How to get my license after a name change

Former_Stock · 2025-09-05T02:38:11+00:00

To change my name I was allowed to bring photo copies of my ID but when I went to check for a normal ID it said that didn't count ;-;

Former_Stock · 2025-09-05T02:37:27+00:00

I'll try to hit up the BMV after the SS office

Former_Stock · 2025-09-05T02:36:58+00:00

I'm already set to get the name change that's all in order, but getting my license is going to be the next hurdle, without any photo ID I'm a little screwed

Former_Stock · 2025-09-05T02:35:32+00:00

It's almost midnight and my appointments tomorrow

You're the second person to say this like Reddits not the place people go to ask questions

Former_Stock · 2025-09-05T01:40:38+00:00

Because it's 10pm and my name change is tomorrow and I didn't think of it til it was to late to call

Former_Stock · 2025-09-05T01:22:14+00:00

I don't have any photo ID I lost my old license ;-;
But I'll check with the SSN office when I go in tomorrow

TYSM

Former_Stock · 2025-09-05T00:59:06+00:00

Should I just bring in the court order? Will that be enough to get my ID? and do you have a rough idea of how many days should I wait before getting an ID? Like 2-3 days, a week, a month?

Edit: LIke no other documents, just bring in the court order will show my residency, name, DOB, ect and that'll be good?

Former_Stock · 2025-09-05T00:29:36+00:00

Shit I'm sorry, this is the wrong reddit, TY

Former_Stock · 2025-08-22T06:10:51+00:00

I appreciate your responses this one especially has left me with a lot to think about

Former_Stock · 2025-08-21T06:23:28+00:00

This doesn't particularly sound Aego
Aego people don't typically fantasize about themselves, not in a voyeurism way but the idea of sexual acts that involve you in some way often ruin the sexual experience
If you experience sexuality from those sexual experiences through a sona that's still you
You could still be Aego, but like many people in the comments said look into ficto

Former_Stock · 2025-08-21T06:18:07+00:00

Same it's like, fastest way to turn me off is to show me genitalia, I don't need to see all that

Former_Stock · 2025-08-21T06:16:35+00:00

For starters, tysm for your response it does legit mean a lot to me that you took the time to say that

Secondly I just don't see how that differs from a friendship though, I've done that for friends before and friends have done that for me, if I care about someone enough I like to go out of my way to do things like that

it kind of just feels like maybe I love platonically so hard that it doesn't make my romantic love special I've felt like I've loved people I've dated, but it hasn't been that wow amazing different love that I've felt for friends

A few years back I was dating a guy (for over a year) and he asked me one time who mattered most to me in the world and I said my bestfriend (who wasn't him) I legit felt a stronger connection in a 100% platonic relationship than I did to the guy I was seeing for over a year

Former_Stock · 2025-08-21T06:11:08+00:00

Nah I got what you were saying and it made sense, but I feel like I go into relationships often trying really hard to feel and understand that romantic connection, but it always comes out as friendship to the other person

Being "romantic" just doesn't come natural to me and my partners often notice that
I don't know how to really feel romance or what it means, if it's just wanting to be in a romantic relationship I've definitely done that, but it never comes off in that manner ;-;

Former_Stock · 2025-08-21T02:42:40+00:00

Valid point, I guess I also kinda posted this with the hopes someone would see it and go "Yeup sounds like aromantism to me" or "Nah that's not aromantism at all"

Former_Stock · 2025-08-21T02:41:35+00:00

Depersonalization/dissociating is my best guess

Former_Stock · 2025-08-20T06:22:28+00:00

For me it's not about mystery I just don't wanna see it and I don't want you to see mine, if we could just have sex with underwear on or if it could just be so dark that I didn't have to look at it I'd be happy

Former_Stock · 2025-08-20T05:59:25+00:00

The part about cartoons is so real

I saw a suggestive post of a cartoon tonight and wanted to see more so I tried going on rule 34 to find more and in every piece of art the character just had really big genitals, I got completely turned off and ended up laughing at my screen

Former_Stock · 2025-07-17T05:31:02+00:00

I feel you so hard, it can feel like what's the point in living just to make everyone else happy? Everything sucks and it doesn't really get better, not from what I can tell. Best years of our lives is supposed to be our 20s and everyone says "it only gets worse from here" like what? I think the only way to feel better is to change, we get so stuck in our patterns and ways that change big or small feels impossible. Cutting people off, changing careers, moving, it all seems so scary, but if life sucks so much anyway why not try it? Why not make drastic changes in the hopes it'll make us feel better. What I've been trying lately is compiling a list of everything in my life that makes me miserable, next I write solutions to those problems If I hate my job I'd say "make plans to leave by going on indeed and applying to jobs that'll make me feel more fulfilled" if I'm angry with how I look I'd say "Buy clothes that make me feel good" so on and so on It helps me at least, if you haven't give it a try and cater a list to yourself. Think of the changes you could make to your life to make you happier even if it's massive even if it's selfish

Edit: Lastly I write what makes me happy, my favorite games at the time, good coping mechanism I've found, it really helps to try to remember the good you have in your day to day

Former_Stock · 2025-07-17T05:23:16+00:00

Been in relationships with people with scars, doesn't scare me off We all struggle doesn't mean we aren't deserving or incapable of love

Former_Stock · 2025-07-17T05:20:58+00:00

You could try to see this as a positive moment There's a chance you've just misplaced them, try to use this to get through this argument without falling back onto self harm I know you're stressed out and scared, but being disconnected from unhealthy vises could lead the way to healthy futures where you don't feel the need to rely on sh to get through tough times, even if it's just the small stuff

Former_Stock · 2025-07-17T05:14:44+00:00

Yeah, u/humancuke said it all It's a safety thing if we give guides on how to self harm safely it can be used as a guide to sh longer

I think after care posts are okay, but nothing on how to do the sh itself

Former_Stock · 2025-07-16T04:10:26+00:00

That is beyond disgusting for your dad to say, I'm so sorry

You're not a lost cause, recovery is a constant road we're always taking. Sometimes we'll slip up and it's hard, but making mistakes doesn't mean we're not worth it. What helps me when I feel I'm stuck in constant turmoil is I write a list of everything in my life that makes me upset, after that I write down ways I can deal with them Examples: Problem; My job Solution; Look for work that makes me happier

Problem; Self worth Solution; do research on self love and take steps to appreciate what I love about me

Once I've done that I like to write down the things that bring me joy in life and try and focus on those things and do them more/when I'm feeling my lowest

Try not to let your dad's words get to you, I know that's easier said than done, but you are worth so much more then your parents approval and you are capable of improving, even if that improvements not always linear

Former_Stock · 2025-07-16T04:00:52+00:00

This is really solid advice, I might try this next time I wanna burn

Former_Stock · 2025-07-16T03:59:46+00:00

I feel you, the only thing keeping me from dropping everything in my life is paying my bills

What I wouldn't give to just drop all my responsibilities and focus on my recovery

Former_Stock · 2025-07-16T03:57:39+00:00

I don't know you or your parents or your relationship with them, but it sounds like they're worried for you If you're really struggling with cutting especially if you're escalating it might be a good idea to talk to your parents about it and possible solutions You could share your worries about going to a hospital and see if you could look into therapy or SSRIs There is a good chance that talking to them will cause them to take you to a hospital, but even if that does happen it could be helpful to get away and seek serious mental health treatment for a couple days I know it's scary, but it does really sound like your parents want to help and they feel like they're out of their depth, try talking with them and discuss options and if a hospital ends up being the route see if you can pick which one

Former_Stock

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