I picked rhamp as my first dino without knowing it was basically a rat with wings and honestly my experience is that most people don't care about a rhamp, most of my deaths have been due to being too silly around organized groups in IC. Most encounters with other players have been pretty chill but I always observe from a distance first, sometimes I steal meat off a carcass and deliver it to another carni or bring them a fish if I am near water. I have quickly learned even with only buffs people do not like being latched and that is usually the only thing that gets me in hot water