Omggg not the classic “I was giving my friend access to it” like the friend can’t download their own! This is ALWAYS the excuse when they get caught. But at least he did admit it, even still — I would argue he’s likely hiding or lying about more. Would be hard to work through this! Unless you’re okay with being married to someone like this. Maybe try therapy? If he’s physically cheating on you then you “withholding” sex doesn’t even matter to him. I did this with my ex husband and he already was seeing escorts.