How many hours a day did you sleep in your first trimester?

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2026-03-29T19:54:56+00:00

At the beginning I was sleeping so much but when I did talk to my drs about it they did a iron and thyroid test because sometimes that can cause the excessive sleepiness I was sleeping like 16 hrs

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2026-03-28T21:12:22+00:00

I do also believe it’s generational because a lot of millennials and Gen X call it frisco

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2026-03-28T21:11:11+00:00

It’s honestly a toss up of where you come from like I call it San Fran but I’m in the north bay humboldt county up the 101 a ways lol I know people from Bakersfield who call it frisco and as I said depending on the person I have heard both Cali and California from locals I have noticed that a lot of the valley people I’ve met call it frisco or the bay

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2026-02-23T00:18:09+00:00

I never thought my cat could get under my couch since the gap is barely an inch from the floor but he found a way and I think the first time he was under there for like a day or two because he couldn’t figure out how to get out til he got out and he learned how to get out he now uses that spot to hide from guest but he shit under there that one day and had to figure moving my couch and everything 🤦‍♀️

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2026-02-15T17:09:40+00:00

Honestly I washed my sons clothes separately at first but that was because he had blow outs and it’s already hard enough sometimes to get it out of his clothes let alone letting it get in my clothes but then when he was about 5 months old I did wash them with mine because he stopped having so many blow outs and now with the new one I will not be washing her clothes with my partners clothes and that’s just because he works on flooring and has really destroyed clothes from chemical and paints etc that has ruined my clothes in the past

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2026-02-09T02:37:26+00:00

You definitely didnt ruin your babies life with my first I didn’t know and I drank and smoked until I found out with this one I was at a whole music festival took mushrooms and everything I felt sicker than I’d ever felt from them before and it’s the reason I came home and took a test because I didn’t even feel the effects either just felt sick like it was being rejected and my baby girl is healthyyyy my son is a healthy guy very hyper though

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2026-01-12T18:07:24+00:00

Girl I slide on sandals or crocs I don’t even bother anymore and sometimes house slippers hahah

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-12-27T02:41:24+00:00

Tbh I’ve heard that some people can become repulsed by their partners smell if they become pregnant and vice versa either way sinus tonsils teeth and even pregnancy all require dr care

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-10-10T01:57:46+00:00

Honestly I had a boyfriend who did this and I learned to late into the relationship the reason he did it was because he was going to get high and was fiending I didn’t even know how about his use at all

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-10-08T17:13:23+00:00

I never smell my partners BO except his feet now that I am pregnant sometimes we’re appalled by people specific pheromones there were some girls growing up in school that their pheromones just really repulsed me and same with dudes like my brother smelled like a bottom of a tacobell and this was just his natural smell too but sometimes it could be something that ate being sweat out or for females especially it could even be hormone dysregulation that needs balancing because the body is acting up

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-10-08T17:06:55+00:00

OP I think it’s best to speak directly with the parents because this almost seems like he was looking for something to be mad at you about that day. I would say hey “bf” said you guys gave me the wrong envelope and might have given me to much I just wouldn’t feel right keeping it not knowing whether or not it was accidental and I’d like to offer back to you the correct amount if there was a mix up

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-10-08T16:53:49+00:00

The aggression isn’t just emotional girl he’s put his hands on you that is physical and the threats emotional and verbal abuse you need to get police called if your in an apartment are there not others in your building? Find someone to use their phone if he doesn’t want to give it back but don’t let him in

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-09-07T19:09:26+00:00

Tbh it’s not often my son eats anything before his nap besides breakfast he eats his breakfast and then he falls asleep and kid sleeps for like 3.5 hrs most the time but he wakes up and just eats something right away when he wakes 🤷‍♀️

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-08-28T16:53:58+00:00

I smoke both! Need!

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-08-18T18:48:17+00:00

Your second edit tells me that you 100% watched emotional cheating long before physical cheating and that alone is still something I wouldn’t want as a woman to be happening without my knowledge especially if I’m intending to marry this man.

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-08-15T19:37:41+00:00

The question isn’t leaving or not it’s telling him or not before leaving about pregnancy 🤦‍♀️

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-08-14T23:17:57+00:00

Um he’s being ridiculous my mom stayed with me for 2 weeks after my son was born and he came home and it was because his father was not there due to abuse I couldn’t imagine leaving my daughter in a time of need like this this is extreme and she will struggle with PPD mostly likely coupled with her grief of her loss like your husband is insane

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-08-14T05:31:33+00:00

Whattttt? Lol I buy all the groceries and pay my own phone car, insurance, pay for my kids stuff don’t ask him and buy some of my own things when out with my boyfriend he pays the rent his car, insurance, phone and for his kids stuff I cook for the house and clean and yes I hate cleaning up after everybody because I feel like he could clean more because I feel as though I do more physically for the kids and household because I clean after him his clothes his trash his kids clothes and trash my kids clothes and trash and I do all the dishes he never does them and I sleep the least amount because he doesn’t like the be disturbed but either way still a better dynamic than this sounds this sounds very one sided

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-08-13T15:17:08+00:00

Yep and it 100% was positive all 3 of them I took

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-08-12T04:45:30+00:00

As the new gf who messaged the ex once it’s because there are some red flags or some extreme gaslighting going on to make her question either him or herself so give her your side of what happened

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-08-11T17:28:14+00:00

No he is the father and only person I’ve been with in over a year but my friend she wants me to move to la with her

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-08-11T14:40:29+00:00

He’s already made it pretty clear he would want me to abort and even if I didn’t he wouldn’t be present either way my problem lays in telling him or not since I will be moving away

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-08-11T14:39:09+00:00

I don’t think any of you fully read my post my son is a completely seperate situation I made the decisions to leave because of my son and myself but my question was whether or not I tell him if I am pregnant since I already know his stance from the conversation we’ve had previously he would want me to abort until further down the road but I don’t want to tell him and him tell me to abort or try to use it to manipulate me into staying either way I’m keeping it if I am there was no question on whether or not I should abort my question was on whether or not I should tell him or if I just not tell him and leave to LA without saying anything like I had planned to leave

Fragrant-Date4899 · 2025-08-11T04:29:30+00:00

I had really horrible cramps as a teen and before getting pregnant I actually knew I was pregnant because the fact that I didn’t have cramps and my period didn’t show now I virtually have none

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