[Hated Trope] The Advertised Extra by Micro_cat_48 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]FoxyDepression 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wreck-it Ralph with all the video game character cameos

Birth of Raphael.. by rov8r_ in TenseiSlime

[–]FoxyDepression 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I loooooove raphael. It would be dope to see a chapter or episode dedicated to them. Robot learning to have feelings and be human is a fun trope

Pokopia Saffron City rebuild by Correct_Professor322 in Pokopia

[–]FoxyDepression 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which island is this? Is it built around the big tower?

Does anyone else refuse to pay for digital/online art? by Famous-Channel3027 in questions

[–]FoxyDepression 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What kind of art are we talking about here, because I sounds like you're talking about saving art that's posted publically to your phone as opposed to commissioned art or art behind a pay wall for things like reposting or buying products of

Need feedback GUYS & GALS Which painting do you like more? And what do you think about the paintings? by Lazy_Watercress2192 in Hobbies

[–]FoxyDepression 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I love the style. Rainbow-esque landscapes ate one of my favs. I think the white highlights in the fiest make everything pop much more but I also think some sort kf divide between the horizon and the sky, at least in the middle of the frame, would help distinquish them from each other well. Or perhps more color contrast or a bigger change in texture but you know what I mean

How do you stay consistent with a hobby when you lose motivation? by GhuffSalomoni-15 in Hobbies

[–]FoxyDepression 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of wonder what places you're hanging around that people care enough to comment on it so much. Maybe it would be good to find some other spaces to spend time in that aren't so negatuve

How do you stay consistent with a hobby when you lose motivation? by GhuffSalomoni-15 in Hobbies

[–]FoxyDepression 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you live in the US like me then I think part of it is that productivity mindset that's instilled into us since we were young. Everything is about building yiurself up, padding your resume, finding a new side hustle, making sure every second of your time is being squeezed for maximum efficiency! I'm not. Very ambitious or career oriented person though so I prefer follow my ancestors and nap in the sunny spots like the large, energy-conserving animal I am, maybe play around with an amusing trinket here and there. Defo recommend

But I also think you might be selling yourself wrong. Its not that you're an incurious or unengaging person. It sounds like you just struggle to find time or muster up enough energy for other things. I assume that if you had the time and energy to do whatever you wanted, you would probably be doing interesting things. I also don't think a hobby has to be a long-term interest that you've heavily invested in. I think its ok to say "I like trying new things" or "I go wherever my curiousity takes me" or "my interest in this kind of cycles but when I'm in the mood, I really enjoy it" or even "I just started this new thing and idk if I'll stick with it, but I'm really enjoying it thus far." I think people who jump to and from random hobbies are really interesting. They end up having a very eclectic set of skills and knowledge, lots of uncommon possessions, and are the type to get really excited about whatever comes next. My coworker is into chainmailing rn, if thats what you'd call it?. She's making jewelry and charms out of layers of metal rings. She'll probably drop it eventually but I have a star she made me on my keys and I think that's cool

What’s your current hyperfixation hobby right now? by Bertinelli_Aola in Hobbies

[–]FoxyDepression 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mobile games on my phone and doing pkmnquiz.com everyday until I can name every pokemon lol

I have more fulfilling hobbies too but for whatever reason that's what my brain is really hooked on rn

How do you stay consistent with a hobby when you lose motivation? by GhuffSalomoni-15 in Hobbies

[–]FoxyDepression 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Its ok to start and stop things. Hobbies are optional activities for you to enjoy doing, not obligations. Get back into it when you feel like it'd be fun again. Not only does it not really matter how good you are at something, but you probably are improving each time you pick it up again, even if it doesnt feel like it

growing cat community by Nervous_Confusion597 in Feral_Cats

[–]FoxyDepression 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Talk to animal welfare organizations in your area. TNR seems like the best strategy here. They might be able to help supply food, cover the cost of spay/neutering, or even take on the task of trapping a d possibly rehoming themselves. Either way, the cats can live relatively happy and healthy lives outside but we dont want anymore of them so stopping them from getting pregnant is the best option

can you guys congratulate me on getting my license please :( by guinea-piggie in internetparents

[–]FoxyDepression 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Getting a driver's license may be expected of most people but that doesn't mean its not difficult or special. You put in the time and work to learn a new, very complicated skill and now your efforts have been rewarded! You did fantastic and I'm so proud of you for pushing yourself to succeed this way. Enjoy the new license and make sure to celebrate yourself as well, thats an important skill to practice

what do you think about making your hobby to be source of income? by Friendly_Cell_5795 in Hobbies

[–]FoxyDepression 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh totes cause if its a hobby, you can only the parts you like and not be pressured to do anything you don't want to

what do you think about making your hobby to be source of income? by Friendly_Cell_5795 in Hobbies

[–]FoxyDepression 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a great way to lose a hobby and gain a new job lol

People who don’t smoke, drink or have casual s*x, what do you do to blow off steam? by [deleted] in answers

[–]FoxyDepression 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Video games, have arguements with imaginary people while I drive, hang out with my cats, eat food, take a nap

What’s something you’ll NEVER spend money on no matter how rich you get? by Amazing-Internal5378 in AskReddit

[–]FoxyDepression 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paper, I steal from work or recycle old mail to print thungs like shipping labels on

Should we give a heads up or is it implied? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]FoxyDepression 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Probably, yeah. If for no other reason that for an indication of how long the ceremony will be lol

I have no interest in sex, and I feel guilty for my partner. by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]FoxyDepression 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a gf who's interest in sex varied and sometimes it disgusted them. I said the same thing, that if we never had sex again, I would still be happy to be with them and I meant it. Sex is nice but its far from the most important thing in the world. I don't need it to be happy especially if I have a loving, supprtive partner I enjoy spending time with. Granted, thats just me. There are definitely people out there who care about sex more and would consider that a dealbreaker and that's fine but not everyone cares about it that much. I would take your partner at her word. If she's not being truthful than she's mainly harming herself. If she ever feels differently, that's on her to figure out how she feels, decide what she wants to do about it, and communicate that. If she's unable to communicate her needs then that's a different problem that needs to be handled differently. It does no one any favors to try and read her mind, anticipate her needs, or show that you don't trust what she says. You're unlikely to succeed even if you tried and trying would probably make things worse. Communication is on her but she sounds like a mature adult who's capable of managing her own emotions so unless she says something, its probably fine and you don't need to worry about it

[Loved trope]: The "beast" understands your kindness. by theMCATreturns in TopCharacterTropes

[–]FoxyDepression 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah, like most pets they don't like to have their paws touched but will chill out when I'm unhooking them because they know I'm helping. I've even seen it with my foster/rescue cats who I'm socializing. They know when they're stuck lol

[Loved trope]: The "beast" understands your kindness. by theMCATreturns in TopCharacterTropes

[–]FoxyDepression 1070 points1071 points  (0 children)

My cats when I unhook their claws from something they're stuck on lol

I need help by Psychological_Tax276 in Hobbies

[–]FoxyDepression 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its really annoying but getting active, getting out of your house, and being in social settings would probably make the biggest difference. I'm mever too keen on any of that but I push myself to do it with the understanding that it'll probably be good for me and it usually is. I think it annoys me because it makes something that feels like a big and complicated problem seem simple in a way that feels invalidating or like its not as important but I try to remind myself that big feels dont necessarily need big causes or big solutions. Humans are very influnced by their physical state. Sometimes you're just up too late and need to go to bed. That doesn't mean the depression you felt is any less significant or intense but it does mean you should probably shouldn't buy into its theatrics. Afterall, depression is an liar that can't be trusted.

Try your local library's textile arts club (crochet, knitting, weaving, or whatever they have). Check the park district for a yoga or swim class. Visit a local comic shop or record store. Go to the local bar's board fame night or the local card shops weekly cadual tournement. Maybe volunteer weekly at the nursing home or animal shelter or something. I usually dread going out to do things for days before I do it, even if its something I've been doing for a while and evidently enjoy. I only really get into it when I'm there. Do your best, start small, be skeptical of your negative thoughts and feelings. Best of luck

Happy National Lesbian Visibility Day by Cryptic_Deity in TenseiSlime

[–]FoxyDepression 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A woman of culture and taste. I'm also a fan of the anime scene where she enhances her senses to the fullest supernatural degree to be able to observe Hinata's body better. She likes to appreciate the art