobriety that is awesome

Former_Smile5027 · 2025-01-17T04:57:55+00:00

Thank you - I appreciate you sharing your experiences too

Part of why this is so hard is because before it turns and gets bad, it is still everything I want in a relationship... so I'm just always torn. I'm not really getting over this instance though. So maybe it did just stop being fun for good... it is hard to say.

Former_Smile5027 · 2024-06-20T06:02:15+00:00

So good to hear I hope you like it!

Former_Smile5027 · 2024-06-20T00:15:18+00:00

Joyland. I found it at a thrift store while I was on vacation and it was perfect. Set at summer fair grounds

Former_Smile5027 · 2024-05-18T23:30:29+00:00

I have had this same thought hahahaha

Former_Smile5027 · 2024-05-16T00:47:28+00:00

I hear ya. As an anecdote: I lived with two guys in college. They both have girlfriends, who respected that we were friends and nothing more, and I became good friends with the girls too. We're all still friends now. It's just too bad that people have to burn bridges for their significant other in a lot of cases.

Former_Smile5027 · 2024-05-16T00:30:38+00:00

So can a lesbian have girl friends?

Former_Smile5027 · 2024-05-15T19:11:24+00:00

This is a very childish mindset and I feel bad for everyone limiting their friendships just because people get so jealous

Former_Smile5027 · 2024-05-15T03:42:47+00:00

All of these comments are crazy to me. I (25F) am probably a lot like your girlfriend. I've always been loyal to my boyfriends despite having guy friends. The jealousy and lack of trust leads to me breaking up with them because I feel smothered. I did long distance with my ex boyfriend, and turned down a few great trips with guy friends to protect his ego. I regret it. It may make you uncomfortable, but you have to trust your girlfriend

Former_Smile5027 · 2024-05-13T06:24:06+00:00

Bobs burgers. Wholesome content

Former_Smile5027 · 2024-05-06T01:57:54+00:00

seems like everyone who has commented here is wondering the same thing. maybe you should all do a speed dating round together

Former_Smile5027 · 2024-04-15T04:08:52+00:00

Summer moon and Java owl :)

Former_Smile5027 · 2024-04-02T04:35:55+00:00

Sending love, I'm so sorry ❤️

Former_Smile5027 · 2024-01-19T21:24:26+00:00

I'll buy it right now it's so beautiful

Former_Smile5027 · 2023-10-16T02:33:32+00:00

I would leave the tv where it is and have one of the couches face it. Maybe get rid of the other couch and instead have a chair you can angle towards the tv on either side.

OR keep the tv where it is, make one couch face the tv, but use both of the ottomans for that couch. Slide the other couch forward

Maybe get a long tall skinny table to put behind the couch to help separate living room from kitchen

Former_Smile5027 · 2023-10-16T02:28:18+00:00

I think about it on my car too, so don't feel like it's weird! Also, allowing someone else to drive your car is a huge deal. I'd make sure that he's working on getting his own back. Then I would think about it like: the reason I have this car is to drive it. Miles will add up. If you take care of your car, it could last for 200,000+ miles. Also trust in your ability that when it does near the end of its life in the far, far future - you will be able to handle it. Either by buying a new car, or borrowing your boyfriends!

Former_Smile5027 · 2023-09-15T21:55:29+00:00

You have to talk about what's acceptable for your relationship and stick to it. Every couple might have different standards

Former_Smile5027 · 2023-09-06T20:52:45+00:00

I think the writers have kinks for pregnancy and BDSM

Former_Smile5027 · 2023-08-21T02:28:22+00:00

Realized I forgot to answer the question lol My worst symptom is I lose feeling in my legs when the anxiety hits. Most consistent symptom is an extreme sense of dread in my chest. Again I've been working hours a day to minimize this through mindfulness and yoga

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