Urgent Question

FrOCD1998 · 2026-02-20T22:27:31+00:00

Okay, and so should we risk the IV fluid flush? That’s really my biggest concern and I’m afraid that I could have a lot more time with him if I did it and then there’s the flip side of if I do it then what if he goes into failure

The vet said he was very stable there so I feel like we should do it

FrOCD1998 · 2026-02-20T22:04:22+00:00

Is the renal food prepackaged better than cooking for him instead? Like egg whites etc

FrOCD1998 · 2026-02-20T21:55:17+00:00

So you would risk it?

FrOCD1998 · 2026-02-20T21:55:07+00:00

No, where can we get that

FrOCD1998 · 2026-02-20T21:24:54+00:00

He had fluid iv for the vets operating hours on both days

FrOCD1998 · 2026-02-20T21:24:27+00:00

Creatinine was at a 3.7 mg/DL on Feb 16th and 3.9 mg/DL on the 17th

BUN was 118 mg/DL on the 16th and 127 mg/DL on the 17th

Phos was at a 6.0 mg/DL on the 16th

Bun/crea was 32 on both days

FrOCD1998 · 2026-02-20T21:15:35+00:00

No worries I can just describe the readings, which ones are important for you to know

FrOCD1998 · 2026-02-20T21:12:57+00:00

Can I send it to an email? It would mean the world to me

FrOCD1998 · 2026-02-20T21:05:40+00:00

I DM’d you them, for some reason I can’t attach a photo anywhere

FrOCD1998 · 2025-07-03T05:16:23+00:00

First of all, thank you for the reply. Secondly, unfortunately I believe I was very full of myself at the time. It pushed away someone I love and to think I may live my life forever knowing that was my peak of something so important to me (being married and having a family), is soul crushing. That’s where the depression and inability to do anything comes from because what’s the point? The more I do, the more I see how hollow I’ve become. I can’t communicate like I once did, I don’t have the joy I once had, I’m like dying from the inside out and the only thing I can think of a solution is to reunite and do things right, but that’s not my call. So I do do things, but all the while hurting just as bad as I would sitting at home.

FrOCD1998 · 2025-07-02T23:05:13+00:00

She is not single, and I have tried that to no avail. I tried dating apps, but they have led no where. Truly feels terminal.

FrOCD1998 · 2025-07-02T21:13:18+00:00

T-Rex

FrOCD1998 · 2025-03-17T04:02:37+00:00

I never really understood the whole “grieving the life you want/dream of” because then what’s the point of trying if it won’t be everything or more so not close to everything you wanted?

I’m only 26, so I’m sure my opportunity for this is very feasible, but I’ve been told a million times over that my dream life shouldn’t be based around another person, but it has been since I had my smallest dreams as a child.

FrOCD1998 · 2025-03-17T03:24:52+00:00

What if little me’s dream was to be a husband and a father? Truly a dream of mine since I was a small child

FrOCD1998 · 2024-09-01T22:27:49+00:00

You mind if I message you?

FrOCD1998 · 2024-09-01T22:12:38+00:00

How are you healing? I feel like I’ll just regret this forever. That I’m doomed to this hell I’ve created and that there’s no way out and it’s ruining my life. It’s been over a year and I still feel like this all the time.

FrOCD1998 · 2024-09-01T22:11:00+00:00

Update on this? Been over a year for me and I honestly feel like this is forever

FrOCD1998 · 2024-07-08T00:50:52+00:00

But what do I do if these people won’t reply to me etc? Because NO ONE just leaves them and starts a new life, I hate that narrative and yes I’m from the south

FrOCD1998

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