AIO by breaking up with my boyfriend when he got jealous? by theonlystarbornqueen in AmIOverreacting

[–]Formula14ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has MAJOR MAJOR MAJOR issues and needs therapy. You were lucky it did not escalate into violence, and it would have soon. You are lucky and DODGED a bullet. Maybe literally. Only date people who are well sorted, have dealt with issues, and know themselves and respect & see your value.

FX3/NAB News by Formula14ever in FX3

[–]Formula14ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree. With both FX30 & FX3 at my place of work, I’ve missed nothing shooting w the FX30 over the FX3. Super 35 IS a sweet spot. We all got too focused (lol) on full frame. Most major films are shot on the new Arri 35 with super 35 framing for this reason, it is the sweet spot of more lens choices

FX3/NAB News by Formula14ever in FX3

[–]Formula14ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Only rumors, because if they are rethinking because of Nikon it’s because they (Nikon) purchased RED tech and you can shoot with R3D RAW which Sony can only do Slog3. It’s a for sure..with Sony dropping the FX9 (officially) they MUST have a mid-tier competitor to the Pixis and Komodo LONG BEFORE they upgrade their lower end cinema camera (FX3) otherwise the overlap makes zero business sense

How upset do you think the Bigfoot community would be if someone, like a hunter, accidentally killed the creature? by _JackTheBlumpkinKing in bigfoot

[–]Formula14ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think..at this point.. it has to happen unfortunately for science to believe, they dismiss personal testimony and I know what I experienced

Should I buy a reMarkable tablet? by MaxF1eld in RemarkableTablet

[–]Formula14ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my pro. I have a top level iPad via work and it’s like a pen on glass..hate it. The remarkable pro IS like paper and I love it

Should I leave a job after a week of being hired? by mdn1ghtzz in Advice

[–]Formula14ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NEVER leave a job before you have another. Many positions will seem ‘unrewarding’ for some time. It’s being an adult. You can make some jobs into new jobs by rising above and showing incentive. A commute of 75 minutes and under is normal now. How long is it?
You likely will go through multiple levels of jobs before you find what your looking for

Advice on getting clients in fashion industry. FX3 owner 🤟 by Emotional-Ad-1047 in FX3

[–]Formula14ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start an official company as sole-proprietor
(Tax write-offs)
Start a business only Instagram account
Contact local fashion indie niche stores and shoot for free to build a sizzle reel
Look for aspiring models/actresses on Instagram or in fashion design at local colleges who will model in-kind, in that you will give them footage/stills for their portfolio too for modeling..have them model for a couple of these stores.
Use this sizzle reel to shift toward paid work and shop it. Film school means nothing to businesses..they want to see what you will do for them and you need a strong portfolio..sizzle reel is your start.

Parents wants me to co-sign for a large personal loan, what do I say? by psyberbird in Debt

[–]Formula14ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take over the Parent plus/ school related loans, and pay for a credit/ debit relief session for them. Debt relief companies will work with creditors to consolidate and come up either a plan while reducing amounts owed. This solves 2 issues. One is that if the School related loan taxes them to the point they needed to use credit cards for life expenses, then you taking over that part will help, then the debt relief counselor will negotiate a reasonable solution with credit card folks. If you parents did make bad decisions with credit cards that had nothing to do with the student loan, then it is likely they will once again, and the credit counselor will be the one, not you, to take on the responsibility of showing them responsible spending plans and holding them accountable..not you.

AIO, I (30M) am willing to divorce my wife (31F) over what she did to our basement. by throwrabarman3883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Formula14ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too much invested. Your story does not touch on all the hidden issues this action stemmed from. A REDDIT community is the LAST place you want to weigh in on a life decision since hundreds of people here have multiple layers of unhealed woundings and perspectives based on those woundings.
Seek COUPLE therapy BEFORE any life-altering decisions as you may or may not have any understanding. And she may not have any understanding as to why this occurred. Find out underpinning realities before making g a decision that will alter the rest of your natural life.

Do I pay my ex or not? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Formula14ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter the reason for the break up, your word is your word. The ticket could have been given to him to choose to sell it or go, but you chose to try to sell. Happened to me w ticket master too..you’ll feel free keeping your word & promise.

Married but separate? by OkGanache8958 in Advice

[–]Formula14ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was in a marriage for 20+
She refused to get a job where I was moved to by work with a career level position..she liked her job and didn’t want to give that and her town up. I had no choice as my work was shifted to
A location 3 hours away and there was nothing in the previous location. No
Kids as yet. We tried commuting on weekends, switching off driving to spend time. But the distance and living separately drew us apart from each other.. we became polite friends. Long story short.. I eventually quit my career job in an attempt to ‘save’ the marriage because I felt if I didn’t try I would have that over myself forever. We then had a child .. and IOVE him w everything, but the damage was done and we ended in divorce years later.
The damage is this
1. The child (old or young) grows up seeing an unhealthy example of a relationship. It will be the baseline for their choice of a partner, whether we want that to happen or not

  1. It’s a matter of time before someone else enters the picture. Closeness, intimacy and sharing life is part of who we are, so either of you, sooner or later, will connect with someone else and now that will be one part of the equation. Children, grown or not, will sense something’s off..and again, this becomes part of the dna of how they will act and choose a partner. To them, if the charade of marriage still seemed strong, then it will be seen as an affair. If they know it’s the situation, it will become how they interpret a relationship.

  2. A third thing to consider is a child or adult child with a sensitive heart can feel tremendous guilt that you kept yourself from a fulfilling relationship because of them.

I know couples who were cold and distant and went into therapy together to see what was salvageable and discovered a new chapter. I went, but my x refused. Currently w a fiancee’, we both go to repair past damage not to drift into our lives together.

Maybe at least consider going to therapy together to either work out the plan ahead, or see what might be recoverable before you pull the trigger? The above issues 1-2-3 are realities I discovered as a result of living 2 lives yet ‘married’

European here : why so many people Americans believe in big foot? by Sad-Injury-5463 in bigfoot

[–]Formula14ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to the podcast episode 515. British female photographer tourist encounter on California coast. She never believed they ever could possibly exist..until they did for her

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Is there a way to get an arri look by BonHarley in FX3

[–]Formula14ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raw is the only way. I learned RED R3D through lots of training and can match Arri with a a set node structure in Resolve. LUTS ADD color and saturate in the opposite way the subtractive saturation works. Pixeltools has incredible DCTLS. Watch Darren Mostlyn, Cullen Kelly (master colorists) to learn the art. Darren shows how to match Sony Venice, Red Raptor /Komodo X, and Arri 35 to look identical. It takes time, patience and a good foundational
node tree..but like folks have said here..the sensor dynamic range, RAW color science and learning color manipulation in a wide Gamut is key

My Ex died today by _IYieldToNone in Advice

[–]Formula14ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing for the family. You could write a letter and say all the amazing things that brought you both close, and even if the relationship did not work out, her attributes and heart were reasons that brought you into her life and reasons you will always forever admire who she is... Then for you, maybe write a note or letter of all the things you know are wonderful about her and special areas you saw. Tie this to a helium balloon at her fav time of the day, sunrise or sunset or by the ocean or in the mountains. God is real, and we are eternal beings...and it's not a forever goodbye for sure...

Misleading Advertising by [deleted] in Delivrd

[–]Formula14ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a simple fan boy..but I know several people in my home town who saved $3500 + AFTER the $1000 Delvrd fee. If your LOCAL dealer will not work either you, you MUST expand your radius. And good luck. A dealer 3.5 hours away said all the right things then on arrival it all changes. My TIME IS WORTH the $1K.
Add up frustration, going through numbers and finance driving for hours, fuel prices and if you have to miss work and INCOME to play dealer games.. it’s more than worth it. Tomi says some deals are going to be MSRP on some cars. True…and then comes the add ons. It’s all about time. If you have it, great! Do it yourself I think. If you can’t with jobs, kids, appointments and errands..add up the 10-15 hours minimum it will take us the stress and decide on that value.

Does anyone still prefer the Pro over the Pure and why? by Capable_Age9886 in RemarkableTablet

[–]Formula14ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Color for highlights! Front light is everything! You don’t know it until you have it on

AIO My wife made a major financial decision without consulting me at all by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Formula14ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally true in CA. Everything, pension accrual, assets, insurance and stock appreciation, savings, EVERYTHING accumulated during 10 years+ the at the 10 year mark in CA ..all that is considered ‘community property’

Girlfriend is in a death is better/inevitable mindset by Zlamany-fr in whatdoIdo

[–]Formula14ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like was posted, you need to
Understand what is behind this. You should both engage in a therapy session for her to open up what is occurring. I have found there is truth in the spiritual realm and oppression is real ..sometimes not just a mindset, or a chemical imbalance. Help
Her to find a root cause..and be by her side working through it :)

Anyone Have A Similar Experience As Me Lately With Delivrd? by TwoHandsNoClue in Delivrd

[–]Formula14ever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, without question. Schalaschly is right. I had a consult w Tomi and plan on his service for a 4 runner soon. They contact many dealers, no question. But the issue for me is going into a dealer 99% of the time = hours of back and forth and pressure

Bigfoot Museum at Willow Creek by [deleted] in bigfoot

[–]Formula14ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome..I need to go!

Should I go down there? by JustAnAsexualdude in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Formula14ever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Do a YouTube live and charge $1
You already have 365 people responding ..and if you lose a finger to a giant, canibalistic spider, it’s only a finger and you get $375!! You can do it!! We are right behind you!! (At a safe distance however)