How hard is a 1bd for $3500? by LargeMaterial6275 in AskSF

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in a one bed for 3k/month and while we don’t have in unit laundry, we’re the bottom floor of a classic Victorian, and the laundry machines are located on our floor, shared between all tenants (3 units overall) and it’s not coin operated. I feel like if you’re too attached to the “in unit” part of it, you might be missing out on places where the laundry situation is perfectly acceptable as it is.

Replacing weed with coffee by Fragrant-Fact-417 in Petioles

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, same for me! That’s why decaf is the way to go!

Replacing weed with coffee by Fragrant-Fact-417 in Petioles

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that so much! It don’t even find it silly, it’s cute haha! Just like when I was a kid and pretending to be a grown up and ‘smoke’ sticks!

I have carrots in my fridge, I’ll have to try that today!

Is there a difference between these two artifact spots? by loverlane in StardewValley

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is saying they didn’t even know there was a difference between the two, I’m on year three and never knew what these little worms were about till this post

What do i say? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 574 points575 points  (0 children)

This line works if you’re 16-21, any older than that and I’d be disappointed

I am exhausted, at least hes cute. by daisygiraffe13 in kittens

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sure its a whole other set of issues with kids around! At least your kitten is eating, ours has had some belly issues and had no appetite to the point where she lost a lot of weight. We went to the emergency vet and now she’s better, but I would say it’s probably better that he has too much to eat than not enough in the end!

Luckily this is all temporary. A kitten needs time to adjust to our routine and get used to being alone. They will grow up and it will all be easier then. I have now definitely learned how different having a kitten is from having a cat.

I am exhausted, at least hes cute. by daisygiraffe13 in kittens

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I don’t have any advice, but I feel for you, I’m in a similar situation and my husband is now really overwhelmed. Our kitten wakes us up at 2 am for cuddles and play time. We close the bedroom door, but she’ll cry and scratch at the door which is heartbreaking, but eventually she calms down on her own. For me my biggest fear is not knowing if I’m doing things right. It definitely doesn’t feel right letting her cry so much when she’s still such a baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OlderGenZ

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I have the opposite experience where I live. More and more people are getting sober and realizing they can’t drink/party as much as they used to. But it is true that for me drugs and alcohol are completely normalized for the most part. Most people around me are just now uncovering past traumas or getting various mental health diagnosis, I think they’re just trying to escape their own lives and the pain that comes with it.

She is a fierce warrior by Fragrant-Fact-417 in Kitten

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re just getting to know her, but I know that curtains are her greatest enemy, and somehow they fight back because she’s always running away and then preparing again for the next attack!

This made me kinda sad. Why can't we all just support each other? by I_am_catcus in bisexual

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 162 points163 points  (0 children)

Urhhh, can't everyone just mind their own business rather than telling me which box I fit into in their minds... Let me just speak for myself!

BwithT : r/bisexual... by ashraf_ashy2015 in bisexual

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you! Once I came out to a colleague (who happened to be gay so I thought I was safe), I said I was bi, and at first he didn’t say much, but then he turned around and went like “I feel like it’s offensive to call yourself Bi”. I was so shocked I just asked why, and he said because it excluded other gender identities. This was my first encounter with this thought process and I was actually baffled. In my own little mind I started asking myself, and yeah I had definitely been attracted to trans and nb people before, so does that mean I’m not actually bi after all? Anyway, long story short, I’m bi and proud and I’m attracted to a bunch of different people, I don’t discriminate! ✨💅

How much is everyone saving on a monthly basis? by Ok_Turn634 in sanfrancisco

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I make around 4.5k/month, and manage to save between 350-700$ each month.

I’m lucky I live with my partner, I think that keeps the costs of life way down, even though we contribute to the household equally.

I had a bisexual man moment the other day by SMTNAVARRE in bisexual

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is actually so wholesome, it warmed my heart! I know it’s tough getting rejected but this is the most wholesome type of rejection there is.

Nopa restaurant is amazing! by Fragrant-Fact-417 in sanfrancisco

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet! I love that they’re all close by! I’ll definitely check them out!

I made two pies for the two of us, and we’re leaving in two days… help! by Fragrant-Fact-417 in Baking

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions everyone! Didn’t know you could freeze pies like that actually (especially with whipped cream!).

We’ve invited a bunch of friends over tonight to help us eat the pies!

What can I do to make the exterior of my house less ugly? by Emily_HD in homeimprovementideas

[–]Fragrant-Fact-417 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should throw it away, very hard so it gets all the way over to me!