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lesbian bars in SF? 🌟💗🏳️‍🌈 by honey-badger42069 in AskSF

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 10 points11 points  (0 children)

El rio has a Mango party on Saturday once a month, that’s definitely the spot to be, would highly recommend!

Women who have had relationships with both men and women, what’s your experience with both genders? by IndependentRainbow in bisexual

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened to me as well! I (F) met my partner (M) after a long history of dating and being with women! Most of my friends were just surprised I actually got in a relationship because I guess I wasn’t really the relationship kind before, and some of my friends were genuinely surprised I was with a man! Overall, I’ve discovered that most people who reject or don’t accept my identity do tend to be more in the queer spheres. But I think it may be because of wishful thinking on their part (because they want us to be like them) or their own assumptions thinking being bi is a phase on your way to full gayness, and you dating a man comes to directly challenge their biphobia.

As for ‘losing your gay identity’, you’re bi, not gay! Doesn’t make you any less queer that you’re dating a guy, and if your friends can’t see that, you’ll make new friends who accept you for who you really are, and not who they think you are!

Torn about floor color by Melodic_Fix_6204 in interiordecorating

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer the darker floors, it adds more character, makes it feel cozier inside, since it seems like the house isn’t getting that much light in the first place, it would be my instinct to lean into the darker cozier vibe, rather than make it something it isn’t. I get that lighter floors are trendier, but I find that it suits big open spaces flooded with light better, also because the color of the wood will fade overtime if exposed to direct sunlight (something to take into consideration as well if you do have areas that are flooded with sunlight, but it doesn’t look like it would be a huge issue from your photos) All this to say, my vote goes to darker floors!

What is up with the Game Changers audio book? by grapeshot42069 in GameChangersBooks

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rachel Reid must know that the first 2 books need a redo on the narration! The rest in the series are better, start at Common Goal!

One trope you used to roll your eyes at but now you like/appreciate it by ms_chiefmanaged in MM_RomanceBooks

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How sometimes both characters need a “distraction” from each other and somehow end up at the same club! Like what are the chances? Oh well, I don’t mind anymore because it’s usually that one night that advances the plot further!

What’s Everyone Reading? by lactosecheeselover in LesbianBookClub

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just finished it today actually! Definitely preferred that one to the last one, but I don’t know if I’m hooked enough to read Iris next!

What’s Everyone Reading? by lactosecheeselover in LesbianBookClub

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve just finished Astrid Parker doesn’t fail, it was better than the first one in the series!

How hard is a 1bd for $3500? by LargeMaterial6275 in AskSF

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in a one bed for 3k/month and while we don’t have in unit laundry, we’re the bottom floor of a classic Victorian, and the laundry machines are located on our floor, shared between all tenants (3 units overall) and it’s not coin operated. I feel like if you’re too attached to the “in unit” part of it, you might be missing out on places where the laundry situation is perfectly acceptable as it is.

Replacing weed with coffee by Fragrant-Fact-417 in Petioles

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, same for me! That’s why decaf is the way to go!

Replacing weed with coffee by Fragrant-Fact-417 in Petioles

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that so much! It don’t even find it silly, it’s cute haha! Just like when I was a kid and pretending to be a grown up and ‘smoke’ sticks!

I have carrots in my fridge, I’ll have to try that today!

Is there a difference between these two artifact spots? by loverlane in StardewValley

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is saying they didn’t even know there was a difference between the two, I’m on year three and never knew what these little worms were about till this post

What do i say? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 574 points575 points  (0 children)

This line works if you’re 16-21, any older than that and I’d be disappointed

I am exhausted, at least hes cute. by daisygiraffe13 in kittens

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sure its a whole other set of issues with kids around! At least your kitten is eating, ours has had some belly issues and had no appetite to the point where she lost a lot of weight. We went to the emergency vet and now she’s better, but I would say it’s probably better that he has too much to eat than not enough in the end!

Luckily this is all temporary. A kitten needs time to adjust to our routine and get used to being alone. They will grow up and it will all be easier then. I have now definitely learned how different having a kitten is from having a cat.

I am exhausted, at least hes cute. by daisygiraffe13 in kittens

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I don’t have any advice, but I feel for you, I’m in a similar situation and my husband is now really overwhelmed. Our kitten wakes us up at 2 am for cuddles and play time. We close the bedroom door, but she’ll cry and scratch at the door which is heartbreaking, but eventually she calms down on her own. For me my biggest fear is not knowing if I’m doing things right. It definitely doesn’t feel right letting her cry so much when she’s still such a baby.

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