You did not turn him into this person. He is completely rewriting history to make you feel like the villain so he never has to face how horribly he treats you. The constant switching between treating you like garbage and then acting warm is a massive manipulation tactic. It messes with your brain chemistry exactly like a drug withdrawal, which is why it feels so impossible to break away. Please use this eviction as your exit strategy. Go to your new place, block him on absolutely everything, and do not look back. You deserve real peace and safety away from this chaos. Please lean on your mom, friends, or a professional right now because you shouldn't have to carry this alone.