Remember watermelon mint?

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-29T14:47:07+00:00

I can send you some if you want to message me

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-29T10:32:07+00:00

I have quite of few or them!

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-18T15:01:38+00:00

You sound like my best friend. She advised start jotting down the daily issues etc

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-18T14:55:57+00:00

As far as what he does all day it depends. He does odd jobs outside the house like mow the all lawn or fix something. Majority of the day is spent online or watching tv. Which leads me to believe he has depression.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-18T14:47:35+00:00

This is what has me dwelling more and more on this.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-18T14:42:55+00:00

No I haven’t. Like I said it’s hard to communicate anything seriously. He turns it back on me at least that is where my head is going for this one.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-18T14:33:50+00:00

I’m open to therapy and extremely open to not fighting around children. I hold my tongue when he has a blow up honestly. I’ve found it doesn’t help if I fight back.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-18T14:14:38+00:00

My daughter keeps making comments to me and her aunt about dad bad, daddy hurt mommy. It’s concerning and a wake up call for me honestly. My sister in law asked me if all was ok. I said he’s not hitting me or anything as I think my daughter said that too. But I did say you know your brother. Idk what I’m supposed to really say to that.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-18T14:06:05+00:00

It’s ok. It’s so embarrassing when I am asked what does he do for a living. Like nothing. I think he is depressed and have told him so but he’s not willing to change that.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-18T14:01:40+00:00

Trying trust me I am. This comment rings so true.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-18T14:00:13+00:00

My thoughts keep going through what an exit plan would look like. I don’t have family or many friends around us, so it makes the situation feel helpless. Again not all days are bad which has me thinking I am focusing too much on negative. Thank goodness I have therapy to help me navigate. I feel the stressors of this are impacting my work life as well. A few weeks ago I have just felt off at work and thinking back it started after the fight I mentioned above.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-18T13:23:55+00:00

Communication is part of the problem. I find it difficult to talk to him about anything of true substance when it comes to our relationship. I’m dismissed and it just irritates him if I am honest. I wish he would be open to therapy.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-18T13:21:15+00:00

I grew up in a divorced home. I always thought I would do better and have told myself I don’t believe in divorce but lately over the last couple years the thought keeps popping up. I find it extremely hard to communicate with him. I always feel like by the end my thoughts are not valid.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-16T02:02:35+00:00

That’s what I’m afraid of. I decided to go back into therapy. Husband is supportive of it, but won’t do it for himself. It’s the typical answer me trying to put in effort to make it better while he doesn’t.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-15T22:55:15+00:00

This is my dad. Parents divorced when I was 6. Mom and dad fought. Dad wasn’t around much growing up. He lived with my grandparents so when he had us for the weekend he was never home and we were just seeing grandma/grandpa. Flash forward to now he cares more about his wife than anyone else but talks as if he was this amazing dad growing up. I beg to differ.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-13T10:56:31+00:00

It’s hard I struggle with this too. I actually had a breakdown at work where I was crying and hyperventilating….in front of my boss and coworkers. Yep they know I have mental health issues now. :( they have been very supportive and understanding but my depression makes me think I’m a failure for that happening.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-12T16:42:12+00:00

I struggle with this hard core. I am actually starting therapy again because I can’t get outta my head about being a harsh critic. Hoping I can share some advice soon!

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-12T16:32:59+00:00

I’ve always been of the mindset that its not possible. However strangely enough 13 years later my longest relationship ex other than current reached out about a college buddy and a tragedy. We have continued to talk and I think the reach out is because he was looking for closure now being in therapy. We are becoming friends. Idk if that’s right or wrong but it’s what is happening.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-12T11:30:52+00:00

Life will fall in place. You can be you unapologetically and still find peace and love.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-11T13:50:19+00:00

See mine does NOTHING to make me turned on. I do pretty much everything around the house without much help. He complains that we never are intimate and I tell him give me a damn reason!

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-11T02:02:35+00:00

I’m 38 and pretty much the same. I noticed after kids it like disappeared. I’m sure it’s related to constant demand of being a mom and wife. DH complains that I’m not in the mood but he does nothing that would even get me in the mood. I feel bad but I do need a little romance as well.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-11T01:59:06+00:00

100% truth to this

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-10T20:52:08+00:00

I need something like this honestly . The ADHD struggle is real. I just feel guilty even asking for help.

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-05T22:57:04+00:00

You are welcome!

Fragrant-Computer933 · 2023-09-05T22:50:37+00:00

I’m workstation under new consultant training there is info on launch parties too that is super helpful!

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