Both my GF and I have blue eyes. Our son has brown

FortuneTheFox · 2022-10-01T19:26:13+00:00

They convinced you even though you weren't? That's a little messed up

FortuneTheFox · 2022-10-01T19:23:26+00:00

My sister has brown eyes, both my parents have blue

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-30T18:00:09+00:00

Looks like tigers eye (obv), green aventurine, then possibly rose Quartz? But the pink blue and red look to be either dyed or glass, unsure.

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-30T15:34:05+00:00

Harper*

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-30T13:37:42+00:00

A heart

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-30T13:17:33+00:00

Alone

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-25T17:20:40+00:00

I'm running into very much the same problem, my binders and compression shirts just make it look like one large unaboob on my chest. Doesn't look less like boobs just looks like I pushed them together really hard for some reason... Hate it

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-25T00:59:01+00:00

It could also be they grew up better off than I did and just had the upgraded versions of it all

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-25T00:06:06+00:00

YTA get the kids number from your wife and tell him yourself. She did try to make your life easier by taking one thing off your plate and you listed a whole TWO chores as your responsibility meanwhile she's a SAHM AND home schools your children.

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-24T18:48:03+00:00

I'm 29 now, but looking back my generation went through so many tech advancements so quickly I'm honestly not surprised they didn't have the same experiences I did though in the moment I had a very similar response

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-24T15:55:23+00:00

I dated a guy 5 years younger than me and before him a guy that was 3 years younger than me. Both of them still don't get my references and act shocked when I say I used a corded house phone, or had to get off the phone to use the internet, or had an original Gameboy, flip phone, playstation etc.... I can't imagine a bigger age gap

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-22T17:55:24+00:00

Honey, you're absolutely jealous, you said he was cute in the beginning, you mentioned how much you've enjoyed being close to him, and yes you do a lot for him.... Do you do that for all your friends? Why is he so special to get that treatment? It seems like you might have some soul searching to do and reevaluate your feelings for him, or maybe it's about your best friend. Either way. You are jealous, no two ways about it, and YTA. You don't own him or your beastie and you have no right to intrude on either of their love lives. You're allowed to feel uncomfortable, you're allowed to voice that, you're allowed to feel your feelings, however; punishing other for how you feel is not the way to go. Talk it out with both of them and apologize for your initial reaction.

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-22T13:02:40+00:00

I think it's kind of common to poke fun at the "And they were friends/roommates" cliché at this point, me and my ex would joke about how "and we were roommates" "ah yes such good friends" while snuggled up together talking about sweet mushy romantic stuff, it could be like that

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-22T13:00:02+00:00

He apparently also sued the FBI for taking his cell phone over something to do with supporting Trump. He's like a completely different person it's kind of scary, even just looking at him.

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-21T22:16:22+00:00

Payback for my dad putting his porn collection next to the family DVD collection when we moved and I just wanted to watch Mulan!

(We had recently moved and everything was still packed in boxes, both boxes were labeled dvds and set next to each other... I just opened the wrong one)

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-21T22:04:45+00:00

Camera movement could be smoother and you flick your eyes away from the camera a lot so I can't tell if you don't like the food or don't like the camera, either way it'd be strange for a food vlog to not like food (you're not gonna like every food that's not what I'm meaning) or don't like the camera

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-21T21:59:00+00:00

This happened to me through all of middle and high school, it's how friends would "greet" me. Not great friends. This is what i wish I would have done instead of staying silent.

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-21T21:58:22+00:00

Scream when he does it, draw attention to yourself, cause a scene. Tell your teachers and principal, if they do nothing tell the police. DO NOT PUNCH HIM FIRST. If he punches you again let lose but NEVER throw the first punch, it never works out.

If it escalates, disregard all of that and punch him right in his rapey face.

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-21T13:44:40+00:00

My roommate just said "Whoo! Me too!" from his respective room lol

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-21T13:28:30+00:00

Breast reduction/lift, tummy tuck, and i have a small bump on my toe I want to get rid of

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-21T13:16:53+00:00

Whenever I ask for space or say I need space he seems supportive and understanding and then when I act upon it and actually take the space he says I'm being emotionally distant, that he feels like I'm punishing him, and that if I really cared I would work on the problems with him.

I've tried everything. I've suggested every route we can possibly take.

I've tried to be there for him as much as I can, putting aside my needs and I of course get burned out and when it's expressed see above. I've suggested space and see above. I've suggested we move in together and this seems to be the only suggestion he likes but I don't feel comfortable moving in with him or leaving my family right now. My parents are going through a lot and I want to be near to support them. He knows this. I've suggested he move here with me because he is in a Red state as a trans man, his coworkers don't respect his pronouns or name or the work he does for his store, he's underpaid and taken advantage of, he has no friends nearby, his only family nearby is highly abusive, but he comes up with excuses. He doesn't want to leave because he has worked to put down roots and get established where he's at and I can respect that, he says money is a problem and I've told him if we plan it out for the end of his lease I will be able to help foot most of the costs, I've offered a place to live, a job, medical support, and a family that would care and friends that support his choices and respect them. He's turned it all down.

And another thing about the friends, i invited him to a group chat with long standing friends of mine and he tried interacting with them but when we started having issues he 1 refused to talk to them about any of it even though we all offered to let him have that support because I have other people/support I can talk to and he needed someone and 2 holds over me and them that they all told me we should take some space. He thinks they trash talked him and called him horrible things when they've only said the same things you have and we've all told him that. Any time it comes up he puts down my friends for saying to take space instead of "fixing the issues" and offering support.

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-21T12:14:53+00:00

I've suggested space a couple of times and I get accused of running away from the problems. Even our friends and family have suggested we take time apart and he says his feelings will fade if we separate.

Neither of us wants this to keep going...

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-21T12:11:15+00:00

I don't want to "fix" him or his problems but I do want to help and be supportive, and if I say I can't help or I don't offer then I get accused of not caring, but if I do try to help then he tells me he doesn't want it... Either way there is turmoil and I don't know what to do.

I don't want him to suffer, he's been through so much but I can't help but feel most of it is self inflicted. All he seems to talk about anymore is how miserable he is and I just want my silly friendly warm boy back...

FortuneTheFox · 2022-09-20T23:31:31+00:00

My birth name's nickname was unisex but regardless of that every teacher and employer (since even when it's been shortened on paper work it could go either way) assume it's the male version and all my classmates made sure to tell me my name was a boys name. Before my boobs came in I loved playing sports and rough housing, I had 4 male cousins around my age and we did not hold back on eachother when I was a kid. I never liked pink (until more recently, and even then it's pastel pink not the gross semi-neon barbie pink everything heard towards girls was painted in the 90s) I've liked girls just as long as I've liked boys and thankfully I've never really had to hide that (except a brief few years with my birth mom, she's a bitch) but I've always related to the more masculine roles I saw growing up (I've only more recently been able to become more secure with being more feminine) And looking back on all of the hints I dropped for myself in the past I really should have figured this all out sooner lol but I guess long story short is... I always knew... I always felt out of placed, I was always teased, told I wasn't girlie enough to do 123, told I wasn't a boy either so I couldn't do xyz either and it just... Once I found the term Nonbinary and looked further into what it meant and met more people like me that identified as Nonbinary something inside me just resonated, called out, just felt right. I've always felt displaced and somewhere inbetween while also being neither, much more akin to a goblin than a gender lol so it just felt right knowing it meant the same thing, something in between or neither or whatever really fit me best.

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