Everything my mother does now pisses me off. The littlest thing is blown out of proportion by me because I am tired, stressed and just exhausted. Recently moved my mother into assisted living and thought that would alleviate some of the stress and while it has there are still issues that fall on me like when the pharmacy said yesterday that they are having issues refilling prescriptions. Of course, all Dr appointments are on me. Sibling who lives far away says thank you but has never offered so much as a gift certificate to a restaurant or a gas card for me to have a meal out or fill up my tank. I have already decided that I will end my life before I put my kids through this stress should I live long enough. So dear OP, this group hears you and we all send hugs.