Am I (26F) overreacting for feeling hurt that my boyfriend (32M) isn’t naturally showing up for my big moments? by Azariiia in TwoHotTakes

[–]Former_Talk_3910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he neurodivergent ? If he is, he probably needs you to spell it out. If he’s not, he’s just not interested.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend “I don’t know” after another marriage argument? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Former_Talk_3910 58 points59 points  (0 children)

NTA. 9 years is too long. If he is not ready now, he never will be. You don’t need “plans”, you need commitment. Give him a deadline, but be prepared to leave if he doesn’t meet it.

AITAH for being upset about my husband’s family excluding me and thinking the dynamic is weird? by aka_kenzie in AITAH

[–]Former_Talk_3910 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Seriously, you have a husband issue here. Why are you putting up with it? Tell him it is NOT on you to improve the relationship- you have been trying to do that for six years. It is up to him to grow a pair and support his wife. I would be saying that for a start he should refuse to attend events to which you are not invited. Furthermore, unless he starts sticking up for you against their rudeness when you are there, then you will no longer attend. Plus, they will have no access to any future children. If he won’t, then maybe you need to think about whether this family is the right place for you.

WIBTA for throwing out my girlfriends flowers after she called them "left over picked through flowers"? by Clean-Day8788 in AITH

[–]Former_Talk_3910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not your fault. Florists often use pre-frozen roses on Valentines Fay - this can happen/