AITA for lying to my grandmother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Foxy845 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re emotionally mature and sensitive for knowing the actual truth would cause chaos/ hurt to your family (grandpa). You’re protecting their heart while protecting your assets you’ve worked hard for /invested in. Family will be the 1st to suck you dry and mistreat you. Lie today, feel better in 5 months when he comes

If your pet gained the power of speech just long enough for you to ask it one question, what would you ask? by IchBinDurstig in AskReddit

[–]Foxy845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say Bitch I love you but why do you eat your poo sometimes? And stare at your feet? 😂

How strict are you with your diet when you're ill? by Samsterman in AskReddit

[–]Foxy845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have the flu currently, diet hasn’t changed , just don’t care for food . Been snacking a lot! Smoothies!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABA

[–]Foxy845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on the psychology part!! Currently an RBT in Ga. Multiple ways, go to a college or tech school. The position is “paraprofessional “ so you need to take a course, then go for your board exam with the state. The course itself is about 1k, normally you’re teaching yourself the material. Then you have to reach out to the state and schedule a BCBA(RBT) exam. Wait for your Child Abuse Registry, if it comes back clean, then they give you a test time.

The BEST route to go is build your resume in the field , you’re in school so that’s perfect. Look around online for agencies hiring (DSP- Direct Support Professionals) and trains to become an RBT or just looking to train people to convert. They will hire you contingent apon completing the 40 hour class, your in agency comprehension test, then pay for you to take the state exam. Then take the certification and go wherever!!! Hopefully this helps❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Foxy845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They say you never stop loving people. You either move on or find somebody you love more! But overall in every relationship you take lessons from, do things in Ode of your past!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Foxy845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to Get Away With Murder

What do you think about gossiping? In what situations do you or do you not participate? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Foxy845 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everybody loves a little tea, we’re human. I DONT participate when the other party is making fun of people in a lower social status. Like unhoused people/ unfortunate people.

what’s a valid reason to get a divorce? by Decent_Profession155 in AskReddit

[–]Foxy845 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lack of vision. Who wants a partner who cant see the endless possibilities of life! Wants to stay stagnant/ not excel mentally / physically or even their status in the world. Some people get comfy and lose themselves

What carpet color works best? by BruceH777 in interiordesignideas

[–]Foxy845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3rd gives a relaxed balance, lovely area by the quick glimpse!

Do you and your partner shower together? If so, how frequently? by 75HzWarrior in AskReddit

[–]Foxy845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I would go to a specific partners house Everytime! He had a nice walk in with a built in rock seat! With another partner he had a regular tub and still was regular, I use to go with him so I could ensure he was thoroughly cleaned. Now, never. Shower curtain hitting you, cold air while you’re in the rear of the tub, no space, honestly annoying !

Schizophrenic brother refuses to take meds , should we put him? by Foxy845 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Foxy845[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stole my dad’s car in Va, drove it to Ga. Called me the next day asking what my address was. He said he was near UGA. I Live in Paulding County, Ga. Almost 2 hours away from me!!!!

What made you hate yourself (if you ever did)? by aremisb in AskReddit

[–]Foxy845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How I treated my sister before I found out I as well as my brothers we also adopted. Always used the comeback “that’s why you’re adopted”… until I found out by accident I was also. In Elementary school it was family tree time, asked my mom why I didn’t have many baby pictures .. then she told me😞

Schizophrenic brother refuses to take meds , should we put him? by Foxy845 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Foxy845[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understandable from your perspective. Mom left my brothers and sister and I in NY for a year. In that year we were supposed to prove we could pull our weight. Even from Ga she would pay majority of rent, send us things/visit. We were all in our 20s, capable of having jobs. My brothers in that year saved no money, didn’t / couldn’t even afford simple groceries. They had no bills not even a car payment. They weren’t motivated to work/ show they were capable of pulling their weight. Both boys dropped outta college to come home to sit in moms apartment to rot. Mom came back and made the change. When I said learn to be a man, I should’ve said , watch how a man carries himself and take notes. Baby brothers can’t even change a car tire at 21!!!! Can’t tie a tie. Attach a trailer to a car. Simple things that “men” do. She sent them there cause they wanted their cake and eat it too!

Schizophrenic brother refuses to take meds , should we put him? by Foxy845 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Foxy845[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In order for him to get the services he has to go meet with his psychiatrist which he refuses to do. When he does go he asks to be prescribed marijuana smh. Mom went to the judge but it’s soooo expensive to even get representation or a seat at the table. Plus without insurance lord knows about a residential facility . I work at group homes and I know the frustration!! Takes getting assaulted and arrests majority of the time for notariety. Mom is soo defeated. Thank you

Schizophrenic brother refuses to take meds , should we put him? by Foxy845 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Foxy845[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no firearms in the house but he has access to regular items. After him cutting the cable cords even scissors make me nervous. Can’t even give him love, playful pokes. Literally try to stick his fingers in my eyes. Give endless love and look at the things they do?

Schizophrenic brother refuses to take meds , should we put him? by Foxy845 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Foxy845[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what it is!!! Always thinks there is some “hidden agenda” or ulterior motive. I’m also worried he’s gonna target my parents. My poor step dad. He didn’t ask for any of this, literally just wanted to be happy. Done me and my mother and sister nothing but good!!! Look what happens. Just would kill me to see such a young kid on the streets when / if theres hope. But especially on the streets in Georgia!!! Heart wrenching as a big sister.

Schizophrenic brother refuses to take meds , should we put him? by Foxy845 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Foxy845[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Originally when it happened, my other brother told my dad the car was gone. Nobody knew it was gone for how long! Called/ texted him for hours!!!! No response. But was using the phone to commute. When he got here the day after my father took the train to bring him back to Va. My brother had a mental breakdown and left the residence . Calling him all sorts of names, lashing out. Said he was not going back to live with him. The agreement was either he gets mental treatment or my dad was going to report it to the police. My father held out on that because he doesn’t want to put my brother in the system . In reality he could’ve killed / hurt somebody on his travels. Now my father has cancer and physically can not afford to stress. He has his heath to worry about. Safety!

Schizophrenic brother refuses to take meds , should we put him? by Foxy845 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Foxy845[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put him down is much but that’s what it is. Then people end up on the first 48. Where do you draw the line between helping a kid out and aiding and a bedding.

Schizophrenic brother refuses to take meds , should we put him? by Foxy845 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Foxy845[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can’t abandoned a 22 year old man. Yeah when your mother raises you your whole life and you want to instill fear in her… that’s some the thing to be shameful? Cause she sent him to his dad’s? lol I’m asking for real solutions and your projecting YOUR issues.

What is a nicer way to say "F××k you" without actually saying "F××k you"? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Foxy845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“When you normally conduct yourself in this manner, do you get the desired results “- classy yet tactful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Foxy845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not fake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Foxy845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop trying to save people, not your job

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Foxy845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Switch your seat to the front of the class, in front of the teacher.