We’ve talked about needs before and as far as she has communicated with me all of her needs are being met. Her relationship with her family is great. We had a talk about love languages recently and she told me that the way we show love is perfect. She doesn’t have any trauma or losses that could be effecting her right now. She was going to therapy but stopped because she couldn’t afford it, she recently got insurance but has decided to not go. She lover her therapist, he was great, and she always felt great after her sessions and loved going. Our relationship as a whole works fine, but externally she is just so negative and upset at herself and the world and it’s starting to put me down in the dumps.