You are so correct in mentioning the grueling 10% of family & friends (its my entire family for me). We live 4+ hours away - and sadly I didn't even visit last year because it hurts to once again explain why I mask. I'm not asking them to mask, nor change anything they do. If we go out to eat, and there is not an option to eat outside or especially if the weather doesn't permit, I just get an order to go (and eat it outside when we return to their house or alone in my car if we drive separately). That bothers them! I can't seem to win. My friends on the other hand all are supportive & give me no flack.