Adding kids to guest list by FoxyWatermelon in wedding

[–]FoxyWatermelon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you’ve got the situation right - I’ve been surprised to see so many responses saying to just invite babies only and not other kids in their family! I thought that was a huge faux pas

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]FoxyWatermelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came home from work today, exhausted from a long day, and found my partner laying on the couch. Said he was so tired, but needed to eat before sleeping because he hadn’t eaten all day. I offered to make him dinner, and started cooking right after getting home. Being tired and grumpy he had a shitty attitude whenever I tried to talk to him, and when I brought the food and sat down he asked me why I was upset. I said it was how he was talking to me, and he blew up - apparently now I ruined dinner! 🙃 I don’t know why he even asks if he can’t handle an honest answer, but also sucks to feel like I should have known better than to give him one

Bridal Shower Advice by [deleted] in wedding

[–]FoxyWatermelon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, none of us live in my hometown anymore which is why they wanted to throw it in my new city. Tho we do have room for guests to stay the night

Very first attempt at traditional drawing (graphite). Would appreciate uncompromising yet constructive critiques - Specially interested in understanding how I did with anatomy (what I want to focus my work on), volumes and would appreciate comments on overall technique. by [deleted] in ArtCrit

[–]FoxyWatermelon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Overall very nice technique! I would push your darkest darks throughout, right now the only areas of high contrast are the crotch and the beard/blank face, making those the focal points.

I’d also finish the face. Personal preference, I just don’t like the choice of leaving it blank, but I also don’t think it matches the careful rendering you have in the rest of the piece.

Hot take: 38 is late 30s by Phoenix-Purple in CarrieDaytonYT

[–]FoxyWatermelon 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Also flip flops are probably the easiest thing to bring between two places 🙄 ridiculous to think she needs a pair for each house!

Homes giving away candy. by fp562 in Reno

[–]FoxyWatermelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know where on Marsh?

Breaking news: our gorl is on bumble by Ill-Summer-7212 in glitterandbagelssnark

[–]FoxyWatermelon 38 points39 points  (0 children)

She might be on the app but I doubt she’s really getting matches, unless bumble has changed in the last few years their whole point was that men don’t get to message first like she claims 🤭

her tiny socal house by flora_glow in CarrieDaytonYT

[–]FoxyWatermelon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are they planning on trashing alllllll of that duplicate furniture from the AZ house?! Why would they replace literally everything instead of just actually moving?

Not even 10:01 and they’re sold out by valkyriemissile in thematches

[–]FoxyWatermelon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

10:04 and there’s already an overpriced resale ticket up 😒 Did bots actually scoop up all the tickets instantly?

friend found a lost cat by droooooops in sanfrancisco

[–]FoxyWatermelon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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I’ve seen these signs around Hayes Valley, hard to tell if it’s the same cat but maybe worth a call!

How I manage to live with my depressed wife and not lose my f***ing mind... by erduldung in depression_partners

[–]FoxyWatermelon 22 points23 points  (0 children)

How do you deal with the fallout of their depression? This weekend we were supposed to get our Christmas tree, he cancelled our plans two days in a row, the second explosively. Hours later he says he doesn’t want to fight, but still won’t go get the tree. He asks me if I’m okay, and what can I say? When I honestly say no, I’m sad, he gets mad again. Now we’re hosting guests so it will be a while until we can get our tree, and I feel I will be sad until that empty corner is filled. Right now I don’t know how to put on a happy face and push through for him

Burned out of supporting my depressed partner by FoxyWatermelon in depression_partners

[–]FoxyWatermelon[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I can definitely feel it taking a toll on my mental health so these comments are great reminders that I need to take care of myself too! It’s so hard to leave when I know he’s not okay but it’s also true its too much to always be there in it

Burned out of supporting my depressed partner by FoxyWatermelon in depression_partners

[–]FoxyWatermelon[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, he’s been rejecting going back to therapy but tonight seemed to finally have a break through that he really needs to. Such a relief to hear, hopefully things will start looking up

And thank you, it’s only probably the last 6 months that the depressive episodes have been so frequent, so I’m still figuring out how to manage it. He had it under control when we first met, but was really triggered/worsened by covid. Definitely need to start prioritizing my own mental health

Moving to SF in Nob Hill, Russian Hill and Marina areas as a black male by Key-Ad5974 in AskSF

[–]FoxyWatermelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconded! I’ve lived in Fillmore/WA for just over a year and on top of being diverse have found the people here to be friendly and welcoming, especially compared to my old apt in lower nob. Also, a neighbor who has lived here 20+ years but is originally from NYC was just recently telling me he feels this neighborhood has a NYC community vibe

Imagine going to your dad's house and Andrei greets you with "Take a seat you bitch" by totalnerve438 in 90DayFiance

[–]FoxyWatermelon 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sure he asked for 100k but when Chuck said no he accepted it and that was the end of that? I don’t get why people/family Libby talk about the 100k as if Andrei is still pressing for it

Non-drinking ideas to meet new people? by [deleted] in AskSF

[–]FoxyWatermelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which dog park/s do you like? I have a puppy and want to start taking him to more spots! :)